媳婦的本分 - 婚姻

By Dorothy
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看了原po和這麼多板友的回應
發現有些板友一直把重點放在"是不是媳婦應該做的"這個爭議上
但是我想問 即使妳是以一個朋友的身分到別人家作客(未必是男朋友家)
別人爸媽張羅餐點的時候
難道都不會想說起身幫忙端盤子擺碗筷 吃完不會想說幫忙收拾 就坐在那邊看著嗎?
即使是做做樣子也好 而長輩大部分都會說他們自己來就ok
就算是演出來的 至少給長輩的印象應該不會太差
更何況今天是已經嫁到別人家一起生活的狀態
說幫忙剝剝蝦可能真的有點機歪 但是連一般的生活禮儀都要上綱到婆媳相處的壓力
我就真的不太能夠苟同
很多板友也同時撻伐原po沒有用相同標準來對待岳父岳母
所以老婆也不用做到這些 這樣冤冤相報的相處模式似乎不會改善問題啊
為何不反過來請原po自己也試著做到他覺得對對方父母該做的部分
這樣也更有立場"請"他老婆也能如此對待公婆~
(雖然我真的覺得有些事情真的就是相處間的互相&晚輩對長輩的禮貌
不必太鑽牛角尖於"媳婦的本分"這個定位上...)
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發現有些板友一直把重點放在"是不是媳婦應該做的"這個爭議上
但是我想問 即使妳是以一個朋友的身分到別人家作客(未必是男朋友家)
別人爸媽張羅餐點的時候
難道都不會想說起身幫忙端盤子擺碗筷 吃完不會想說幫忙收拾 就坐在那邊看著嗎?
即使是做做樣子也好 而長輩大部分都會說他們自己來就ok
就算是演出來的 至少給長輩的印象應該不會太差
更何況今天是已經嫁到別人家一起生活的狀態
說幫忙剝剝蝦可能真的有點機歪 但是連一般的生活禮儀都要上綱到婆媳相處的壓力
我就真的不太能夠苟同
很多板友也同時撻伐原po沒有用相同標準來對待岳父岳母
所以老婆也不用做到這些 這樣冤冤相報的相處模式似乎不會改善問題啊
為何不反過來請原po自己也試著做到他覺得對對方父母該做的部分
這樣也更有立場"請"他老婆也能如此對待公婆~
(雖然我真的覺得有些事情真的就是相處間的互相&晚輩對長輩的禮貌
不必太鑽牛角尖於"媳婦的本分"這個定位上...)
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