媳婦的本分(續) - 婚姻

Donna avatar
By Donna
at 2013-01-20T18:55

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我是原po
謝謝大家的意見,讓我更確定我的決定
之前待久了差點被洗腦都是我的錯,是我不孝順
所幸我有支持我的父母
今天跟我父母去他家攤牌了,逃離那棟房子,重新擁有生活的自主權。

未來可能會比較辛苦
但心情是輕鬆的

今天的陽光很溫暖

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All Comments

Olga avatar
By Olga
at 2013-01-24T11:09
要幸福
Michael avatar
By Michael
at 2013-01-24T15:54
加油 要幸福
Steve avatar
By Steve
at 2013-01-28T19:21
恭喜你 好好孝順你爸媽吧 那才是你要好好對待的人^^
Oliver avatar
By Oliver
at 2013-02-02T05:35
然後之後他們出什麼招 千萬不要心軟喔~
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2013-02-05T19:18
恭喜恭喜
Jessica avatar
By Jessica
at 2013-02-07T18:00
加油!!
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2013-02-12T09:52
加油!!幸福靠自己喔~(挺)
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2013-02-16T14:04
恭喜
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2013-02-21T05:02
加油,你可以的
Kristin avatar
By Kristin
at 2013-02-21T16:43
恭喜,懷孕好辛苦,回家好好待產吧
Candice avatar
By Candice
at 2013-02-24T22:20
以德報怨,何以報直?好好孝順「自己」的父母最重要
Andrew avatar
By Andrew
at 2013-02-26T07:34
恭喜...恭喜!!這是今天看過最令人開心的文~
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2013-02-27T01:21
恭喜恭喜:)
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2013-02-28T16:41
未來不見得比離開前辛苦唷!加油!
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2013-02-28T19:02
加油喔!!!!!
Mia avatar
By Mia
at 2013-03-01T15:36
千萬不要心軟 一旦結了又離 真的很慘很慘阿
Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2013-03-06T08:04
恭喜 要堅持下去
Gary avatar
By Gary
at 2013-03-09T23:28
恭喜,未來的日子很辛苦但很自由,加油。
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2013-03-12T08:10
恭喜!未來的日子很辛苦,但看著孩子一天天長大很幸福
Agatha avatar
By Agatha
at 2013-03-14T02:00
幸好有支持妳的家人,祝福妳!
Carol avatar
By Carol
at 2013-03-15T22:58
恭喜你 明智的選擇
Lily avatar
By Lily
at 2013-03-16T13:35
未來的日子絕對比待在那裡好1萬倍 不會辛苦啦!!!
Gary avatar
By Gary
at 2013-03-18T10:37
恭喜啊!:D
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2013-03-23T06:40
恭喜你
Frederica avatar
By Frederica
at 2013-03-26T14:40
恭喜你做出最正確的決定,對你跟孩子都好,加油!
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2013-03-27T12:23
恭喜,保持愉快的心情待產喔~日子會更好的^^
Kyle avatar
By Kyle
at 2013-04-01T00:28
恭喜恭喜 要加油喔
Gilbert avatar
By Gilbert
at 2013-04-04T09:12
加油!!
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2013-04-08T22:36
好棒!!
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2013-04-13T02:39
你好棒 加油哦!!! 接下來的人生一定會更好的
Poppy avatar
By Poppy
at 2013-04-16T18:24
恭喜!
Hedda avatar
By Hedda
at 2013-04-21T05:02
我在第一篇說妳只是上來拍拍,沒想到真的下定決心離開
Noah avatar
By Noah
at 2013-04-23T21:59
加油,離開之後,妳會發現前方更美好,恭喜妳
Joseph avatar
By Joseph
at 2013-04-23T23:35
離開後雖然一個人照顧小孩很累,但總比妳結婚後,除了
照顧小孩,又要照顧一家老小+家事全包
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2013-04-27T05:52
要做這樣的決定不容易 你也很幸運有這樣支持你的父母
Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2013-04-27T22:16
加油喔
Steve avatar
By Steve
at 2013-04-28T18:10
加油!你能做這樣的決定真的很不容易也很了不起:)
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2013-05-02T12:53
記得在法律上要求父親付撫養費,免得他們沒事來煩你
Zenobia avatar
By Zenobia
at 2013-05-04T18:08
恭喜~~~~ 相信有一個開心的媽媽,小孩也會開心
Hedda avatar
By Hedda
at 2013-05-09T09:30
推呀 加油!!!
雖然我不認識妳 但是希望妳一切順利
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2013-05-12T18:50
恭喜你
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2013-05-15T01:39
加油!要對自己跟寶寶好一點!
Iris avatar
By Iris
at 2013-05-17T14:06
恭喜 加油
Todd Johnson avatar
By Todd Johnson
