媳婦的本分 - 婚姻
By Callum
at 2013-01-25T00:10
at 2013-01-25T00:10
Table of Contents
剛結婚沒多久
沒有跟爸媽一起住
我老婆卻不知道媳婦要做甚麼
我的要求也不多 只有一件事
就是每兩個禮拜天回我爸媽家吃一次飯 吃完後她可以幫忙洗碗
我不要求我老婆可以幫忙煮
也沒有要求幫我爸媽做任何其他事情 (我爸媽也從來沒要求她)
只是覺得如果一起吃飯 如果甚麼事都不幫忙 難道她不會不好意思嗎?
就算沒心孝順 好歹也應付一下 洗個碗 做一下媳婦的樣子
但是她覺得很委屈
另外她也覺得幫我爸媽 幫我阿公阿罵夾菜 剝蝦子 很委屈 (剛剛講到都哭了)
她覺得她不是小妹 為什麼她要做這些事
我反問她 那你覺得媳婦應該要做甚麼?
她說她嚮往美國哪種互不相打擾的方式
過年見個面 如果生病再帶去看醫生就好 讓我很傻眼
對我來說 我比較傳統
我認為結了婚 就不再只是我一家人的事情 是兩家人的事
但是我老婆卻不這麼認為
我知道她跟人很難熟 自尊心又強 她跟她父親因為一些摩擦甚至有過好幾年都沒講話
本以為結婚之後 多多少少會有一些轉變
但是現在卻出現很不同調的想法
媳婦的本分 家家有本難念的經
但是 我只要求一件事 : 去我爸媽家吃飯 我媽煮 吃完她幫忙洗碗
她卻覺得很委屈 很抗拒
請問我這樣很過分嗎? 我要怎麼做
謝謝~~
--
沒有跟爸媽一起住
我老婆卻不知道媳婦要做甚麼
我的要求也不多 只有一件事
就是每兩個禮拜天回我爸媽家吃一次飯 吃完後她可以幫忙洗碗
我不要求我老婆可以幫忙煮
也沒有要求幫我爸媽做任何其他事情 (我爸媽也從來沒要求她)
只是覺得如果一起吃飯 如果甚麼事都不幫忙 難道她不會不好意思嗎?
就算沒心孝順 好歹也應付一下 洗個碗 做一下媳婦的樣子
但是她覺得很委屈
另外她也覺得幫我爸媽 幫我阿公阿罵夾菜 剝蝦子 很委屈 (剛剛講到都哭了)
她覺得她不是小妹 為什麼她要做這些事
我反問她 那你覺得媳婦應該要做甚麼?
她說她嚮往美國哪種互不相打擾的方式
過年見個面 如果生病再帶去看醫生就好 讓我很傻眼
對我來說 我比較傳統
我認為結了婚 就不再只是我一家人的事情 是兩家人的事
但是我老婆卻不這麼認為
我知道她跟人很難熟 自尊心又強 她跟她父親因為一些摩擦甚至有過好幾年都沒講話
本以為結婚之後 多多少少會有一些轉變
但是現在卻出現很不同調的想法
媳婦的本分 家家有本難念的經
但是 我只要求一件事 : 去我爸媽家吃飯 我媽煮 吃完她幫忙洗碗
她卻覺得很委屈 很抗拒
請問我這樣很過分嗎? 我要怎麼做
謝謝~~
--
Tags:
婚姻
All Comments
By Yuri
at 2013-01-28T15:25
at 2013-01-28T15:25
By Gilbert
at 2013-02-02T14:47
at 2013-02-02T14:47
By Emma
at 2013-02-04T00:33
at 2013-02-04T00:33
By Leila
at 2013-02-05T01:15
at 2013-02-05T01:15
By Charlotte
at 2013-02-07T14:24
at 2013-02-07T14:24
By Oliver
at 2013-02-08T23:57
at 2013-02-08T23:57
By Mary
at 2013-02-13T21:27
at 2013-02-13T21:27
By Jack
at 2013-02-18T18:48
at 2013-02-18T18:48
By Jake
at 2013-02-21T22:12
at 2013-02-21T22:12
By James
at 2013-02-25T05:00
at 2013-02-25T05:00
By Kelly
at 2013-02-26T18:23
at 2013-02-26T18:23
By Madame
at 2013-02-28T19:05
at 2013-02-28T19:05
By Hamiltion
at 2013-03-04T20:20
at 2013-03-04T20:20
By Kyle
at 2013-03-06T07:49
at 2013-03-06T07:49
By Oliver
at 2013-03-07T06:26
at 2013-03-07T06:26
By Isla
at 2013-03-08T10:00
at 2013-03-08T10:00
By Liam
at 2013-03-12T16:16
at 2013-03-12T16:16
By Candice
at 2013-03-15T20:22
at 2013-03-15T20:22
By Dinah
at 2013-03-17T16:10
at 2013-03-17T16:10
By Steve
at 2013-03-21T06:07
at 2013-03-21T06:07
By Ula
at 2013-03-21T11:00
at 2013-03-21T11:00
By Elvira
at 2013-03-22T11:42
at 2013-03-22T11:42
By Frederica
at 2013-03-25T07:50
at 2013-03-25T07:50
By Susan
at 2013-03-25T11:54
at 2013-03-25T11:54
By Belly
at 2013-03-29T18:32
at 2013-03-29T18:32
By Damian
at 2013-03-31T16:36
at 2013-03-31T16:36
By Gary
at 2013-04-04T02:38
