媽媽跟老婆想法不同(補充說明) - 婚姻
By Jacob
at 2011-11-15T09:33
at 2011-11-15T09:33
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今年9月 我先生的外公去世了 我的小孩那時候2歲5個月左右
我娘家和我本身是有信鬼神之說,甚至奶奶和外婆弟弟都是走拜拜這條路的
雖然非喪家的長輩都會說不要帶小孩去 可是我還是有帶著我家小孩前往
1來是因為我相信人死後的靈魂在一段時間還是會在老家附近
所以對他們來說 這真的會是最後一面 (見仁見智拉)
2.來是因為 每年我們只回去外公家一次,這次回去也可以讓外婆舅舅們看看小孩
3來是因為我先生家也是無神論者 還沒經歷過的事情 你要他們相信有是很難說服他們的~~
加上我先生是很堅持我要帶小孩一起去 他覺得該送阿祖一程
(我兒子是老公外公家唯一的曾孫..對他們來說特具意義??)
所以針對小孩去喪事這個給你些小意見
如果最後還是決定帶小孩去參加
那請記得隨身攜帶花心水以及茉草葉
(茉草葉我記得是1個人9片 放在褲子裡在喪事的期間都不要拿出來
離開的時候把葉子全數丟掉 可以請外婆給個小紅包給小孩 意味討個紅~~)
我不知道原po是不知道怎麼和父母說小孩不去 還是你心裡也希望小孩要去
如果你自己心裡也希望小孩要去 那請做好防護措施
小小孩真的很容易受到外來的影響
不管是情緒(因為樂器很吵很大聲 小孩常會受到驚嚇)
或是無形的干擾
(ex 我家小孩曾經有次半夜還不睡被我打還在笑 眼睛還睜的超大的看著我
當下我就感覺到他被干擾到了 ...等 )
如果你是希望小孩不要去 可是不知道怎麼說服你父母 我也幫不上忙
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附帶說明
我去參加的時候 我先生是對我說 我顧小孩就好
也就是人到 外孫媳及外曾孫的禮俗我都不用做
專心顧我家小孩~~
不過如果有人幫忙顧的時候 我還是有去跪拜啥的
印象很深刻的是....出殯的前一天要爬一圈棺材旁邊
我排在最後面 等到輪到我要進去的時候~~看到我兒子也爬在我後面
原來是顧他的叔叔去上廁所了............囧
不過...我兒子還告訴我...那是誰....可是那邊是沒人的地方...囧
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