婆婆來我家煮飯.. - 婚姻
By Delia
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at 2013-04-11T14:30
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婚後跟老公一直都是住外面的兩人小家庭
一直到今年初生了一個小baby後,出現以下問題
實在不知道如何解決...所以上版來求助各位有經驗的人妻/人夫@@
產假結束後,我回到職場上班
老公及婆家都不放心將寶寶交給保母,
再加上自我懷孕開始,婆婆就一直釋放出想要幫我帶孩子
讓我可以無後顧之憂的回去上班的訊息
所以,回來上班後,寶寶白天交由婆婆照顧,自然成為選項..
由於寶寶實在還太小,我跟老公都捨不得這麼小的孩子每天送來送去往返婆家
再加上婆家有養狗..屋子狗毛塵蹣也不少,
我本身是有潔癖的,家裡總是打掃的一塵不染
而婆家相反地..婆婆基本上很少在打掃家裡..
我擔心衛生條件對新生兒不是太好
所以都是由婆婆來我家照顧寶寶。
(早上公公上班前,順道載她來我家,下班再來我家載婆婆回去)
就這樣,婆婆正式的進入我家了...
前言..
其實我很感謝婆婆幫我帶孩子,甚至我每天晚上回到家
她都已經幫我們把晚餐煮好,讓我和老公完全不用擔心吃飯的事情
但,其中還是有一些問題存在...
1. 婆婆煮的飯菜太鹹..太油..
這點我在婚前/甚至生小孩前就略知一二
不過因為當時回婆家吃飯的次數蠻少的,頂多一個月一二次
所以偶爾吃覺得還OK
但現在..幾乎每天晚上都吃口味這麼重的菜
長期下來,真的有點吃不消...
(尤其吃不完的,我隔天會帶便當到公司當中餐吃...等於一天兩餐都吃重鹹
長期這樣 最近覺得對身體負擔實在有點太大)
2. 前面有提到,婆婆基本上是對衛生條件/清洗不太在意的人
因此,婆婆煮過的廚房,基本上都是所有油膩膩的鍋碗瓢盆全部丟在流理台和水槽裡
不做任何清洗,就回去的..
這點跟我自己煮的習慣差非常多(我是煮完一道會立刻洗,再煮下一道
對廚房整潔有潔癖的人..)
所以我每天下班回家,除了忙著帶孩子/擠奶/餵奶之外
還得清洗婆婆煮晚餐時用到的廚具
(通常會有三個以上的炒鍋..煎到很黑..
一個湯鍋 以及無數個她拿來蓋菜用的鍋蓋和碗盤)
更別說我還要將她弄得濕答答 髒兮兮的廚房全部刷過一遍
常常我在廚房忙,寶寶在客廳哭T__T
每天這樣搞下來 我下班後還得刷廚房廚具實在也覺得很累...
針對以上兩點,我實在很苦惱
一方面我很感念婆婆的好(幫我帶孩子,還幫煮晚餐)
所以我實在不好意思 也不認為自己有立場跟她說飯菜太鹹以及流理台的事..
總是自己默默的處理善後..
但另一方面,我真的吃的很不習慣...鹹到我常常吃完舌頭都很痛= =
以及每天下班還得刷洗她留下來的戰場,職業婦女真的累炸了...
經過與老公的討論後,我目前想到的方法是跟婆婆說
她幫我們帶孩子已經很辛苦了,請她不用再花時間煮飯..
我下班回來會煮,或買回來吃即可。
但婆婆的回應總是,
沒關係
沒關係
沒關係
沒關係
不辛苦
不辛苦
不辛苦
不辛苦
老公說婆婆怕我們吃外食不健康,下班回家自己煮又太累
所以她都很想幫我們弄得好好的.....
很難勸退她煮飯這件事...
所以問題到目前都還無法解決.........
請問大家有更好的方法嗎??
謝謝...
--
一直到今年初生了一個小baby後,出現以下問題
實在不知道如何解決...所以上版來求助各位有經驗的人妻/人夫@@
產假結束後,我回到職場上班
老公及婆家都不放心將寶寶交給保母,
再加上自我懷孕開始,婆婆就一直釋放出想要幫我帶孩子
讓我可以無後顧之憂的回去上班的訊息
所以,回來上班後,寶寶白天交由婆婆照顧,自然成為選項..
由於寶寶實在還太小,我跟老公都捨不得這麼小的孩子每天送來送去往返婆家
再加上婆家有養狗..屋子狗毛塵蹣也不少,
我本身是有潔癖的,家裡總是打掃的一塵不染
而婆家相反地..婆婆基本上很少在打掃家裡..
我擔心衛生條件對新生兒不是太好
所以都是由婆婆來我家照顧寶寶。
(早上公公上班前,順道載她來我家,下班再來我家載婆婆回去)
就這樣,婆婆正式的進入我家了...
前言..
其實我很感謝婆婆幫我帶孩子,甚至我每天晚上回到家
她都已經幫我們把晚餐煮好,讓我和老公完全不用擔心吃飯的事情
但,其中還是有一些問題存在...
1. 婆婆煮的飯菜太鹹..太油..
這點我在婚前/甚至生小孩前就略知一二
不過因為當時回婆家吃飯的次數蠻少的,頂多一個月一二次
所以偶爾吃覺得還OK
但現在..幾乎每天晚上都吃口味這麼重的菜
長期下來,真的有點吃不消...
(尤其吃不完的,我隔天會帶便當到公司當中餐吃...等於一天兩餐都吃重鹹
長期這樣 最近覺得對身體負擔實在有點太大)
2. 前面有提到,婆婆基本上是對衛生條件/清洗不太在意的人
因此,婆婆煮過的廚房,基本上都是所有油膩膩的鍋碗瓢盆全部丟在流理台和水槽裡
不做任何清洗,就回去的..
這點跟我自己煮的習慣差非常多(我是煮完一道會立刻洗,再煮下一道
對廚房整潔有潔癖的人..)
所以我每天下班回家,除了忙著帶孩子/擠奶/餵奶之外
還得清洗婆婆煮晚餐時用到的廚具
(通常會有三個以上的炒鍋..煎到很黑..
一個湯鍋 以及無數個她拿來蓋菜用的鍋蓋和碗盤)
更別說我還要將她弄得濕答答 髒兮兮的廚房全部刷過一遍
常常我在廚房忙,寶寶在客廳哭T__T
每天這樣搞下來 我下班後還得刷廚房廚具實在也覺得很累...
針對以上兩點,我實在很苦惱
一方面我很感念婆婆的好(幫我帶孩子,還幫煮晚餐)
所以我實在不好意思 也不認為自己有立場跟她說飯菜太鹹以及流理台的事..
總是自己默默的處理善後..
但另一方面,我真的吃的很不習慣...鹹到我常常吃完舌頭都很痛= =
以及每天下班還得刷洗她留下來的戰場,職業婦女真的累炸了...
經過與老公的討論後,我目前想到的方法是跟婆婆說
她幫我們帶孩子已經很辛苦了,請她不用再花時間煮飯..
我下班回來會煮,或買回來吃即可。
但婆婆的回應總是,
沒關係
沒關係
沒關係
沒關係
不辛苦
不辛苦
不辛苦
不辛苦
老公說婆婆怕我們吃外食不健康,下班回家自己煮又太累
所以她都很想幫我們弄得好好的.....
很難勸退她煮飯這件事...
所以問題到目前都還無法解決.........
請問大家有更好的方法嗎??
謝謝...
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