at 2013-04-04T02:38
By Damian
at 2013-04-05T14:21
at 2013-04-05T14:21
By Eden
at 2013-04-07T07:25
at 2013-04-07T07:25
By Hamiltion
at 2013-04-09T01:22
at 2013-04-09T01:22
By Linda
at 2013-04-13T07:25
at 2013-04-13T07:25
By Andy
at 2013-04-15T04:17
at 2013-04-15T04:17
By Rebecca
at 2013-04-20T03:06
at 2013-04-20T03:06
By Isla
at 2013-04-25T00:06
at 2013-04-25T00:06
By Faithe
at 2013-04-27T05:14
at 2013-04-27T05:14
By Zora
at 2013-04-28T17:38
at 2013-04-28T17:38
By Dora
at 2013-05-02T03:37
at 2013-05-02T03:37
By Susan
at 2013-05-05T00:22
at 2013-05-05T00:22
By Doris
at 2013-05-07T07:58
at 2013-05-07T07:58
By Adele
at 2013-05-10T21:57
at 2013-05-10T21:57
By Joe
at 2013-05-11T17:56
at 2013-05-11T17:56
By Ina
at 2013-05-13T15:10
at 2013-05-13T15:10
By Elvira
at 2013-05-14T21:49
at 2013-05-14T21:49
By Regina
at 2013-05-18T12:59
at 2013-05-18T12:59
By Edwina
at 2013-05-20T12:29
at 2013-05-20T12:29
By Callum
at 2013-05-23T11:42
at 2013-05-23T11:42
By Annie
at 2013-05-25T17:01
at 2013-05-25T17:01
By Erin
at 2013-05-27T01:11
at 2013-05-27T01:11
By Ula
at 2013-05-28T16:47
at 2013-05-28T16:47
By Elma
at 2013-05-29T13:16
at 2013-05-29T13:16
By Steve
at 2013-06-01T06:04
at 2013-06-01T06:04
By Michael
at 2013-06-01T22:07
at 2013-06-01T22:07
By Emily
at 2013-06-05T04:39
at 2013-06-05T04:39
By Charlotte
at 2013-06-09T08:41
at 2013-06-09T08:41
By Puput
at 2013-06-11T22:17
at 2013-06-11T22:17
By Doris
at 2013-06-14T05:24
at 2013-06-14T05:24
By Puput
at 2013-06-14T07:18
at 2013-06-14T07:18
By Oscar
at 2013-06-14T09:04
at 2013-06-14T09:04
By Puput
at 2013-06-16T02:01
at 2013-06-16T02:01
By Jack
at 2013-06-19T03:32
at 2013-06-19T03:32
By Megan
at 2013-06-23T00:45
at 2013-06-23T00:45
By Elizabeth
at 2013-06-27T23:36
at 2013-06-27T23:36
By Edward Lewis
at 2013-06-29T23:17
at 2013-06-29T23:17
By Suhail Hany
at 2013-07-02T07:52
at 2013-07-02T07:52
By Sarah
at 2013-07-05T23:44
at 2013-07-05T23:44
By Hedwig
at 2013-07-07T22:35
at 2013-07-07T22:35
By Sarah
at 2013-07-11T05:34
at 2013-07-11T05:34
By Zora
at 2013-07-12T14:00
at 2013-07-12T14:00
By Una
at 2013-07-16T16:36
at 2013-07-16T16:36
By Delia
at 2013-07-16T18:19
at 2013-07-16T18:19
By Agnes
at 2013-07-20T13:27
at 2013-07-20T13:27
By Edith
at 2013-07-24T13:13
at 2013-07-24T13:13
By Barb Cronin
at 2013-07-25T07:16
at 2013-07-25T07:16
By Rosalind
at 2013-07-27T15:13
at 2013-07-27T15:13
By Una
at 2013-07-28T17:27
at 2013-07-28T17:27
By Bethany
at 2013-07-29T07:30
at 2013-07-29T07:30