at 2013-05-18T12:11
加油~日後再辛苦也是為自已與孩子,而不是為不珍惜自己的人
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2013-05-21T03:15
恭喜你,不正常的環境待久真的會瘋掉
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2013-05-22T03:00
加油!是聰明且有勇氣的決定:)
Iris avatar
By Iris
at 2013-05-25T06:42
妳好棒!加油:)
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2013-05-26T14:50
恭喜妳!!!
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2013-05-27T12:46
勇敢的媽媽,讚!
Zora avatar
By Zora
at 2013-05-31T10:05
加油,不要怕孩子被搶的話,注意累積優勢!
Iris avatar
By Iris
at 2013-06-02T04:48
恭喜!!
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2013-06-06T13:01
加油!!!把人生抓在自己手上吧!
Suhail Hany avatar
By Suhail Hany
at 2013-06-08T10:45
聰明勇敢的決定!一定要堅持下去!!會幸福的!
Cara avatar
By Cara
at 2013-06-10T18:15
祝福妳和孩子幸福快樂 加油
Zenobia avatar
By Zenobia
at 2013-06-11T04:13
恭喜你 祝福你 未來會更好
Liam avatar
By Liam
at 2013-06-14T21:44
恭喜!妳太棒了!加油喔!
Rosalind avatar
By Rosalind
at 2013-06-16T14:44
加油
Christine avatar
By Christine
at 2013-06-21T07:38
恭喜~
Doris avatar
By Doris
at 2013-06-23T20:17
還好你離開了,不然一輩子生活在那裡,太可怕
Steve avatar
By Steve
at 2013-06-26T02:13
你很了不起!!!恭喜你 你做的決定是對的! 加油
Tristan Cohan avatar
By Tristan Cohan
at 2013-06-30T06:05
你好了不起 加油!
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2013-07-02T06:21
推!!!!!!!這絕對是你這一生最正確的決定之一!!!!!!
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2013-07-04T06:58
別擔心以後的人生,至少你有愛你的父母跟孩子陪你
加油^^
Audriana avatar
By Audriana
at 2013-07-07T03:36
加油喔!
Valerie avatar
By Valerie
at 2013-07-10T21:21
加油:)
John avatar
By John
at 2013-07-14T23:50
本來想回文跟你説我的同事也有非婚生子 大家都會幫忙你的。
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2013-07-16T04:24
會給你很多恩典牌,會幫你尋求資源,會愛你的小孩。
Oscar avatar
By Oscar
at 2013-07-20T15:58
但是你更幸運 有很愛你挺你的父母
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2013-07-22T14:52
賀!
Frederic avatar
By Frederic
at 2013-07-26T08:32
推!祝福妳
Heather avatar
By Heather
at 2013-07-28T11:10
加油!
Enid avatar
By Enid
at 2013-07-31T20:14
很高興救到妳:-)
Rae avatar
By Rae
at 2013-08-02T21:57
恭喜妳 離開心更寬
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2013-08-07T21:26
那本書我有看過XD
Candice avatar
By Candice
at 2013-08-09T03:18
做重大決定時 經過深思熟慮 就是對自己負責
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2013-08-11T10:26
你很堅強,也很幸運。 妳和妳的小孩值得更好的!
Elizabeth avatar
By Elizabeth
at 2013-08-13T05:40
加油喔
Lily avatar
By Lily
at 2013-08-13T16:10
加油喔
Isla avatar
By Isla
at 2013-08-17T04:27
你真的很棒~做了你最正確的決定,父母也是很棒很支持你
Candice avatar
By Candice
at 2013-08-19T15:25
奇怪?反媳婦板的人怎麼這時候都靜悄悄的?
Dora avatar
By Dora
at 2013-08-22T08:51
我現在的婆婆是比我媽媽好很多 所以我很擔心弟弟未來的老婆
Adele avatar
By Adele
at 2013-08-23T06:34
恭喜妳!
Thomas avatar
By Thomas
at 2013-08-25T08:12
恭喜妳!!還有挺妳的父母,希望妳跟小朋友未來都能平安^^
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2013-08-26T01:52
我媽也是奇怪的歐巴桑 就是那種整天說我們年輕人多好命的
Xanthe avatar
By Xanthe
at 2013-08-27T09:03
加油!祝福你跟小寶寶
Jake avatar
By Jake
at 2013-08-30T08:30
加油
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2013-09-02T15:29
給妳一個大推 一定要幸褔哦
Kumar avatar
By Kumar
at 2013-09-06T13:54
加油
Lily avatar
By Lily
at 2013-09-08T04:45
你好堅強,也很勇敢,未來的路雖然不確定,但是是有陽光的...
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2013-09-12T17:02
恭喜你,終於看到沒有鬼打牆的了~ 要加油喔!!!!
Faithe avatar
By Faithe
at 2013-09-16T09:59
妳超勇敢的 !! 加油!!!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2013-09-18T02:57
祝福妳~~~~
Mary avatar
By Mary
at 2013-09-22T18:42
加油!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2013-09-23T01:15
