婚後的生活習慣 - 婚姻

By Elvira
at 2012-04-05T17:11
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自從結婚到現在 我慢慢的感受到了 兩個人結婚後真的沒那麼簡單
怎麼說呢? 生活習慣真的很難配合!!!尤其是婆媳間的問題
剛結婚沒多久就因為煮飯的事情跟父母大吵一架
因為那陣子剛蜜月回來 所以有多事情都沒處理
然後那天晚上又要尾牙 所以東西弄一弄5點就出發去參加尾牙了
就因為沒有幫忙煮飯(單純就是白飯而已)
那個週末媽媽下班回來就發飆了 一回來
媽媽:是不會把排骨先放下去煮歐~語帶不耐
我:妳又沒說我怎麼知道!(那時我跟太太早已在廚房準備)
媽媽:啊你是沒嘴巴嗎?~整個怒 (這時我已經很不爽了 還是耐住性子)
我:講話幹麻這樣
媽媽:幹麻這樣!上次飯也沒煮 害你爸爸回來沒飯吃~後面開始暴怒了
我:我那天去尾牙ㄟ 家裡妹妹也在家阿 非要我煮嗎
然後媽媽就批哩啪拉的把什麼事都拿出罵 連爸爸都出來叫我閉嘴
從這件事之後我就開始覺得我爸我媽感覺就是我終於結婚了
娶了個媳婦 可以好好孝順他們了 什麼都要要求
難道我結婚是為了娶個太太回來服侍妳們的嗎? 難怪現在一堆女生不想結婚
就連一天沒煮到飯 都能發脾氣 換了個角色就換了個腦袋嗎?
本來心想算了只是個小事 直到最近他們又做出很誇張的行徑
因為我跟太太兩個人都是接續著洗澡 所以兩個人先後大約要洗半小時
結果媽媽前陣子就說洗澡不要洗那麼久
女生洗澡就是需要這麼久阿 洗個20分鐘多還好吧
結果我太太之後洗澡就像打戰一樣 每天都洗的很趕 連洗澡壓力都很大
怕洗的太久我媽又要唸了 而我就天天被她抱怨...
剛開始想說算了 洗快一點 多哄哄她就好了
最近更扯了! 上星期周末假期因為參加同事婚禮索性就出去玩
結果星期天晚上回到家之後 發現蓮蓬頭的掛座被拆了!!!
原本是用淋浴的方式 結果現在變成水要開開關關 然後蓮蓬頭要拿上拿下
這也就算了 更扯的是隔天早上
起床準備要洗臉的時候~咦 沒熱水
下去一看 瓦斯被關起來了 = = 本來不以為意
心想可能是有原因才關起來的 可是經過了好幾天
早上瓦斯依舊是被關起來的狀態 ~ 整個很無奈
難道都不用跟我討論或是知會我們嗎? 還是這是妳家 妳要怎麼決定都可以!
妳想要省錢我可以理解 但是最起碼要跟我們討論吧
要不然這個費用算我的我都可以接受啊!!
不懂得互相尊重 真的是很難相處啊
我們一起生活的2X年 我能理解 那也就算了
但是我太太呢? 當初去提親的時候妳們說過的話都是屁嗎?
兩個家庭的生活習慣本來就不太可能一樣
現在這樣是要硬性逼迫我太太去適應嗎?
我太太辦不到 我更不可能會答應!
畢竟當初我答應岳父岳母會好好照顧她 不會讓她受到委曲的
現在看來真是有點對不起他們~~~
最近決定要搬出去了 希望可以避免很多婆媳間的問題
與其等到撕破臉 不如趁現在大家感情還不錯先搬出去
題外話 新竹或竹北有人要出租房子的嗎?
最近要開始找房子了
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怎麼說呢? 生活習慣真的很難配合!!!尤其是婆媳間的問題
剛結婚沒多久就因為煮飯的事情跟父母大吵一架
因為那陣子剛蜜月回來 所以有多事情都沒處理
然後那天晚上又要尾牙 所以東西弄一弄5點就出發去參加尾牙了
就因為沒有幫忙煮飯(單純就是白飯而已)
那個週末媽媽下班回來就發飆了 一回來
媽媽:是不會把排骨先放下去煮歐~語帶不耐
我:妳又沒說我怎麼知道!(那時我跟太太早已在廚房準備)
媽媽:啊你是沒嘴巴嗎?~整個怒 (這時我已經很不爽了 還是耐住性子)
我:講話幹麻這樣
媽媽:幹麻這樣!上次飯也沒煮 害你爸爸回來沒飯吃~後面開始暴怒了
我:我那天去尾牙ㄟ 家裡妹妹也在家阿 非要我煮嗎
然後媽媽就批哩啪拉的把什麼事都拿出罵 連爸爸都出來叫我閉嘴
從這件事之後我就開始覺得我爸我媽感覺就是我終於結婚了
娶了個媳婦 可以好好孝順他們了 什麼都要要求
難道我結婚是為了娶個太太回來服侍妳們的嗎? 難怪現在一堆女生不想結婚
就連一天沒煮到飯 都能發脾氣 換了個角色就換了個腦袋嗎?
本來心想算了只是個小事 直到最近他們又做出很誇張的行徑
因為我跟太太兩個人都是接續著洗澡 所以兩個人先後大約要洗半小時
結果媽媽前陣子就說洗澡不要洗那麼久
女生洗澡就是需要這麼久阿 洗個20分鐘多還好吧
結果我太太之後洗澡就像打戰一樣 每天都洗的很趕 連洗澡壓力都很大
怕洗的太久我媽又要唸了 而我就天天被她抱怨...
剛開始想說算了 洗快一點 多哄哄她就好了
最近更扯了! 上星期周末假期因為參加同事婚禮索性就出去玩
結果星期天晚上回到家之後 發現蓮蓬頭的掛座被拆了!!!
原本是用淋浴的方式 結果現在變成水要開開關關 然後蓮蓬頭要拿上拿下
這也就算了 更扯的是隔天早上
起床準備要洗臉的時候~咦 沒熱水
下去一看 瓦斯被關起來了 = = 本來不以為意
心想可能是有原因才關起來的 可是經過了好幾天
早上瓦斯依舊是被關起來的狀態 ~ 整個很無奈
難道都不用跟我討論或是知會我們嗎? 還是這是妳家 妳要怎麼決定都可以!
妳想要省錢我可以理解 但是最起碼要跟我們討論吧
要不然這個費用算我的我都可以接受啊!!
不懂得互相尊重 真的是很難相處啊
我們一起生活的2X年 我能理解 那也就算了
但是我太太呢? 當初去提親的時候妳們說過的話都是屁嗎?
兩個家庭的生活習慣本來就不太可能一樣
現在這樣是要硬性逼迫我太太去適應嗎?
我太太辦不到 我更不可能會答應!
畢竟當初我答應岳父岳母會好好照顧她 不會讓她受到委曲的
現在看來真是有點對不起他們~~~
最近決定要搬出去了 希望可以避免很多婆媳間的問題
與其等到撕破臉 不如趁現在大家感情還不錯先搬出去
題外話 新竹或竹北有人要出租房子的嗎?
最近要開始找房子了
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