By Lydia
at 2013-08-02T09:40
at 2013-08-02T09:40
By John
at 2013-08-03T20:09
at 2013-08-03T20:09
By Frederic
at 2013-08-06T16:23
at 2013-08-06T16:23
By Isla
at 2013-08-07T09:30
at 2013-08-07T09:30
By Charlie
at 2013-08-11T19:41
at 2013-08-11T19:41
By Liam
at 2013-08-16T02:14
at 2013-08-16T02:14
By George
at 2013-08-16T05:13
at 2013-08-16T05:13
By Elvira
at 2013-08-16T10:02
at 2013-08-16T10:02
By Gary
at 2013-08-18T17:36
at 2013-08-18T17:36
By Edith
at 2013-08-23T01:55
at 2013-08-23T01:55
By Valerie
at 2013-08-25T17:47
at 2013-08-25T17:47
By Franklin
at 2013-08-29T09:00
at 2013-08-29T09:00
By Edith
at 2013-08-31T15:28
at 2013-08-31T15:28
By Ivy
at 2013-09-01T19:46
at 2013-09-01T19:46
By Lily
at 2013-09-04T03:52
at 2013-09-04T03:52
By Rae
at 2013-09-06T21:09
at 2013-09-06T21:09
By Ivy
at 2013-09-08T09:10
at 2013-09-08T09:10
By Quanna
at 2013-09-11T22:16
at 2013-09-11T22:16
By Emma
at 2013-09-13T18:30
at 2013-09-13T18:30
By William
at 2013-09-18T15:34
at 2013-09-18T15:34
By Tristan Cohan
at 2013-09-20T19:39
at 2013-09-20T19:39
By Rae
at 2013-09-22T00:35
at 2013-09-22T00:35
By Kama
at 2013-09-24T21:06
at 2013-09-24T21:06
By Olive
at 2013-09-29T15:47
at 2013-09-29T15:47
By Sierra Rose
at 2013-10-03T12:12
at 2013-10-03T12:12
By Todd Johnson
at 2013-10-04T07:58
at 2013-10-04T07:58
By Olivia
at 2013-10-07T09:27
at 2013-10-07T09:27
By Audriana
at 2013-10-11T07:05
at 2013-10-11T07:05
By Tom
at 2013-10-12T06:44
at 2013-10-12T06:44
By Andy
at 2013-10-12T18:15
at 2013-10-12T18:15
By Victoria
at 2013-10-16T08:21
at 2013-10-16T08:21
By Caroline
at 2013-10-18T18:00
at 2013-10-18T18:00
By Odelette
at 2013-10-21T00:20
at 2013-10-21T00:20
By Dorothy
at 2013-10-24T17:43
at 2013-10-24T17:43
By Joe
at 2013-10-28T20:55
at 2013-10-28T20:55
By Wallis
at 2013-11-02T17:16
at 2013-11-02T17:16
By George
at 2013-11-03T03:25
at 2013-11-03T03:25
By Callum
at 2013-11-03T18:37
at 2013-11-03T18:37
By Rebecca
at 2013-11-08T10:49
at 2013-11-08T10:49
By Harry
at 2013-11-11T19:49
at 2013-11-11T19:49
By Erin
at 2013-11-14T09:05
at 2013-11-14T09:05
By Edwina
at 2013-11-18T08:48
at 2013-11-18T08:48
By Queena
at 2013-11-18T19:03
at 2013-11-18T19:03
By Megan
at 2013-11-21T06:36
at 2013-11-21T06:36
By Jacky
at 2013-11-24T01:35
at 2013-11-24T01:35
By Iris
at 2013-11-26T22:56
at 2013-11-26T22:56
By Belly
at 2013-11-27T16:31
at 2013-11-27T16:31
By Zenobia
at 2013-11-28T04:48
at 2013-11-28T04:48
By Necoo
at 2013-12-01T07:12
at 2013-12-01T07:12
