家裡有錢就可以完全不陪孩子嗎? - 婚姻
By Thomas
at 2019-11-01T16:22
at 2019-11-01T16:22
Table of Contents
看不懂什麼叫做"都是自己的選擇"
一個有小孩的家庭大概有這幾項任務需要分配
1.經濟
2.家務
3.照顧孩子的吃喝拉撒
(陪孩子玩樂,陪孩子成長是兩方都要做的,無論前面三項如何分配)
以前傳統的家庭大多是經濟由男方負責,家務以及照顧孩子則是丟給女方
現今的社會則講求男女平等,通常是平均分配
例如1.2.3都是由夫妻倆合力互相配合
例如1由男方負責,2由女方負責,3由兩方合力
再來回到這個案例,按照原文敘述1以及2都是男方包辦了
那我就不懂了,要求女方照顧孩子的吃喝拉撒到底哪裡過分了?
難道今天因為男方不用花費什麼力氣就能包辦1跟2
所以前面說的公平分配都能丟掉不管,要求男方一起照顧孩子的吃喝拉撒?
這樣不對吧?
按照道理來說,男方既然包辦了1跟2,他就只需要陪小孩玩不是嗎?
你可以抱怨老公不陪小孩玩,但你不能抱怨老公不幫忙照顧小孩
這樣才對吧?
如果今天嫁給一般上班族,你要分配到的責任是(1+2+3)的一半
今天你很幸運得到了這樣的一個老公,所以你只需要負責3
這樣還能抱怨老公不跟你一起分配3?
甚至還想要得寸進尺要求請保母?
簡直是太誇張了!
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