到底要怎麼處理心情 - 婚姻

By Elma
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我老公是馬來西亞人,在英國工作
去年三月我們在台灣登記結婚之後老公就幫我申請依親簽證,原定今年三月將在台灣舉辦
婚禮,接著便移民到英國一起生活.
我們婚後生活一直都是兩地分開,但這一年我還是有飛去跟他生活三個多月
但在去年12月開始,老公突然開始不太理我,可以一周都不聯絡,當然我覺得奇怪所以
鬧脾氣,但情況依舊沒有轉好所以我就軟性冷靜的想跟他談.一開始他都是回我沒有啊~
沒事啊~,但是卻依舊不太聯絡,打給他也變成十通只接兩通這種.由於這時間離婚禮
沒剩幾個月卻竟然發生這樣的事,讓我很沒有安全感不解這男人怎能變了一個人,所以花
了近一個月逼問到底我們之間發生什麼事,軟硬皆施的想知道要怎麼改善我們問題,可是
他始終不說到底他在想什麼到底我們有什麼問題(而且每次跟他談因為還是有情緒,兩人
都很難過,他也一直哭,但是卻什麼都說不出),於是我提出了到底還要不要辦婚禮的
問題,沒想到他答應了.我們在過年前決定取消婚禮.
決定取消婚禮後就是愁雲慘霧,但我依舊不知道我們之間到底發生什麼問題,所以更加
鬱悶,老公依舊不太聯絡.所以我決定一刀砍斷,想著以後如果又有什麼事,難道我每次
都要花一兩個月來逼問?更何況現在我根本不知道發生什麼事.所以我提出離婚,希望他
來台灣辦手續(因為是異國婚姻 需本人辦理).但老公每次談每次哀求我不要離婚,他
說他還愛我,他不要離婚.所以我心軟,但他依舊不跟我聯絡,打給他也很少接,我再度
受不了了,這次我真的決心離婚了.他依舊哭得死去活來,不要跟我離婚.取消婚禮對我
來說實在打擊很大,而且是死的不明不白
我想問各位愛情專家大大們,到底是為什麼不想離婚,但又不想跟老婆聯絡?
我們取消婚禮的事他也不跟他的好友講(朋友們還是要專程飛台灣參加的)他跟我公公
婆婆也只說我們只是延後婚禮.我真的不懂他這樣到底什麼意思?如果不需要我了就應該
還我一個自由,我不想背著已婚身份重新開始人生.
我到底要怎麼做?心情要怎麼處理?心真的好累
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去年三月我們在台灣登記結婚之後老公就幫我申請依親簽證,原定今年三月將在台灣舉辦
婚禮,接著便移民到英國一起生活.
我們婚後生活一直都是兩地分開,但這一年我還是有飛去跟他生活三個多月
但在去年12月開始,老公突然開始不太理我,可以一周都不聯絡,當然我覺得奇怪所以
鬧脾氣,但情況依舊沒有轉好所以我就軟性冷靜的想跟他談.一開始他都是回我沒有啊~
沒事啊~,但是卻依舊不太聯絡,打給他也變成十通只接兩通這種.由於這時間離婚禮
沒剩幾個月卻竟然發生這樣的事,讓我很沒有安全感不解這男人怎能變了一個人,所以花
了近一個月逼問到底我們之間發生什麼事,軟硬皆施的想知道要怎麼改善我們問題,可是
他始終不說到底他在想什麼到底我們有什麼問題(而且每次跟他談因為還是有情緒,兩人
都很難過,他也一直哭,但是卻什麼都說不出),於是我提出了到底還要不要辦婚禮的
問題,沒想到他答應了.我們在過年前決定取消婚禮.
決定取消婚禮後就是愁雲慘霧,但我依舊不知道我們之間到底發生什麼問題,所以更加
鬱悶,老公依舊不太聯絡.所以我決定一刀砍斷,想著以後如果又有什麼事,難道我每次
都要花一兩個月來逼問?更何況現在我根本不知道發生什麼事.所以我提出離婚,希望他
來台灣辦手續(因為是異國婚姻 需本人辦理).但老公每次談每次哀求我不要離婚,他
說他還愛我,他不要離婚.所以我心軟,但他依舊不跟我聯絡,打給他也很少接,我再度
受不了了,這次我真的決心離婚了.他依舊哭得死去活來,不要跟我離婚.取消婚禮對我
來說實在打擊很大,而且是死的不明不白
我想問各位愛情專家大大們,到底是為什麼不想離婚,但又不想跟老婆聯絡?
我們取消婚禮的事他也不跟他的好友講(朋友們還是要專程飛台灣參加的)他跟我公公
婆婆也只說我們只是延後婚禮.我真的不懂他這樣到底什麼意思?如果不需要我了就應該
還我一個自由,我不想背著已婚身份重新開始人生.
我到底要怎麼做?心情要怎麼處理?心真的好累
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