By Brianna
at 2013-12-04T07:27
at 2013-12-04T07:27
By Gilbert
at 2013-12-07T12:56
at 2013-12-07T12:56
By Edward Lewis
at 2013-12-10T07:11
at 2013-12-10T07:11
By Faithe
at 2013-12-13T02:31
at 2013-12-13T02:31
By Todd Johnson
at 2013-12-14T22:22
at 2013-12-14T22:22
By Damian
at 2013-12-18T05:28
at 2013-12-18T05:28
By Oliver
at 2013-12-21T18:39
at 2013-12-21T18:39
By Selena
at 2013-12-22T03:57
at 2013-12-22T03:57
By Elma
at 2013-12-22T14:17
at 2013-12-22T14:17
By Charlie
at 2013-12-24T01:15
at 2013-12-24T01:15
By Eartha
at 2013-12-28T23:50
at 2013-12-28T23:50
By Daniel
at 2014-01-01T14:16
at 2014-01-01T14:16
By Eartha
at 2014-01-02T17:40
at 2014-01-02T17:40
By Hedwig
at 2014-01-04T16:36
at 2014-01-04T16:36
By Rosalind
at 2014-01-07T14:48
at 2014-01-07T14:48
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-01-08T08:26
at 2014-01-08T08:26
By Caitlin
at 2014-01-11T15:52
at 2014-01-11T15:52
By Heather
at 2014-01-12T05:34
at 2014-01-12T05:34
By Jessica
at 2014-01-14T11:14
at 2014-01-14T11:14
By Lauren
at 2014-01-17T10:50
at 2014-01-17T10:50
By Olga
at 2014-01-18T05:46
at 2014-01-18T05:46
By Edith
at 2014-01-23T02:38
at 2014-01-23T02:38
By Harry
at 2014-01-28T00:13
at 2014-01-28T00:13
By Sandy
at 2014-01-30T02:24
at 2014-01-30T02:24
By Wallis
at 2014-02-02T15:21
at 2014-02-02T15:21
By Jacob
at 2014-02-03T05:10
at 2014-02-03T05:10
By Candice
at 2014-02-05T12:59
at 2014-02-05T12:59
By Heather
at 2014-02-05T15:05
at 2014-02-05T15:05
By Dinah
at 2014-02-09T03:30
at 2014-02-09T03:30
By Thomas
at 2014-02-10T13:41
at 2014-02-10T13:41
By Vanessa
at 2014-02-13T20:21
at 2014-02-13T20:21
By Genevieve
at 2014-02-14T02:23
at 2014-02-14T02:23
By Una
at 2014-02-14T07:06
at 2014-02-14T07:06
By Irma
at 2014-02-18T15:00
at 2014-02-18T15:00
By Ursula
at 2014-02-20T05:03
at 2014-02-20T05:03
By Yedda
at 2014-02-24T06:12
at 2014-02-24T06:12
By Bethany
at 2014-02-26T00:01
at 2014-02-26T00:01
By Audriana
at 2014-02-27T04:28
at 2014-02-27T04:28
By Ingrid
at 2014-03-03T09:04
at 2014-03-03T09:04
By Linda
at 2014-03-03T19:25
at 2014-03-03T19:25
By Hedwig
at 2014-03-08T01:06
at 2014-03-08T01:06
By Jake
at 2014-03-10T03:37
at 2014-03-10T03:37
By William
at 2014-03-12T22:48
at 2014-03-12T22:48
By Daniel
at 2014-03-17T12:35
at 2014-03-17T12:35
By Jacob
at 2014-03-21T03:26
at 2014-03-21T03:26
By Catherine
at 2014-03-22T08:48
at 2014-03-22T08:48
By George
at 2014-03-25T07:42
at 2014-03-25T07:42
By Noah
at 2014-03-28T06:33
