口才不好難道罪該萬死嗎 囧 - 婚姻
By Zora
at 2011-10-04T00:42
at 2011-10-04T00:42
Table of Contents
突然想起以前遇過一件事情
強者我朋友A來問我 為什麼知書答禮的B 突然講話不得體 他不擔心得罪人嗎?
其實我很為難 無法告訴A真相 XD
因為B跟我抱怨 長期被A生活指導
A把B當作中小學生 不停的跟他灌輸儒家禮義的大道理
B不理會A還沒辦法 A會直接到B的位子去一對一親密教學 XDDDD
B在長期言語騷擾下 作出了很溫和的反擊 沒直接大吼瞪人已經給面子了
A永遠不知道問題出在自己身上 囧
強者我朋友A 用大道理和高姿態去對待B 很容易被討厭吶
作者: yutsenlin (;)) 看板: marriage
標題: [閒聊] 到底是會說話還是不會說話
時間: Mon Oct 3 23:18:51 2011
小叔幾個月前結婚, 從此婆家就又多了一個媳婦
小嬸的個性和我不同, 我比較喜歡家庭聚會, 嘴巴甜
小嬸比較獨立, 也比較安靜
之前小叔和小嬸來我們家作客探望寶寶, 雖然我和他們不熟
但聊起天來感覺小叔老實,小嬸客氣
我唯一覺得比較有疑慮的是他們未來想要買房的地點
因此提議他們是不是先和我們住,
一方面交通較近,另一方面每個月多省一萬多,離買房更近一步
不過想來是同住還是怕摩擦, 所以後來小叔小嬸還是去租了房子試住該地
我想這是小家庭的選擇,於是和老公兩人都默默祝福
但前幾天回婆家, 聽婆婆說起他們選擇的住處, 似乎充滿遺憾
希望他們住近一點, 讓公婆可以對他們多點照應
(就像現在照應我們一樣, 因為順路, 經常會帶菜來我們家, 也可以常來幫忙帶孫)
不過我聽起來應該是小叔的一句話壞了事
當公婆向小叔建議既然是租房子, 沒必要租個上班要一個多鐘頭的地方
如果是追求不要太貴的租金, 可以租婆家附近, 他們可以多cover他們小家庭
小叔當時回應: "你們兩個不要一廂情願!"
從此, 公婆想到要拿菜和水果給小叔夫妻的時候, 都會再提醒對方一次
"你(妳)不要太一廂情願!"
我和同事說起這件事的時候, 說小叔實在不太會說話, 這樣不是害老婆黑掉嗎?
我同事一直笑, 說小叔其實很會說話, 一句話就表達了所有涵義~
但是同事笑完了也說如果是以同事爸媽心高氣傲的個性
聽到這句話的當下, 大概就和小夫妻斷絕關係了吧
其實我可以理解小夫妻不想要被打擾的感受
我之所以不反感公婆的照顧, 可能也只是我本來就依賴之故
但是也感嘆, 小叔真的是個脾氣非常好非常老實善良的人
但老實就能成為所有不善言辭的藉口嗎?
尤其是爸媽從小看他到大,一有不尋常的言詞,都會覺得是別人的意見
有時候想想,
當好媳婦難
當好老公也難
當好公婆, 也很不簡單啊!
--
強者我朋友A來問我 為什麼知書答禮的B 突然講話不得體 他不擔心得罪人嗎?
其實我很為難 無法告訴A真相 XD
因為B跟我抱怨 長期被A生活指導
A把B當作中小學生 不停的跟他灌輸儒家禮義的大道理
B不理會A還沒辦法 A會直接到B的位子去一對一親密教學 XDDDD
B在長期言語騷擾下 作出了很溫和的反擊 沒直接大吼瞪人已經給面子了
A永遠不知道問題出在自己身上 囧
強者我朋友A 用大道理和高姿態去對待B 很容易被討厭吶
作者: yutsenlin (;)) 看板: marriage
標題: [閒聊] 到底是會說話還是不會說話
時間: Mon Oct 3 23:18:51 2011
小叔幾個月前結婚, 從此婆家就又多了一個媳婦
小嬸的個性和我不同, 我比較喜歡家庭聚會, 嘴巴甜
小嬸比較獨立, 也比較安靜
之前小叔和小嬸來我們家作客探望寶寶, 雖然我和他們不熟
但聊起天來感覺小叔老實,小嬸客氣
我唯一覺得比較有疑慮的是他們未來想要買房的地點
因此提議他們是不是先和我們住,
一方面交通較近,另一方面每個月多省一萬多,離買房更近一步
不過想來是同住還是怕摩擦, 所以後來小叔小嬸還是去租了房子試住該地
我想這是小家庭的選擇,於是和老公兩人都默默祝福
但前幾天回婆家, 聽婆婆說起他們選擇的住處, 似乎充滿遺憾
希望他們住近一點, 讓公婆可以對他們多點照應
(就像現在照應我們一樣, 因為順路, 經常會帶菜來我們家, 也可以常來幫忙帶孫)
不過我聽起來應該是小叔的一句話壞了事
當公婆向小叔建議既然是租房子, 沒必要租個上班要一個多鐘頭的地方
如果是追求不要太貴的租金, 可以租婆家附近, 他們可以多cover他們小家庭
小叔當時回應: "你們兩個不要一廂情願!"
從此, 公婆想到要拿菜和水果給小叔夫妻的時候, 都會再提醒對方一次
"你(妳)不要太一廂情願!"
我和同事說起這件事的時候, 說小叔實在不太會說話, 這樣不是害老婆黑掉嗎?
我同事一直笑, 說小叔其實很會說話, 一句話就表達了所有涵義~
但是同事笑完了也說如果是以同事爸媽心高氣傲的個性
聽到這句話的當下, 大概就和小夫妻斷絕關係了吧
其實我可以理解小夫妻不想要被打擾的感受
我之所以不反感公婆的照顧, 可能也只是我本來就依賴之故
但是也感嘆, 小叔真的是個脾氣非常好非常老實善良的人
但老實就能成為所有不善言辭的藉口嗎?
尤其是爸媽從小看他到大,一有不尋常的言詞,都會覺得是別人的意見
有時候想想,
當好媳婦難
當好老公也難
當好公婆, 也很不簡單啊!
--
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