婚後要住哪裡好呢? - 婚姻

By Zenobia
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是否同意記者抄文:YES/NO
NO
剛結婚一個月,目前和先生在外縣市工作(租房)
先生已預計一年後要回家鄉工作,
原本先生打算回婆家住(婆家希望)
但我覺得未來有孩子的話空間會不足,
(打算明年懷孕,生2~3個)
我們只有一間房間,
而且房子未來是先生哥哥的,
最後還是要搬走。
(因為先生薪水是哥哥四倍,
長輩決定把房子留給哥哥)
娘家爸爸在先生一年後要去的公司附近有買一間房子(走路不到十分鐘,目前租人)
我提議要不要回去住那裡
遭婆婆強烈反對
說怎麼可以不住婆家去住女方的房子呢
(和婆家在同縣市)
我提議那就先暫時租房子,再存錢買房
先生最近開始看房子,全部都在婆家附近
(走路五分鐘的距離)
老實說,我感到很大的壓力
婆婆想快點抱孫,
但我們明年才要去蜜月(因先生工作關係)
我希望蜜月後再懷孕,不想挺著肚子去玩
婆婆希望我們不要去蜜月了
趕快懷孕生小孩
(但我已經規劃半年了,十萬塊也先付了)
婆婆還是希望可以不要去
婆家非常傳統,我們回婆家時
我煮飯、打掃是應該的
若週末回婆家住,禮拜一上班會特別累
好像連續上了七天班一樣
若以後住在附近,
我非常有可能需要常常回去打掃煮飯
想問各位如果是你,會選擇住哪裡呢?
1.婆家小房間,生小孩之後搬家
2.娘家爸爸房子(但婆婆會不高興)
3.花錢租房
4.婆家附近的新房子
--
NO
剛結婚一個月,目前和先生在外縣市工作(租房)
先生已預計一年後要回家鄉工作,
原本先生打算回婆家住(婆家希望)
但我覺得未來有孩子的話空間會不足,
(打算明年懷孕,生2~3個)
我們只有一間房間,
而且房子未來是先生哥哥的,
最後還是要搬走。
(因為先生薪水是哥哥四倍,
長輩決定把房子留給哥哥)
娘家爸爸在先生一年後要去的公司附近有買一間房子(走路不到十分鐘,目前租人)
我提議要不要回去住那裡
遭婆婆強烈反對
說怎麼可以不住婆家去住女方的房子呢
(和婆家在同縣市)
我提議那就先暫時租房子,再存錢買房
先生最近開始看房子,全部都在婆家附近
(走路五分鐘的距離)
老實說,我感到很大的壓力
婆婆想快點抱孫,
但我們明年才要去蜜月(因先生工作關係)
我希望蜜月後再懷孕,不想挺著肚子去玩
婆婆希望我們不要去蜜月了
趕快懷孕生小孩
(但我已經規劃半年了,十萬塊也先付了)
婆婆還是希望可以不要去
婆家非常傳統,我們回婆家時
我煮飯、打掃是應該的
若週末回婆家住,禮拜一上班會特別累
好像連續上了七天班一樣
若以後住在附近,
我非常有可能需要常常回去打掃煮飯
想問各位如果是你,會選擇住哪裡呢?
1.婆家小房間,生小孩之後搬家
2.娘家爸爸房子(但婆婆會不高興)
3.花錢租房
4.婆家附近的新房子
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