Good~~加油,這樣生活對小孩會更好~
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2013-09-27T00:47
有父母支持真的要感恩 加油
Quintina avatar
By Quintina
at 2013-10-02T00:23
我很好奇妳帶父母去他們家攤牌,他們會是什麼表情?
Rebecca avatar
By Rebecca
at 2013-10-04T05:34
我會比較傾向圓融的處理方式 因為即使是自己的兒女
Bennie avatar
By Bennie
at 2013-10-05T20:47
我都尊重他們自己的決定 要跟誰結婚或是怎麼樣
Iris avatar
By Iris
at 2013-10-10T11:07
自己想清楚才是負責任的作法
Kyle avatar
By Kyle
at 2013-10-13T15:32
加油 我覺得你很厲害 : )
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2013-10-15T23:10
你超集勇敢的耶 加油!!
Emma avatar
By Emma
at 2013-10-17T22:37
恭喜恭喜!加油唷!
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2013-10-18T02:28
恭喜,要加油喔!一切都會順利的
Aaliyah avatar
By Aaliyah
at 2013-10-21T22:28
太好了!!天阿拜託你無論如何不要回頭!!加油妳會過得更好^^
Connor avatar
By Connor
at 2013-10-26T09:45
天阿~ 你要加油 走出人生更美好的路~恭喜妳
Elma avatar
By Elma
at 2013-10-31T09:34
妳做了對自己、家人、寶寶都好的決定!佩服妳的決斷!!
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2013-11-01T19:21
我相信妳經過這次心路歷程,往後的步伐會更加穩健和智慧
Franklin avatar
By Franklin
at 2013-11-02T00:53
加油!妳一定會過得更好的!
Ethan avatar
By Ethan
at 2013-11-03T15:07
寶寶在充滿愛和尊重的環境成長,這是妳給他最棒的禮物!
Eden avatar
By Eden
at 2013-11-08T08:07
恭喜~要加油喔^^~你和寶寶有個明亮的未來
Edward Lewis avatar
By Edward Lewis
at 2013-11-12T00:36
恭喜你做了個非常正確的決定,如果有需要小朋友的東西,
Tracy avatar
By Tracy
at 2013-11-13T16:15
相信自己現在做的決定 !!
Queena avatar
By Queena
at 2013-11-17T20:07
非常樂意幫忙
Yedda avatar
By Yedda
at 2013-11-20T14:35
你以後一定會慶幸自己當下做了這個的決定!!
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2013-11-20T17:06
戲劇性強大到直接說一聲恭喜妳
Caitlin avatar
By Caitlin
at 2013-11-22T06:40
恭喜你!你救了自己和小孩,一定會幸福的
Kristin avatar
By Kristin
at 2013-11-25T09:41
加油!!!!!
Una avatar
By Una
at 2013-11-26T00:20
祝愈來愈好。
Hedwig avatar
By Hedwig
at 2013-11-30T19:19
加油 一定要堅定自己的心喔 :)
Jake avatar
By Jake
at 2013-12-02T17:59
加油!希望你更順遂~:D
Olga avatar
By Olga
at 2013-12-05T11:04
好好為自己 為孩子 為父母 不要被當奴隸啊啊啊~~~加油
Ursula avatar
By Ursula
at 2013-12-10T04:16
加油!
Hedwig avatar
By Hedwig
at 2013-12-15T02:38
恭喜妳!!!未來一定會更棒更快樂的!!!
Bethany avatar
By Bethany
at 2013-12-17T03:06
加油!!!!!
Charlie avatar
By Charlie
at 2013-12-18T15:42
你會幸福的!!
Isabella avatar
By Isabella
at 2013-12-20T23:07
你超棒的!以後一定會更更更幸福的!
Edith avatar
By Edith
at 2013-12-22T20:54
你勇敢的堅持了對的選擇. 恭喜你
Christine avatar
By Christine
at 2013-12-24T20:48
恭喜 加油
Skylar Davis avatar
By Skylar Davis
at 2013-12-28T16:21
恭喜妳做了對的決定 妳和寶寶一定會幸福的 加油
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2014-01-01T22:43
推,你父母真的很愛你,要好好珍惜,祝福你
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-01-05T17:30
恭喜妳!再回頭又看一次原文要在那種家庭和孩子過一輩子
感覺是在坐無期徒刑的牢,還好妳跳過那個階段直接出來了
Dinah avatar
By Dinah
at 2014-01-10T00:45
可喜可賀!
Carolina Franco avatar
By Carolina Franco
at 2014-01-13T22:59
願主保守你與你的小孩 :)
David avatar
By David
at 2014-01-15T09:11
加油!妳有勇氣,有家庭支援.現在一堆社福資源妳也可以利用
初期難關一定很快就過去的.
Ina avatar
By Ina
at 2014-01-18T19:21
恭喜呀!!!
Robert avatar
By Robert
at 2014-01-22T10:29
加油 我同學也是帶剛出生的小孩逃離前夫家庭 現在很幸福
Lydia avatar
By Lydia
at 2014-01-23T05:39
很替你開心!寶寶有你這個媽咪,會很幸福的~
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2014-01-25T11:09
我猜夫家很有錢..不然怎麼會有人肯嫁這種老公...
Ophelia avatar
By Ophelia
at 2014-01-30T08:12
恭喜你做了正確的決定!
Kelly avatar
By Kelly
at 2014-02-02T14:46
加油!!
Edwina avatar
By Edwina
at 2014-02-03T12:03
恭喜你 加油
Thomas avatar
By Thomas
at 2014-02-04T21:50
加由 希望妳能過得更幸福 順利生上一個可愛健康的寶寶喔~
Ivy avatar
By Ivy
at 2014-02-07T17:58
加油!!!為自己活
Harry avatar
By Harry
at 2014-02-08T11:26