at 2014-03-28T06:33
By Joe
at 2014-03-29T00:48
at 2014-03-29T00:48
By Irma
at 2014-03-31T20:29
at 2014-03-31T20:29
By Ivy
at 2014-04-04T11:17
at 2014-04-04T11:17
By Harry
at 2014-04-08T17:19
at 2014-04-08T17:19
By Odelette
at 2014-04-08T23:17
at 2014-04-08T23:17
By Kumar
at 2014-04-10T01:54
at 2014-04-10T01:54
By Skylar DavisLinda
at 2014-04-10T06:10
at 2014-04-10T06:10
By Caitlin
at 2014-04-13T12:57
at 2014-04-13T12:57
By Regina
at 2014-04-18T03:16
at 2014-04-18T03:16
By Annie
at 2014-04-21T23:28
at 2014-04-21T23:28
By Christine
at 2014-04-24T07:18
at 2014-04-24T07:18
By Elizabeth
at 2014-04-25T01:12
at 2014-04-25T01:12
By Sarah
at 2014-04-26T12:25
at 2014-04-26T12:25
By Ursula
at 2014-04-30T12:26
at 2014-04-30T12:26
By Zenobia
at 2014-05-03T19:40
at 2014-05-03T19:40
By Jacob
at 2014-05-06T06:02
at 2014-05-06T06:02
By Elizabeth
at 2014-05-07T20:02
at 2014-05-07T20:02
By Heather
at 2014-05-12T19:02
at 2014-05-12T19:02
By Lauren
at 2014-05-14T23:39
at 2014-05-14T23:39
By John
at 2014-05-16T22:08
at 2014-05-16T22:08
By Poppy
at 2014-05-20T19:36
at 2014-05-20T19:36
By Hedwig
at 2014-05-25T13:58
at 2014-05-25T13:58
By Elizabeth
at 2014-05-30T11:33
at 2014-05-30T11:33
By Xanthe
at 2014-06-01T08:34
at 2014-06-01T08:34
By Audriana
at 2014-06-03T00:01
at 2014-06-03T00:01
By Liam
at 2014-06-06T21:00
at 2014-06-06T21:00
By Hamiltion
at 2014-06-08T00:45
at 2014-06-08T00:45
By John
at 2014-06-08T04:17
at 2014-06-08T04:17
By Elma
at 2014-06-12T06:43
at 2014-06-12T06:43
By Faithe
at 2014-06-15T00:10
at 2014-06-15T00:10
By Audriana
at 2014-06-17T06:28
at 2014-06-17T06:28
By Selena
at 2014-06-19T10:01
at 2014-06-19T10:01
By Frederica
at 2014-06-23T03:26
at 2014-06-23T03:26
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-06-23T21:45
at 2014-06-23T21:45
By Regina
at 2014-06-28T13:31
at 2014-06-28T13:31
By Steve
at 2014-07-03T09:29
at 2014-07-03T09:29
By Zora
at 2014-07-08T08:03
at 2014-07-08T08:03
By Faithe
at 2014-07-09T09:04
at 2014-07-09T09:04
By Anthony
at 2014-07-13T13:07
at 2014-07-13T13:07
By Zenobia
at 2014-07-14T00:34
at 2014-07-14T00:34
By Ida
at 2014-07-18T20:42
at 2014-07-18T20:42
By Lydia
at 2014-07-19T04:45
at 2014-07-19T04:45
By Lily
at 2014-07-24T03:35
at 2014-07-24T03:35
By Rachel
at 2014-07-25T07:59
at 2014-07-25T07:59
By Quanna
at 2014-07-29T16:54
at 2014-07-29T16:54
By Frederic
at 2014-07-30T12:23
at 2014-07-30T12:23
By Erin
at 2014-07-30T16:45
at 2014-07-30T16:45
By Iris
at 2014-08-01T15:24
