媽媽跟老婆想法不同(再次補充) - 婚姻
By Barb Cronin
at 2011-11-15T12:03
at 2011-11-15T12:03
Table of Contents
先謝謝版上各位朋友的指教
很多朋友也提出了一些實質上的建議~~
接下來回應一些版友的問題或說明
還是提醒看了我之前po文會不高興的版友們
建議現在就可以按左鍵離開 以免影響您等下中午吃飯的胃口
花時間去看自己不認同的文章 也是挺不智的的行為
感恩!
1.我本人是信基督教的 平常也是不捻香不祭拜的
但是遇到逢年過節拜祖先 或是清明祭拜我爺爺及外公時
我依然會跟著拜 依然會上香及燒紙錢
這跟鬼神論無關 這只是對先人的一種感懷的做法
因為家裡面就是這樣拜祖先 所以我順從長輩的意思 跟著拜
或許很多年後長輩都不在時 我不會再用這種模式祭拜祖先
但是現在家裡大人怎麼祭拜 我不會因為我個人的宗教信仰去反對他們的做法
這是我個人的想法 父母及家中長輩 絕對比任何鬼神或上帝來得重要
所以長輩的希望及要求 我會盡量做到
再次強調 這是我個人觀念 您可以不認同 不用接著往下看
以免浪費您的時間
2.前文中已經再三提到了
在這po文不是要跟大家爭觀念的對錯
只是要請教 "有同樣狀況同樣經驗" 的版友 是怎麼解決類似問題的
還是有很多版友回應說這個觀念不對或是不妥 甚至口出穢言
您要花時間造口業是您的自由 如果要繼續我們也無力阻攔
人家請問上籃的技巧 您回應說打籃球太危險了 不如改打桌球
人家討論數獨的解法 您說數獨一點都不好玩 還不如改下象棋
人家問五月天的門票那裡有賣 您在那噓說五月天有什麼好聽的
人家討論佛教的禮儀 您說不如改信基督教
這完全不是人家問題的所在 回應的內容也是牛頭不對馬嘴
如果您家裡沒有類似的經驗 那就建議您看看文章就好 不需費力回應了
如果看了文章內很多觀念跟您的想法差異太大 那就趕快看別篇
不要再浪費時間在您不愛看的文章上
就如同一些版友的回應 這樣"會很累"
3.很多版友提到了寶寶在現場誰來照顧的問題
放心 我們家這邊有一個幫傭 我外婆家那裡也有一個幫傭
他們是不需要跟著參拜的 所以至少有兩個人 可以幫忙顧小孩
很多朋友也很實際的提出了一些建議 建議寶寶不用全程參與
可能露個臉就可以先行離席 這是蠻有經驗且實際的建議
謝謝您的寶貴意見!!我們會參考朝這個方向去走的!
4.很多版友說我上來是討拍 是要找觀念跟我一樣的人出來推文認同我
我想您是多慮了 我上來討拍做甚麼? 扮家家酒嗎?
就算今天所有朋友都推文說我很棒 問題解決了嗎?
就算大家都噓爆我 問題還是存在呀
上來po文是想問"有同樣經驗的版友"是如何解決問題的 (再次強調 "有同樣經驗")
這句話大概前後po了快10次吧!
還是有人看了與您自己不同觀念的文就大力討伐
完全不去看清楚人家問的是什麼
如果您沒有類似的經驗 可以安靜的看文章就好 如果您看了文章覺得很火
可以不要繼續看 可以去看一些您看了會很爽的文
不用在此跟不認識的人嘔氣
還有人很熱心的去別版看我的po文 相當感謝您的熱情
對自己不認同的人及不認同的觀念 還那麼熱情的到處搜尋
也是挺不容易的!! 相當佩服您這種奇特的毅力!
5.對於真正有經驗且來信提供給我參考的版友們
真的很謝謝您的幫忙!!
這版上還是有很多理性看文 理性思考的前輩版友的!
謝謝你們!!
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很多朋友也提出了一些實質上的建議~~
接下來回應一些版友的問題或說明
還是提醒看了我之前po文會不高興的版友們
建議現在就可以按左鍵離開 以免影響您等下中午吃飯的胃口
花時間去看自己不認同的文章 也是挺不智的的行為
感恩!
1.我本人是信基督教的 平常也是不捻香不祭拜的
但是遇到逢年過節拜祖先 或是清明祭拜我爺爺及外公時
我依然會跟著拜 依然會上香及燒紙錢
這跟鬼神論無關 這只是對先人的一種感懷的做法
因為家裡面就是這樣拜祖先 所以我順從長輩的意思 跟著拜
或許很多年後長輩都不在時 我不會再用這種模式祭拜祖先
但是現在家裡大人怎麼祭拜 我不會因為我個人的宗教信仰去反對他們的做法
這是我個人的想法 父母及家中長輩 絕對比任何鬼神或上帝來得重要
所以長輩的希望及要求 我會盡量做到
再次強調 這是我個人觀念 您可以不認同 不用接著往下看
以免浪費您的時間
2.前文中已經再三提到了
在這po文不是要跟大家爭觀念的對錯
只是要請教 "有同樣狀況同樣經驗" 的版友 是怎麼解決類似問題的
還是有很多版友回應說這個觀念不對或是不妥 甚至口出穢言
您要花時間造口業是您的自由 如果要繼續我們也無力阻攔
人家請問上籃的技巧 您回應說打籃球太危險了 不如改打桌球
人家討論數獨的解法 您說數獨一點都不好玩 還不如改下象棋
人家問五月天的門票那裡有賣 您在那噓說五月天有什麼好聽的
人家討論佛教的禮儀 您說不如改信基督教
這完全不是人家問題的所在 回應的內容也是牛頭不對馬嘴
如果您家裡沒有類似的經驗 那就建議您看看文章就好 不需費力回應了
如果看了文章內很多觀念跟您的想法差異太大 那就趕快看別篇
不要再浪費時間在您不愛看的文章上
就如同一些版友的回應 這樣"會很累"
3.很多版友提到了寶寶在現場誰來照顧的問題
放心 我們家這邊有一個幫傭 我外婆家那裡也有一個幫傭
他們是不需要跟著參拜的 所以至少有兩個人 可以幫忙顧小孩
很多朋友也很實際的提出了一些建議 建議寶寶不用全程參與
可能露個臉就可以先行離席 這是蠻有經驗且實際的建議
謝謝您的寶貴意見!!我們會參考朝這個方向去走的!
4.很多版友說我上來是討拍 是要找觀念跟我一樣的人出來推文認同我
我想您是多慮了 我上來討拍做甚麼? 扮家家酒嗎?
就算今天所有朋友都推文說我很棒 問題解決了嗎?
就算大家都噓爆我 問題還是存在呀
上來po文是想問"有同樣經驗的版友"是如何解決問題的 (再次強調 "有同樣經驗")
這句話大概前後po了快10次吧!
還是有人看了與您自己不同觀念的文就大力討伐
完全不去看清楚人家問的是什麼
如果您沒有類似的經驗 可以安靜的看文章就好 如果您看了文章覺得很火
可以不要繼續看 可以去看一些您看了會很爽的文
不用在此跟不認識的人嘔氣
還有人很熱心的去別版看我的po文 相當感謝您的熱情
對自己不認同的人及不認同的觀念 還那麼熱情的到處搜尋
也是挺不容易的!! 相當佩服您這種奇特的毅力!
5.對於真正有經驗且來信提供給我參考的版友們
真的很謝謝您的幫忙!!
這版上還是有很多理性看文 理性思考的前輩版友的!
謝謝你們!!
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