恭喜妳^^
Andrew avatar
By Andrew
at 2014-02-11T10:11
加油~~~~
Megan avatar
By Megan
at 2014-02-12T23:16
只好大推你阿母了!賀!未來路還很長,加油!
Agnes avatar
By Agnes
at 2014-02-14T19:13
父母
Jacob avatar
By Jacob
at 2014-02-19T07:41
加油!祝福妳。
Linda avatar
By Linda
at 2014-02-20T21:43
恭禧~!! 也祝福你~!!!
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2014-02-23T00:22
加油~!
Caroline avatar
By Caroline
at 2014-02-26T19:14
恭喜你想開了,你有對好父母,要好好孝順他們哦
Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2014-02-28T03:52
加油!
Damian avatar
By Damian
at 2014-03-01T18:33
恭喜你!加油!
Sierra Rose avatar
By Sierra Rose
at 2014-03-04T11:00
加油!!祝福妳
Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2014-03-05T19:02
恭喜! 真正喜事一件,要幸福喔
Genevieve avatar
By Genevieve
at 2014-03-06T09:49
恭喜你~加油喔~~
Oscar avatar
By Oscar
at 2014-03-06T15:09
加油!!!未來會更好!你做了一個正確又很有勇氣的抉擇!!
Irma avatar
By Irma
at 2014-03-08T11:23
加油
Daniel avatar
By Daniel
at 2014-03-10T19:29
加油!!你很勇敢!!
Margaret avatar
By Margaret
at 2014-03-12T19:15
加油,妳是個勇敢的好女生,也會是個好媽媽!妳的寶寶
有妳這麼明智的母親很幸福,妳們會過得非常棒!
Skylar DavisLinda avatar
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2014-03-14T21:42
加油加油!!祝福妳!!
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2014-03-18T06:14
你很勇敢 你的決定是對的!!
Blanche avatar
By Blanche
at 2014-03-18T23:00
加油!
Joe avatar
By Joe
at 2014-03-23T14:52
有這麼勇敢的媽媽 你的寶寶一定會健康平安長大的!!!
Zanna avatar
By Zanna
at 2014-03-28T11:05
加油!
Necoo avatar
By Necoo
at 2014-04-02T00:12
加油!別心軟回頭
Anthony avatar
By Anthony
at 2014-04-02T15:47
恭喜呀~離開這樣的另一半和夫家,你一定會比過去快樂的
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2014-04-04T20:26
恭喜,也拍拍,這真的好不容易
Kyle avatar
By Kyle
at 2014-04-06T04:38
加油 明智 溫馨 拍拍
Callum avatar
By Callum
at 2014-04-11T01:16
超棒的!! 加油
Lucy avatar
By Lucy
at 2014-04-15T23:10
你真的好棒!!人生是自己的,別浪費在爛人手中
Puput avatar
By Puput
at 2014-04-17T16:58
加油,很高興看到妳用行動做出選擇!祝福妳和寶寶喔~
Dorothy avatar
By Dorothy
at 2014-04-21T12:07
祝福妳
Kyle avatar
By Kyle
at 2014-04-24T17:03
祝福你也恭喜你!寶寶可以健康平安長大!
Barb Cronin avatar
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-04-28T10:12
恭喜
Ida avatar
By Ida
at 2014-05-02T08:40
恭喜你,妳不逃的話我還真的很替你跟你的寶寶擔心
Eartha avatar
By Eartha
at 2014-05-05T17:51
爸爸工作不穩定,爺爺這麼威權,媽媽下班回家要打掃顧小孩
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By Yuri
at 2014-05-08T22:06
而且可能爺爺奶奶還會在小孩面前說媽媽壞話,好恐怖的家庭
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By Daniel
at 2014-05-13T11:32
恭喜喔!!妳很棒~~
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By Kristin
at 2014-05-14T13:56
加油 祝福你
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By Erin
at 2014-05-18T09:32
加油!記得要讓寶寶是非婚生子,寶寶才不會被搶走
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By Irma
at 2014-05-19T00:19
幸福的單親家庭比不幸的雙親家庭好太多ㄌㄜ˙ㄅ
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By Hedwig
at 2014-05-22T04:46
寒流來襲手洗衣物不給用溫水只能在戶外用陽台冷水手洗
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By Eden
at 2014-05-26T06:58
這種沒人性家庭 不宜久待
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By Ophelia
at 2014-05-28T02:42
看你一路辛酸的同事們 都會為你加油
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By Hardy
at 2014-05-29T02:11
祝福你!
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By Tristan Cohan
at 2014-05-31T22:26
加油~
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By Leila
at 2014-06-04T15:25
加油 未來或許會辛苦些 但我想總比在原本的環境好N倍!
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By Hedwig
at 2014-06-09T05:42
美好的未來在等著你喔