at 2014-08-01T15:24
By Adele
at 2014-08-04T07:50
at 2014-08-04T07:50
By Bennie
at 2014-08-06T10:15
at 2014-08-06T10:15
By Sierra Rose
at 2014-08-11T02:19
at 2014-08-11T02:19
By Noah
at 2014-08-13T09:22
at 2014-08-13T09:22
By Kumar
at 2014-08-17T02:11
at 2014-08-17T02:11
By Poppy
at 2014-08-21T09:23
at 2014-08-21T09:23
By Erin
at 2014-08-26T00:26
at 2014-08-26T00:26
By Liam
at 2014-08-29T17:28
at 2014-08-29T17:28
By Annie
at 2014-08-31T02:31
at 2014-08-31T02:31
By Heather
at 2014-08-31T12:45
at 2014-08-31T12:45
By Odelette
at 2014-09-04T18:39
at 2014-09-04T18:39
By Emma
at 2014-09-05T21:48
at 2014-09-05T21:48
By Carol
at 2014-09-10T01:36
at 2014-09-10T01:36
By Emma
at 2014-09-14T21:19
at 2014-09-14T21:19
By Brianna
at 2014-09-17T17:19
at 2014-09-17T17:19
By Joseph
at 2014-09-19T23:50
at 2014-09-19T23:50
By Heather
at 2014-09-23T01:54
at 2014-09-23T01:54
By Anthony
at 2014-09-26T12:18
at 2014-09-26T12:18
By Regina
at 2014-09-29T20:35
at 2014-09-29T20:35
By Sarah
at 2014-10-02T23:17
at 2014-10-02T23:17
By Andrew
at 2014-10-03T14:56
at 2014-10-03T14:56
By Tom
at 2014-10-08T12:41
at 2014-10-08T12:41
By Charlie
at 2014-10-08T15:01
at 2014-10-08T15:01
By Eartha
at 2014-10-09T15:05
at 2014-10-09T15:05
By Dora
at 2014-10-10T04:20
at 2014-10-10T04:20
By Megan
at 2014-10-12T08:32
at 2014-10-12T08:32
By Frederic
at 2014-10-12T15:29
at 2014-10-12T15:29
By Wallis
at 2014-10-15T20:58
at 2014-10-15T20:58
By Elvira
at 2014-10-18T05:57
at 2014-10-18T05:57
By Hedwig
at 2014-10-21T03:45
at 2014-10-21T03:45
By Zora
at 2014-10-21T08:34
at 2014-10-21T08:34
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-10-23T10:28
at 2014-10-23T10:28
By Barb Cronin
at 2014-10-27T23:23
at 2014-10-27T23:23
By Kelly
at 2014-10-28T14:30
at 2014-10-28T14:30
By Quintina
at 2014-11-01T05:54
at 2014-11-01T05:54
By Edwina
at 2014-11-04T21:32
at 2014-11-04T21:32
By Mason
at 2014-11-07T01:33
at 2014-11-07T01:33
By Ula
at 2014-11-07T10:28
at 2014-11-07T10:28
By Isabella
at 2014-11-11T10:45
at 2014-11-11T10:45
By Olivia
at 2014-11-15T17:49
at 2014-11-15T17:49
By Belly
at 2014-11-20T09:34
at 2014-11-20T09:34
By Gary
at 2014-11-21T00:51
at 2014-11-21T00:51
Related Posts
買房子的問題
By Jacky
at 2013-01-24T18:26
at 2013-01-24T18:26
希望是好消息
By Elma
at 2013-01-24T16:41
at 2013-01-24T16:41
心情down到谷底
By Sarah
at 2013-01-24T16:15
at 2013-01-24T16:15
婆婆的閒話家常
By Oliver
at 2013-01-24T15:50
at 2013-01-24T15:50
老公常來老婆娘家
By Rae
at 2013-01-24T15:43
at 2013-01-24T15:43