婚前有的問題,婚後依然一樣存在? - 婚姻
By Dora
at 2012-01-15T11:12
at 2012-01-15T11:12
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本人目前在台北工作,娘家和夫家都在中部(附近而已),我因為工作性質的關係
很難調回中部(但我每年還是申請,但已經失敗一年了),
現在和丈夫就過著假日夫妻的生活,一個月我就回中部2.3次......
但幾天前,為了這件事跟他吵了一架,因為對於這件事在婚前沒有結論
婚後了,問題依然存在....
兩種狀況分析:
1. 保持現況,我在台北,他在中部,我每年申請調動...但..
不知道何時才能成功?問題來了..我(70年次)打算這幾年生小孩...
懷孕過程和生小孩後,我勢必要回來北部,那小孩呢? 放在中部嗎?
那我是不是要跟小孩分隔兩地?
2. 他上來北部,但問題來了,他的工作領域可能跟台北的不是很符合
薪水可能不會比中部高,還有房子呢? 台北的房子高得嚇人,
就算買了房子,背一輩子房貸,有了小孩後,整個壓力又會更大
同事知道我的狀況,大部分是建議要他上來台北,因為比較彼此的工作,我的工作
相對穩定,他們認為,夫妻間哪個工作較穩定的,另一半應該要配合
我也是這麼想,但就針對我剛才講的第2點,他上來後,又有那些事情必須克服....
每次討論到他要上來發展還是維持現狀的問題時就會吵架.......
我跟他本來都認為再調個3.5年,失敗後再做打算...但..有時我會想,3.5年也不是
短時間,勢必會與生小孩的時間衝突到....
還是.....版上有夫妻也是這樣狀況嗎? 大部分看到的是娘家和自己住一起,假日時,
再回去夫家,總覺得身邊有可以依靠的..是件很好的事..但只有我一個在北部,
夫家和娘家都在中部..有時真的覺得很寂寞...@@
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