媳婦就應該要回婆家打掃? - 婚姻
By Yedda
at 2012-01-18T10:06
at 2012-01-18T10:06
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目前懷孕18W+
因為容易宮縮的體質+婆婆會搞不清楚狀況的要我蹲下幹麻~
或是搬東西去哪裡...
(有一次拿一整袋不知道幾公斤的香腸要我拿去隔壁棟的冷凍)
再加上前不久婆婆徹底的惹到我跟我老公~~
老公要我過年前提早回娘家住幾天,他放假再來娘家接我回婆家~
因為我媽自己一個人住,可以提前回去陪她...
我本來是想說要不要提前回婆家幫忙打掃~
但一想到我要自己一個人住在他家我就冒汗......
因為老公不在,不知道婆婆又會跟我說啥= =
再加上我不敢自己睡新房......婆婆住的那邊空氣又很差......
可是婆婆一直有意無意的暗示我提早回婆家幫忙打掃
但是說真的如果婆婆要我做什麼工作是我可能會不舒服的...
我不知道怎麼拒絕~~
我妹要我直接說怕會流產,但是婆婆一定會說"不會啦!"
因為以往跟他說不能吸二手菸,小孩會怎樣怎樣,他都回我"不會啦!"
靠!那菸盒上的註記是假的喔?
跟他說我吃麻油會宮縮,她也說"哪有這種事!?"
所以我一直在遲疑中......不知道要不要先回婆家幫忙.........
後來我們回到台中...婆婆又叫大伯打電話來~叫我早點回去~
我老公不想要我先回去,其實也是怕他媽又說些有的沒的...
或是又叫我做什麼有負擔的事情...
就回他哥說"她是要這麼早回去幹麻?"
電話的那頭(婆婆or大伯)"她又沒在工作留在台中幹麻?"
我老公就火了(其實我也火了),回她
"不要再講工作的事!當初也是你們叫她不要工作的!"
"現在又一天到晚說他沒工作怎樣~很閒怎樣~"
然後就掛電話了......
因為那句話~我就算不回娘家住,也不會提前回婆家了啦!!!
為什麼婆婆永遠搞不懂媳婦是要跟兒子過一輩子的人
不是婆家憑空得到的佣人!!
難道我沒有工作就應該要乖乖聽指揮做事嗎??
我又沒花到她的錢!!!
ps.我現在有在補習,只是婆婆不知道...
怕她知道又要說我浪費錢之類的.........
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因為容易宮縮的體質+婆婆會搞不清楚狀況的要我蹲下幹麻~
或是搬東西去哪裡...
(有一次拿一整袋不知道幾公斤的香腸要我拿去隔壁棟的冷凍)
再加上前不久婆婆徹底的惹到我跟我老公~~
老公要我過年前提早回娘家住幾天,他放假再來娘家接我回婆家~
因為我媽自己一個人住,可以提前回去陪她...
我本來是想說要不要提前回婆家幫忙打掃~
但一想到我要自己一個人住在他家我就冒汗......
因為老公不在,不知道婆婆又會跟我說啥= =
再加上我不敢自己睡新房......婆婆住的那邊空氣又很差......
可是婆婆一直有意無意的暗示我提早回婆家幫忙打掃
但是說真的如果婆婆要我做什麼工作是我可能會不舒服的...
我不知道怎麼拒絕~~
我妹要我直接說怕會流產,但是婆婆一定會說"不會啦!"
因為以往跟他說不能吸二手菸,小孩會怎樣怎樣,他都回我"不會啦!"
靠!那菸盒上的註記是假的喔?
跟他說我吃麻油會宮縮,她也說"哪有這種事!?"
所以我一直在遲疑中......不知道要不要先回婆家幫忙.........
後來我們回到台中...婆婆又叫大伯打電話來~叫我早點回去~
我老公不想要我先回去,其實也是怕他媽又說些有的沒的...
或是又叫我做什麼有負擔的事情...
就回他哥說"她是要這麼早回去幹麻?"
電話的那頭(婆婆or大伯)"她又沒在工作留在台中幹麻?"
我老公就火了(其實我也火了),回她
"不要再講工作的事!當初也是你們叫她不要工作的!"
"現在又一天到晚說他沒工作怎樣~很閒怎樣~"
然後就掛電話了......
因為那句話~我就算不回娘家住,也不會提前回婆家了啦!!!
為什麼婆婆永遠搞不懂媳婦是要跟兒子過一輩子的人
不是婆家憑空得到的佣人!!
難道我沒有工作就應該要乖乖聽指揮做事嗎??
我又沒花到她的錢!!!
ps.我現在有在補習,只是婆婆不知道...
怕她知道又要說我浪費錢之類的.........
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