婆婆一直批評小孩的外表 - 婚姻

By James
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真的超超級不爽
小孩才四個月大
每次帶回鄉下婆婆看到他就是滿嘴批評
(但是她都自以為是在跟他玩)
比如說 抱他的同時就要說啥你的臉怎麼這麼大
你的體重是我孫子裡面的第一名
不然就是說他是大伯的小孩 因為大伯屬於身材比較壯碩的
然後又說他重到她抱不起來了
一直溫我是否給他餵很多 或是質疑我們買的奶粉是否太甜。事實上我們第一胎照書養 我也做了很多功課 並沒有餵太多 人家四個月吃一百八 我們才剛從120跳上140
昨天回去 她又跟我說
你這個小孩就是屬於比較粗胚型的
我聽不懂。她說就是說他是身材壯碩的意思
我真的很不爽。他的生長曲線圖明明身高體重都在平均值
老實說 他真的沒有到胖 只是臉比較肉 我們也不是米其林
或許我的小孩比較像我 不像老公 她就一直說他胖
我婆婆對二哥的小孩 (因為也是她幫忙帶的)就是滿嘴稱讚 說自己孫子怎麼看都覺得好看。但是她也常常唸二哥跟二嫂都沒在餵小孩說他太瘦。但其實生長曲線來看也只是平均值而已
二嫂之前也抱怨過婆婆都說小孩好看的就像二哥 不好看的就像她
我真的不想去比較什麼。而且外表本來就不是一切
但是每次回去就是滿嘴離不開說他胖的話題我真的很無言
而且老公朋友帶小孩來家裡拜訪 人家走了她就開始批評別人的小孩說他的小孩真的長得不好看 她稱讚不下去
我們婚禮的女花童是我同事自願當的
她竟然在婚禮當天嫌人家小孩長得不好看
同理可證
她就是覺得我的小孩沒二哥小孩好看
所以才一直說他胖跟重。
我認為孩子健康就好。有幾次真的很想當場翻臉
過年那幾天我真的崩潰了
跟老公大吵一架
我說明我的感受
老公卻說我防衛心太重
我真的很想知道 真的是我太保護我的小孩
或是我的婆婆真的很惹人厭只是我老公不覺得而已?
如果是你們。是否當場回嘴會比較好。或是要自己習慣當作耳邊風?
我真的又氣的整晚睡不著
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小孩才四個月大
每次帶回鄉下婆婆看到他就是滿嘴批評
(但是她都自以為是在跟他玩)
比如說 抱他的同時就要說啥你的臉怎麼這麼大
你的體重是我孫子裡面的第一名
不然就是說他是大伯的小孩 因為大伯屬於身材比較壯碩的
然後又說他重到她抱不起來了
一直溫我是否給他餵很多 或是質疑我們買的奶粉是否太甜。事實上我們第一胎照書養 我也做了很多功課 並沒有餵太多 人家四個月吃一百八 我們才剛從120跳上140
昨天回去 她又跟我說
你這個小孩就是屬於比較粗胚型的
我聽不懂。她說就是說他是身材壯碩的意思
我真的很不爽。他的生長曲線圖明明身高體重都在平均值
老實說 他真的沒有到胖 只是臉比較肉 我們也不是米其林
或許我的小孩比較像我 不像老公 她就一直說他胖
我婆婆對二哥的小孩 (因為也是她幫忙帶的)就是滿嘴稱讚 說自己孫子怎麼看都覺得好看。但是她也常常唸二哥跟二嫂都沒在餵小孩說他太瘦。但其實生長曲線來看也只是平均值而已
二嫂之前也抱怨過婆婆都說小孩好看的就像二哥 不好看的就像她
我真的不想去比較什麼。而且外表本來就不是一切
但是每次回去就是滿嘴離不開說他胖的話題我真的很無言
而且老公朋友帶小孩來家裡拜訪 人家走了她就開始批評別人的小孩說他的小孩真的長得不好看 她稱讚不下去
我們婚禮的女花童是我同事自願當的
她竟然在婚禮當天嫌人家小孩長得不好看
同理可證
她就是覺得我的小孩沒二哥小孩好看
所以才一直說他胖跟重。
我認為孩子健康就好。有幾次真的很想當場翻臉
過年那幾天我真的崩潰了
跟老公大吵一架
我說明我的感受
老公卻說我防衛心太重
我真的很想知道 真的是我太保護我的小孩
或是我的婆婆真的很惹人厭只是我老公不覺得而已?
如果是你們。是否當場回嘴會比較好。或是要自己習慣當作耳邊風?
我真的又氣的整晚睡不著
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