媳婦的本分 - 婚姻
By Ida
at 2013-01-25T23:13
at 2013-01-25T23:13
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※ 引述《cityroy (宇宙至尊招搖痞子)》之銘言:
: 看了原po和這麼多板友的回應
: 發現有些板友一直把重點放在"是不是媳婦應該做的"這個爭議上
: 但是我想問 即使妳是以一個朋友的身分到別人家作客(未必是男朋友家)
: 別人爸媽張羅餐點的時候
: 難道都不會想說起身幫忙端盤子擺碗筷 吃完不會想說幫忙收拾 就坐在那邊看著嗎?
: 即使是做做樣子也好 而長輩大部分都會說他們自己來就ok
話說很多人去朋友家作客是會幫主人家分擔一些雜務
表示自己的善意。
不過根據一二次世界大戰的記錄,跟歷史上諸多牢獄相關文獻指出,
被抓到集中營裡被命令服勞役的囚犯們沒有一個是興高采烈的分享自己的
「善意」,更多的是採取反抗動作吧。
: (雖然我真的覺得有些事情真的就是相處間的互相&晚輩對長輩的禮貌
: 不必太鑽牛角尖於"媳婦的本分"這個定位上...)
很多媳婦或者女婿(咦? 我想到 liffe 大)們的心態都是 。
--
: 看了原po和這麼多板友的回應
: 發現有些板友一直把重點放在"是不是媳婦應該做的"這個爭議上
: 但是我想問 即使妳是以一個朋友的身分到別人家作客(未必是男朋友家)
: 別人爸媽張羅餐點的時候
: 難道都不會想說起身幫忙端盤子擺碗筷 吃完不會想說幫忙收拾 就坐在那邊看著嗎?
: 即使是做做樣子也好 而長輩大部分都會說他們自己來就ok
話說很多人去朋友家作客是會幫主人家分擔一些雜務
表示自己的善意。
不過根據一二次世界大戰的記錄,跟歷史上諸多牢獄相關文獻指出,
被抓到集中營裡被命令服勞役的囚犯們沒有一個是興高采烈的分享自己的
「善意」,更多的是採取反抗動作吧。
: (雖然我真的覺得有些事情真的就是相處間的互相&晚輩對長輩的禮貌
: 不必太鑽牛角尖於"媳婦的本分"這個定位上...)
很多媳婦或者女婿(咦? 我想到 liffe 大)們的心態都是 。
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