婆婆很愛做怎麼辦?? - 婚姻
By Daniel
at 2011-10-18T16:47
at 2011-10-18T16:47
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如題
現在跟先生一住在公婆家
目前育有一子,四個月
其實我主要是不好意思讓婆婆去做
像我自己的衣服我都自己洗
有好幾次衣服在外浸泡 一轉眼,就被她洗起來了
阻止她也沒有用
(我不想讓婆婆有一種"我為這個家做這麼多,妳怎麼都沒有感謝"的念頭
所以我跟小孩的衣服我都自己洗,最近我連我老公的衣服也一起洗
就是不想讓她替我們做太多事,畢竟她沒義務也沒必要.
洗奶瓶也是,有好幾次我先生把奶瓶先放在廚房,還沒開始動手洗,她就又拿去洗了
結果是 一個一百多元的奶嘴頭被洗壞了,BABY喝奶一直嗆才到知道破了
整個很無言,
婆婆很愛做家事,但是方式我都沒辦法接受
廚房是她的天下,但也是垃圾最多的地方.
抽屜各式各樣東西都有,包括大蟑螂@@
好不容易前幾個星期說服老公進行廚房大掃除,丟了好幾大袋垃圾
沒多久,她又收集了一些東西.免洗碗啦.塑膠盒...我老公說了好幾次也沒有用..
我們只能默默的看到就丟掉
婆婆愛做家事,但是我覺得習慣很差,家中永遠有一堆東西
不知道是老人家貪小便宜還是節省
冰箱過期東西一堆,吃一半的紅豆芋圓也冰起來...好幾天
最不能接受是,她拖地後的拖把,是在廚房水槽洗
那不是要吃進去肚子裡的地方嗎??
煮飯也是
我在家裡,不想吃午餐,她也要煮..煮完一定要叫我吃,
我說吃不下,她又說那吃菜... (就跟妳說吃不下咩...)
因為婆婆很愛煮.又煮很多,吃不完又重覆吃,再冰冰箱
然後壞掉才丟掉,那為什麼一開始要煮那麼多??
炒菜,煎魚.做菜都用豬油
都跟她說 她高血壓,不要吃太多豬油,她還回我沙拉油製迼過程很不衛生
................
愛跟我搶小孩,她要玩孩子就算了,一邊玩一邊意見還很多
買個東西給小baby,都要問多少錢
明明很便宜的東西.她還要回我老公說,你是不是故意少報???
逗完孩子後,一直跟我說,我兒子很會玩,很會笑...(嗯..我不知道要怎麼接話
,因為我都知道呀,我是他媽....)
永遠都只會一直玩我兒子,生完孩子到現在,沒看到她送她孫子任何一件東西
動不動就自己進我房間去抱小孩(害我每次出房間門,都速速又衝回去)
進我們房間,我夫妻又在時,又自動的躺在我們床上玩孫子..(這樣是很正常的嗎??)
反正...
我整個處於忍耐階段中
我知道,如果要住在一起,我就要忍耐
沒辦法,為了先生著想...
所以只好先這樣
不過要怎麼讓婆婆不要那麼愛做事呀..
(我承認,我是個龜毛人...,抱怨文..感恩)
--
我相信我所堅持的
想像盛況 真心付出
http://www.wretch.cc/blog
--
現在跟先生一住在公婆家
目前育有一子,四個月
其實我主要是不好意思讓婆婆去做
像我自己的衣服我都自己洗
有好幾次衣服在外浸泡 一轉眼,就被她洗起來了
阻止她也沒有用
(我不想讓婆婆有一種"我為這個家做這麼多,妳怎麼都沒有感謝"的念頭
所以我跟小孩的衣服我都自己洗,最近我連我老公的衣服也一起洗
就是不想讓她替我們做太多事,畢竟她沒義務也沒必要.
洗奶瓶也是,有好幾次我先生把奶瓶先放在廚房,還沒開始動手洗,她就又拿去洗了
結果是 一個一百多元的奶嘴頭被洗壞了,BABY喝奶一直嗆才到知道破了
整個很無言,
婆婆很愛做家事,但是方式我都沒辦法接受
廚房是她的天下,但也是垃圾最多的地方.
抽屜各式各樣東西都有,包括大蟑螂@@
好不容易前幾個星期說服老公進行廚房大掃除,丟了好幾大袋垃圾
沒多久,她又收集了一些東西.免洗碗啦.塑膠盒...我老公說了好幾次也沒有用..
我們只能默默的看到就丟掉
婆婆愛做家事,但是我覺得習慣很差,家中永遠有一堆東西
不知道是老人家貪小便宜還是節省
冰箱過期東西一堆,吃一半的紅豆芋圓也冰起來...好幾天
最不能接受是,她拖地後的拖把,是在廚房水槽洗
那不是要吃進去肚子裡的地方嗎??
煮飯也是
我在家裡,不想吃午餐,她也要煮..煮完一定要叫我吃,
我說吃不下,她又說那吃菜... (就跟妳說吃不下咩...)
因為婆婆很愛煮.又煮很多,吃不完又重覆吃,再冰冰箱
然後壞掉才丟掉,那為什麼一開始要煮那麼多??
炒菜,煎魚.做菜都用豬油
都跟她說 她高血壓,不要吃太多豬油,她還回我沙拉油製迼過程很不衛生
................
愛跟我搶小孩,她要玩孩子就算了,一邊玩一邊意見還很多
買個東西給小baby,都要問多少錢
明明很便宜的東西.她還要回我老公說,你是不是故意少報???
逗完孩子後,一直跟我說,我兒子很會玩,很會笑...(嗯..我不知道要怎麼接話
,因為我都知道呀,我是他媽....)
永遠都只會一直玩我兒子,生完孩子到現在,沒看到她送她孫子任何一件東西
動不動就自己進我房間去抱小孩(害我每次出房間門,都速速又衝回去)
進我們房間,我夫妻又在時,又自動的躺在我們床上玩孫子..(這樣是很正常的嗎??)
反正...
我整個處於忍耐階段中
我知道,如果要住在一起,我就要忍耐
沒辦法,為了先生著想...
所以只好先這樣
不過要怎麼讓婆婆不要那麼愛做事呀..
(我承認,我是個龜毛人...,抱怨文..感恩)
--
我相信我所堅持的
想像盛況 真心付出
http://www.wretch.cc/blog
--
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