婆家的喪禮-五子哭墓 - 婚姻
By Selena
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我自己是天主教徒
我不知道是不是我家跟別人教友家較為不同
我家是可以拿香拜祖先的
但也僅止於拜祖先
其他的神祇是不行的
這應該跟「利瑪竇規矩」有關
我高中唸天主教女校
我永遠記得我的修女老師跟我說了一個小故事
有一次有個修女帶學生登山健行
走到半路突然下起了大雨
只好躲進一間廟裡
修女一走進廟裡立刻對佛像鞠躬
學生很好奇的問他
「修女,聖經上不是說不可以崇拜異教徒的偶像嗎?
你怎麼可以對佛像鞠躬?」
修女回答說:「我們進到人家的家裡,難道不用跟人家打聲招呼嗎?」
這是修女親口告訴我們的故事
他說,上帝從來沒有要我們排斥其他的信仰
我們應該做的是彼此尊重
這個故事可能與參加喪禮的意義不一樣
但我想強調的是
如果你信仰的宗教是教導你不尊重他人的習俗與意願
你不會覺得你誤會了你的宗教嗎?
你的宗教應該沒有教你質疑別人的任何儀式吧?
我也是一個歷史老師
每當我上到宗教的部份時
都會跟學生強調世界上所有的宗教都是殊途同歸的
目的都在勸人為善
所以應該尊重每個人的宗教信仰
喪禮很重要的意義是安慰生者的
你一點點的妥協
可以帶給生者極大的安慰
我想上帝應該更開心你這樣做吧
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我不知道是不是我家跟別人教友家較為不同
我家是可以拿香拜祖先的
但也僅止於拜祖先
其他的神祇是不行的
這應該跟「利瑪竇規矩」有關
我高中唸天主教女校
我永遠記得我的修女老師跟我說了一個小故事
有一次有個修女帶學生登山健行
走到半路突然下起了大雨
只好躲進一間廟裡
修女一走進廟裡立刻對佛像鞠躬
學生很好奇的問他
「修女,聖經上不是說不可以崇拜異教徒的偶像嗎?
你怎麼可以對佛像鞠躬?」
修女回答說:「我們進到人家的家裡,難道不用跟人家打聲招呼嗎?」
這是修女親口告訴我們的故事
他說,上帝從來沒有要我們排斥其他的信仰
我們應該做的是彼此尊重
這個故事可能與參加喪禮的意義不一樣
但我想強調的是
如果你信仰的宗教是教導你不尊重他人的習俗與意願
你不會覺得你誤會了你的宗教嗎?
你的宗教應該沒有教你質疑別人的任何儀式吧?
我也是一個歷史老師
每當我上到宗教的部份時
都會跟學生強調世界上所有的宗教都是殊途同歸的
目的都在勸人為善
所以應該尊重每個人的宗教信仰
喪禮很重要的意義是安慰生者的
你一點點的妥協
可以帶給生者極大的安慰
我想上帝應該更開心你這樣做吧
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