家家有本難念的經 - 婚姻

By Jacky
at 2012-02-24T01:52
at 2012-02-24T01:52
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今天老婆又跟岳母吵架了,我再度去當和事佬了,以平息她母女倆的怒氣
每次吵架的原因只有一個,我岳母認為我老婆不尊重她,不瞭解她的苦心
老婆娘家在開店賣南北貨及禮品,岳母是一個還算蠻強勢的人
可能是她以前家裡困苦然又是長女,家裡大小事務都一肩扛
然後白手起家與岳父一起拼出還不錯的成績,所以在她眼中
她一切行為才是對的,所以今天才會成功,那些後生晚輩都不如她
她的觀點絕對不會錯,要是不順從就會被冠上翅膀硬了之類的話
她是生意人,非常認同送禮文化,喜歡用送禮來巴結以及攀親帶故
連小孩去駕訓班學開車,都會送東西給教練,更不用說學校老師了
甚至逢年過節,就會準備一堆禮盒,要我送給我的親戚朋友
我說我們家沒送禮的習慣,如果要送我們會去買,畢竟是我們的親戚
她不是說我們不會做人,就是說要禮尚往來,不然親友感情會淡掉
今天就是因為這樣,所以她們母女吵架了,這次連假要回我家
我們住的地方離娘家僅十分鐘車程,但我老家則是在外縣市
岳母拿了六個罐頭要叫我老婆帶回去,但是家裡只剩我媽一個人
平常又吃的非常清淡,都自己打精力湯等天然養生食品來吃
除非我們小孩有回家,不然幾乎是沒在開火煮飯的
加上我也不喜歡常常從她家拿東西,我老婆就說這麼多吃不完
拿個兩罐就好了,其他的留下來自己賣,岳母就很堅持要拿六罐
雙方一直僵持不下,最後岳母就說不要就算了,是她拿熱臉去貼冷屁股
老婆聽到這句話就有點火,講話就比較大聲,這下不得了了
岳母就更火了,開始說她翅膀硬了,會跟媽媽頂嘴了,可以自己作主了
都不知道她這樣是為她好,婆家會因為娘家常送東西,會對她好一點
然後又開始抱怨說她什麼都給小孩最好的,都沒人知道她的苦心之類的
說到後來又潸然淚下,說她很不值得,很想死給小孩子看之類的話
爭吵發生時我不在場,只是事後聽她們兩位各自表述而已
從結婚以來,應該說認識她以來,這類的爭吵不知道發生多少次了
前面說過,我岳母喜歡當王,大大小小的事都要管,然後要人家"很"尊重她
老婆跟公司請假她要管,因為老婆的假是要來幫忙店理,不是去玩的
之前拍婚紗時沒跟她說,生氣。挑婚紗沒跟她說,生氣。挑片沒說,生氣
婚紗照沒第一個給她看,生氣。國外蜜月沒天天打電話回家,生氣。
結婚過程中拍的照片沒主動給她看,生氣。原因都只有一個,就是不尊重她
先前說過,住的地方離娘家很近,如果有事其實一個電話就可以回去
但是她總是小孩要主動關心家裡的事,不是等她來叫才要回去
所以如果店裡忙或者有事要幫忙的,她絕對不會打電話來叫
等我們回去後,就開始擺臭臉給我老婆看,然後說家裡在忙都不會回去幫忙
誰會知道家裡在忙啊,真搞不懂打個電話有這麼難嗎?況且我們也有自己的家庭
而且她都是那種事後抱怨的,像我媽媽就直接問說,結婚的照片洗好了嗎?
我岳母則是說,結婚這麼久了,連一張照片都沒看到,到底有沒有尊重她啊?
每次看到老婆被岳母念到在哭,就會覺得很不捨,但是對長輩又不能怎樣
常常跟老婆說我們換工作離妳家遠一點,但是她又捨不得,因為爸爸身體不好
一個弟弟又剛念大學而已,實在放不太下,只能一直這樣無限迴圈下去
果真是家家有本難念的經啊...
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