可以教教我如何忽視碎念+質疑呢? - 婚姻

By Caitlin
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啊,我跟你的為難之處完全相反,
生了寶寶後,我超級節省的,老公倒是本來就對我蠻大方而對他自己很節省,
我是想留越多給寶寶越好沒錯,以致老公和公公都有點看不下去了。
寶寶用的是義大利名牌、法國名牌貨,
當然名牌舶來品不見得就有多好,但我就是想給寶寶品質好一滴滴的東西。
而我自己呢,孕婦裝只有兩件各兩百多元的輪著穿,
懷孕期間,公公及老公都說想讓我去坐月子中心待產加上坐月子,
他們也都願意買單,公公還包了大紅包給我支付開銷,
真的很有心,只是被我退回了。
我也捨不得從家庭存款中挪錢出來去給坐月子中心或訂月子餐,
完全只想將錢留給寶寶,寶寶臍帶與臍帶血的花費花了二十幾萬元,
目前寶寶才剛滿月,寶寶的保費則已交出兩百多萬元。
你呢,是被婆婆唸說要省錢,唸你花了孫子本,
我卻是被公公唸說對自己太苛刻,一直交代老公買這買那給我,
甚至還要拉我去買外套什麼的。
其實只要出於好意,就當作是甜蜜的嘮叨吧!
因為她是婆婆,你才更為介意,想想我們從小還不就常被媽媽唸說太會花錢嗎?
※ 引述《ilovelwk (我要工作)》之銘言:
: 前一篇婆婆不滿足文我因應C的要求刪掉了,C怕被同事看到哈哈~~
: 我不是C啦....我真希望我是C
: 我只是常出差但是錢少的悲慘B,就是那個鞋子1800的(淚...)
: 原本我們是不會跟婆講什麼的啦,但是大嫂要我們誠實一點,
: 要讓婆婆習慣周年慶的存在,
: 讓婆婆知道現在的女生不用每天4點起床種田煮早餐,
: 也不需要10年買一件衣服,更不需要生一大堆.....
: 只是喜歡買東西所以也會常買給婆婆,她才會知道這些東西的價格,
: 加上"耿直""不對媽撒謊的"三兄弟,
: 我猜想我們三個可能是街坊鄰居出了名的敗家媳婦(拜託也是敗自己賺的阿..)
: 但是也是邊拿邊碎念,不管什麼事情都扯到:
: 1.孫子總數越多越好,男生尤佳女生也可以,男生最好兩三個(很容易變半打吧...)
: 2.孫子財產越多越好,媳婦花的吃的都是孫子的結婚財(那個...我想要自己花不行嗎)
: 3.媳婦下班,婆婆常常撲個空,然後看到客廳堆滿百貨公司的提袋(年中慶)
: 而且餐桌是空的,或是她覺得不及格的菜餚(婆婆會辦桌我不會阿><)
: 因為很孝(ㄅㄟˇ)順(ㄑㄧ)的給了婆婆鑰匙~
: 4.出國是罪惡,你出差工作OK但是怎麼老公也出差去了....孫子也要出差嗎?
: 國外的東西就是"貴貴貴" 出國就是~又在亂花我孫子的結婚本..Q_Q
: 5.這只針對我: 婆曰:女生穿男生的就好啦~可以一起穿到大學,到大學再幫妹妹買裙子啦..
: 這......抱歉我做不出來,到大學才可以買裙子,我暈~~~
: 各位媽媽評評理,生女生都不能買裙子和粉紅色衣服,這麼省,乾脆別生不是更省??
: 我很佩服那種跟婆婆一起住的,容許我致上100萬分的敬意,
: 搞得我現在都有藍色星期五+快樂的星期一....跟別人相反,
: 佩服板上的眾位強人,我只能聽著碎念度過我年輕歲月的六日,
: 在我尚未生出第三個孫子前,
: 謝謝大家聽我抱怨,我感覺好多了.......
: ps.奇怪....結婚前婆婆就知道我們的消費習慣+人生規畫,那時連坑都沒吭一聲吶.....
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