前幾天被老公拋棄在街頭…我該離婚嗎?下 - 婚姻
By Freda
at 2011-09-15T12:45
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感謝大家的指教,首先我就先不交代我家裡的事,太多了說不完~
我也覺得我硬脾氣要改,畢竟那麼多人說,也該好好想想
一直問他幹嘛不接,在家裡他真的很常這樣,公公小姑有時會覺得很煩~
一直問他問題,他不回答,算是他的習慣,問的人想要得到他的答案,要
多問幾次才會得到回覆。
像吃飯時,他一直專心看電視,不管是我還是公公跟他說話,要問四五次,
他才會說:你剛剛說什麼?當然不吃飯他只看電視也是這樣。
他在上網或打電動時,更嚴重,他也是這樣;外出時只要餐廳或旁邊有報紙、
雜誌、電視他也是這樣子。只有講電話他就會專心跟你對談。
問多了我有時也會不想要問,不然我都要再加一句剛剛我問你的你有聽到嗎?
他有時才會說:嗯! 那幾天我無聊吧,就多問幾次,所以才變成這樣!
自己過馬路,真的沒有關系,不會死,可能用文字無法讓人了解當時的狀況,
我想問,一起出門都走在一起,他先過的方式,不是像有的人是懶的等紅燈就先過,
是很不爽也沒有告知,突然就快速走掉,被留在原地的人,不會覺得不舒服嗎?
如果大家都不會,我真的要改進;但是我跟他出去逛街,有時逛到太開心,跟他
走散他會很生氣。
那要各走各的,幹嘛要一起出門,就各自出門就好了是不是。
吵架時,每個人都應該是覺得是對方的錯吧,不然怎麼吵的起來,我一開始口氣沒有不
好,是他先有那樣的動作,我才開始口氣不好,如果我當時冷靜不吵,也不要叫他道
歉,可能他也不會放我在那邊。
我口氣不好,可是我可以接受他跟我吵,但我沒有辦法接受被丟在路上,當然
我也不會馬上死掉,但是,在一區暗巷中女生就真的保證安全嗎?女生們真的能
接受被老公丟在路上嗎?然後丟完默默的自己回家就算了,不會難過想哭?
男生跟老婆吵架,就放心晚上丟她一個人嗎?
會有想要離婚的念頭,不是他吃醋誤會我、自己先走就算了,放一個女生晚上在外面
所有人真的覺得OK嗎?在怎麼氣,一夜過後回來不會關心或是問一下對方嗎?又不是
陌生人。
還有結過婚的人從來都沒有過離婚的想法嗎?我只是把我心中的os說出來而已,不是
宣告我一定要離婚收場。
對了,我沒有故意要說給公公聽,我從來不說的,是因為這次他一直追問我,因為他問
我老公一定不會理他,他說他要知道,不然老人家睡不著,我才說的。
後來想想,公公想要關心,不過我應該要忍住才對,我不是愛亂說,不然就不用在這
邊發言了!
忠言逆耳~我了解的,我在這邊說一說心情好多了~謝謝大家唷~
--
我也覺得我硬脾氣要改,畢竟那麼多人說,也該好好想想
一直問他幹嘛不接,在家裡他真的很常這樣,公公小姑有時會覺得很煩~
一直問他問題,他不回答,算是他的習慣,問的人想要得到他的答案,要
多問幾次才會得到回覆。
像吃飯時,他一直專心看電視,不管是我還是公公跟他說話,要問四五次,
他才會說:你剛剛說什麼?當然不吃飯他只看電視也是這樣。
他在上網或打電動時,更嚴重,他也是這樣;外出時只要餐廳或旁邊有報紙、
雜誌、電視他也是這樣子。只有講電話他就會專心跟你對談。
問多了我有時也會不想要問,不然我都要再加一句剛剛我問你的你有聽到嗎?
他有時才會說:嗯! 那幾天我無聊吧,就多問幾次,所以才變成這樣!
自己過馬路,真的沒有關系,不會死,可能用文字無法讓人了解當時的狀況,
我想問,一起出門都走在一起,他先過的方式,不是像有的人是懶的等紅燈就先過,
是很不爽也沒有告知,突然就快速走掉,被留在原地的人,不會覺得不舒服嗎?
如果大家都不會,我真的要改進;但是我跟他出去逛街,有時逛到太開心,跟他
走散他會很生氣。
那要各走各的,幹嘛要一起出門,就各自出門就好了是不是。
吵架時,每個人都應該是覺得是對方的錯吧,不然怎麼吵的起來,我一開始口氣沒有不
好,是他先有那樣的動作,我才開始口氣不好,如果我當時冷靜不吵,也不要叫他道
歉,可能他也不會放我在那邊。
我口氣不好,可是我可以接受他跟我吵,但我沒有辦法接受被丟在路上,當然
我也不會馬上死掉,但是,在一區暗巷中女生就真的保證安全嗎?女生們真的能
接受被老公丟在路上嗎?然後丟完默默的自己回家就算了,不會難過想哭?
男生跟老婆吵架,就放心晚上丟她一個人嗎?
會有想要離婚的念頭,不是他吃醋誤會我、自己先走就算了,放一個女生晚上在外面
所有人真的覺得OK嗎?在怎麼氣,一夜過後回來不會關心或是問一下對方嗎?又不是
陌生人。
還有結過婚的人從來都沒有過離婚的想法嗎?我只是把我心中的os說出來而已,不是
宣告我一定要離婚收場。
對了,我沒有故意要說給公公聽,我從來不說的,是因為這次他一直追問我,因為他問
我老公一定不會理他,他說他要知道,不然老人家睡不著,我才說的。
後來想想,公公想要關心,不過我應該要忍住才對,我不是愛亂說,不然就不用在這
邊發言了!
忠言逆耳~我了解的,我在這邊說一說心情好多了~謝謝大家唷~
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