決定結婚的前一刻 我卻感到徬徨了

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By Yuri
at 2013-01-20T16:19
※ 引述《divina (callas)》之銘言: : 您要怎麼決定我覺得都好,我只講這邊內容裡感覺很不入眼的地方 : : 就在奶奶家生活 他爸媽一手帶大孩子 這樣幫人養孩子(孩子又不歸自己) 他爸媽也痛苦 : ^^^^^^^^^ ...

決定結婚的前一刻 我卻感到徬徨了

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By Anonymous
at 2013-01-20T16:11
您要怎麼決定我覺得都好,我只講這邊內容裡感覺很不入眼的地方 : 就在奶奶家生活 他爸媽一手帶大孩子 這樣幫人養孩子(孩子又不歸自己) 他爸媽也痛苦 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ 什麼叫做『幫人』養孩子啊! ...

決定結婚的前一刻 我卻感到徬徨了

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By Heather
at 2013-01-20T15:58
※ 引述《EEEEEEE (HHHHHH)》之銘言: : 先生是二婚 有過一對女兒 老家是上海人 前妻也住上海 他是PRC國籍嗎? 是上海戶口嗎? 還是祖籍在上海的台灣人? 這邊可能要交代清楚點。 : 他們離婚時去協議公證過 孩子歸前妻 我先生每月付款 : 孩子在上海生活 由前妻和爺乃輪流照顧 這是我知道 ...

養小孩的責任分擔,真的是我的錯嗎?

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By Vanessa
at 2013-01-20T11:32
第一,8個月大了作息還沒正常 以我小嬸老大為例,我從來沒看過那麼難帶的寶寶 我沒有半句誇張,她6.7個月大前給我的印象就是只有and#34;哭and#34; 我一直覺得是大人造成的,養成她變成高需求寶寶 未滿月時一堆人不管她是不是在睡,去找她就是抱起來搖抱起來玩 造成她晚上沒睡好,白天狂睡,作息不正常的結果 ...

該不該治療…

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By Edith
at 2013-01-20T11:32
分享一下 我祖母在十年前得了胃癌, 由我媽媽負責照顧, 因為是二期,所以醫師建議是切除三分之二的胃。 照顧者真的很辛苦,我媽那時候幾乎二十四小時守在長庚, 術後的飲食更是需要注意,那真的很折騰人.... 不過傳統如我媽媽,還是咬著牙撐下來.... 所幸手術成功,我祖母現在依然健在, 但是好景不常,去年中, ...