媽媽跟老婆想法不同(再次補充) - 婚姻
By Sierra Rose
at 2011-11-15T22:44
at 2011-11-15T22:44
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嗯 我今年5月才剛碰到。
我公公過世,我兒子當時才4個月。
公公過世後不論法會或出殯當天,我兒子都有到場。
一來他算是孫子,
二來覺得當他出生的時候,長輩很開心的送他紅包迎接他到這世界,
當長輩要離開,為什麼不能讓小孩送他一程呢?
於是我們就在寶寶的身上放了個紅包和艾草,(離開殯儀館後把草丟掉)
除了迎靈和送到火葬場寶寶沒有參加,從頭到尾他都在場。
中間我還帶著寶寶去殯儀館附設的餵乳室餵奶(這真是非常奇妙的經驗!)
在這之前不論有人跟我或老公說什麼怕吵怕煞怕......,
都在我和老公的共識下,完全沒有其他的雜音和異議。
對了,中間還有一個飯局的問題,
五月是母親節,我家兄弟姐妹平常都住外地。
五月剛好又是我娘生日,每年我們都一定要同時回家幫老娘慶生,
不過今年因為我遇到公公的狀況,
我算是"喪家"一個月不准回娘家,
飯局就自然沒了。
原po的問題我覺得很多人都說很清楚了,你只要說服老婆,
其他的雜音其實都會在兩人有共識後閉嘴,
老婆的擔心幫她去解決而不是爭辯。
我的例子算是都有講到你的問題了,
不過,你跟老婆就沒共識,
在這邊吵也很難吵出答案啊 囧
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我公公過世,我兒子當時才4個月。
公公過世後不論法會或出殯當天,我兒子都有到場。
一來他算是孫子,
二來覺得當他出生的時候,長輩很開心的送他紅包迎接他到這世界,
當長輩要離開,為什麼不能讓小孩送他一程呢?
於是我們就在寶寶的身上放了個紅包和艾草,(離開殯儀館後把草丟掉)
除了迎靈和送到火葬場寶寶沒有參加,從頭到尾他都在場。
中間我還帶著寶寶去殯儀館附設的餵乳室餵奶(這真是非常奇妙的經驗!)
在這之前不論有人跟我或老公說什麼怕吵怕煞怕......,
都在我和老公的共識下,完全沒有其他的雜音和異議。
對了,中間還有一個飯局的問題,
五月是母親節,我家兄弟姐妹平常都住外地。
五月剛好又是我娘生日,每年我們都一定要同時回家幫老娘慶生,
不過今年因為我遇到公公的狀況,
我算是"喪家"一個月不准回娘家,
飯局就自然沒了。
原po的問題我覺得很多人都說很清楚了,你只要說服老婆,
其他的雜音其實都會在兩人有共識後閉嘴,
老婆的擔心幫她去解決而不是爭辯。
我的例子算是都有講到你的問題了,
不過,你跟老婆就沒共識,
在這邊吵也很難吵出答案啊 囧
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