寶寶讓我更加發現自己的幸福 - 婚姻
By Lydia
at 2011-10-24T16:02
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從認識以來一直是遠距離相處
老公在加州,我在臺灣,婚前交往三年,老公總是一年回臺一次陪陪我
婚後一週他飛回美國,過些日子我在台灣發現就在那一週內我們有了寶寶
獨自度過了孕期的大多數日子,老公在我生產前兩週回臺定居
我知道他是個好脾氣又體貼的好好先生,但對同住生活的磨合還是有點擔心
待產、生產、產後那幾天,老公天天一下班就到小小的病房陪我
他每晚睡在窄小的躺椅上,時時替我按摩,餵我吃點東西
抱著行動不便的我上下床,還很勤快地清理尿桶
點點滴滴讓我好感動,他呵護我像呵護一個小女兒般
坐月子期間,他買中藥或補品給我毫不手軟
媽媽說和老公去買東西,每每勸阻老公別買這麼貴
老公總說「想買給滴答滴吃~」,她聽了就覺得很窩心
他做家事做得確實不夠細心,但每樣家事他都搶著做
直到現在寶寶兩個月多了,他仍然如此怕我做事累到
而且不太喜歡我騎車出去或者獨自去買東西
要去哪裡,他都想要開車載我,想要我什麼也不提就輕輕鬆鬆走走逛逛
每次去大賣場,他揹著寶寶在胸前到處走
把寶寶抱上樓後,還會自己將買回來的東西一趟趟提上樓
產假結束後,我們有請到府保母,保母人很好,寶寶睡著時會幫我們掃地拖地
現在我要做的家事只有將老公和我的髒衣服丟進洗衣機裡洗
他搶著做菜、搶著洗碗、搶著倒垃圾、搶著曬衣服,我搶輸他好幾次他也不喊累
若我趁他睡著先做了,他醒來還會怪我為何不交給他做就好
他比我晚下班,我回到家後從保母手中接過寶寶
只要顧到晚上八點他下班到家即可,接著他會和寶寶玩成一團又哄又教的
寶寶黏他比黏我還多得多,愛他愛得不得了
他會照顧寶寶直到半夜或凌晨寶寶就寢為止,中間有空就做做家事
我則早起幫寶寶做做早操和按摩的部分,而他還常勸我不要這麼早起不做也沒關係
我覺得他真是個很值得珍惜的好老公
薪水全數交給我,家中大小事也聽我作主,更要緊的是,非常疼愛我又疼寶寶
我很少看到男人除了玩小孩外會肯很有耐心長時間照顧小孩
假日我可以放心加班一整天,回到家看到家裡依然乾淨、寶寶依然可人
下班回家我可以放心先睡,寶寶才喜歡爸爸陪呢
他單獨照顧寶寶直到半夜兩三點也不發脾氣,最多只會說幾句寶寶不乖不睡覺
過幾天即將是結婚一週年紀念日,很感謝上天給了我這段美好的姻緣
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