公婆改不了講媳婦壞話的毛病 - 婚姻
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公婆的朋友保險業務來家中
他們同年級的朋友閒聊還好
結果可能是公婆經常抱怨 剛剛聽到的點有
1. 公公説 現在女性都很強 經濟也對立 因此要求婚後家庭家事各半 出力之類的
結果聽到保險業務回:我是基督徒 我相信上帝創造萬物亞當夏娃之類的 女人是要輔佐男
性之類的言論
當然 我公公是大男人 聽到感覺很開心 於是他們又聊起來 然後 似乎聽到公公在批評某
人什麼年薪只有多少 還在那邊囂張 業務也搭配就開始批評 又不是賺多少 ......
(當然 我不需要對號入座 但是他們如果是講我們夫妻 我先生現在已經沒有工作無業了
整天只想玩期貨股票 就算我年薪再少 也勝過於沒有)
2. 他們家親戚的傳統就是 很愛講別人來掩飾自己的不足 之前也聽到先生的嬸嬸來家中
批評媳婦 (那個媳婦已經比我乖 在公家機關上班 每天在婆家都不發表意見沒聲音的 結
果婆婆也是嫌 其實他們最看不過去就是現在婚後男人會幫忙老婆家事小孩很多 認為現在
女性很好命之類的想法)
3.業務真的很無聊 但自己本身當過業務 也知道相信業務講的認真就輸了 她也只是為了
配合客人想法在那頭一搭一唱 但是公婆這種對立的思想真的只會讓關係變得更差 甚至無
法修復
他們一搭一唱損別人很開心的言論 實在無法相信
以我自己的家裡 還有親戚為例 全部不是這種磁場
我們只會對政治人物批判 但對周遭人不會不站在別人立場 而且講話講的很難聽 還自得
其樂
若是我們這樣講別人 也會去想別人是怎麼看待自己的心胸 但我無法勸公婆改去這種講別
人壞話習慣 他們也不單只是講外人 只要想法作法不一樣 都很愛這樣嘲諷
轉念想 就算真講我這個惡媳婦也就算了
畢竟事情無法過去的是他們 一直負面思考對方不好 更難受的只是自己心裡健康
我敢黑我承認 業務那個年齡層的想法 就隨便她們了 若她有兒子結婚 這種觀念若還在
人生也只會一直不斷抱怨下去
爭取婚後男女家事分工沒錯 總不能有一方結婚了 還是個廢人吧!
今天晚上在樓上摺衣服 還覺得我幫婆婆把兒子有教好 至少先生現在什麼都會做 除了煮
飯 其他他都可以自律自理 也不是個生活白癡 照顧小孩也進步
不會夫妻雙方有一天那一個有意外或是無法抽身
家庭因此而失衡 當然先生做的比我好的地方 我也可以多學習成長 夫妻本是能互相照顧
才能走的長久。
當然互相照顧的前提下 就是愛對方 愛家庭 才願意犧牲付出
我先生雖然有成長 但對於付出有時也是一直計較
其實真不能怪他 在這種家庭的氛圍成長 要他一個男人付出已經是很難 但還是想對公婆
說 若要兒女成材 就把能狠心放手 畢竟一個人真的潛力無窮
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他們同年級的朋友閒聊還好
結果可能是公婆經常抱怨 剛剛聽到的點有
1. 公公説 現在女性都很強 經濟也對立 因此要求婚後家庭家事各半 出力之類的
結果聽到保險業務回:我是基督徒 我相信上帝創造萬物亞當夏娃之類的 女人是要輔佐男
性之類的言論
當然 我公公是大男人 聽到感覺很開心 於是他們又聊起來 然後 似乎聽到公公在批評某
人什麼年薪只有多少 還在那邊囂張 業務也搭配就開始批評 又不是賺多少 ......
(當然 我不需要對號入座 但是他們如果是講我們夫妻 我先生現在已經沒有工作無業了
整天只想玩期貨股票 就算我年薪再少 也勝過於沒有)
2. 他們家親戚的傳統就是 很愛講別人來掩飾自己的不足 之前也聽到先生的嬸嬸來家中
批評媳婦 (那個媳婦已經比我乖 在公家機關上班 每天在婆家都不發表意見沒聲音的 結
果婆婆也是嫌 其實他們最看不過去就是現在婚後男人會幫忙老婆家事小孩很多 認為現在
女性很好命之類的想法)
3.業務真的很無聊 但自己本身當過業務 也知道相信業務講的認真就輸了 她也只是為了
配合客人想法在那頭一搭一唱 但是公婆這種對立的思想真的只會讓關係變得更差 甚至無
法修復
他們一搭一唱損別人很開心的言論 實在無法相信
以我自己的家裡 還有親戚為例 全部不是這種磁場
我們只會對政治人物批判 但對周遭人不會不站在別人立場 而且講話講的很難聽 還自得
其樂
若是我們這樣講別人 也會去想別人是怎麼看待自己的心胸 但我無法勸公婆改去這種講別
人壞話習慣 他們也不單只是講外人 只要想法作法不一樣 都很愛這樣嘲諷
轉念想 就算真講我這個惡媳婦也就算了
畢竟事情無法過去的是他們 一直負面思考對方不好 更難受的只是自己心裡健康
我敢黑我承認 業務那個年齡層的想法 就隨便她們了 若她有兒子結婚 這種觀念若還在
人生也只會一直不斷抱怨下去
爭取婚後男女家事分工沒錯 總不能有一方結婚了 還是個廢人吧!
今天晚上在樓上摺衣服 還覺得我幫婆婆把兒子有教好 至少先生現在什麼都會做 除了煮
飯 其他他都可以自律自理 也不是個生活白癡 照顧小孩也進步
不會夫妻雙方有一天那一個有意外或是無法抽身
家庭因此而失衡 當然先生做的比我好的地方 我也可以多學習成長 夫妻本是能互相照顧
才能走的長久。
當然互相照顧的前提下 就是愛對方 愛家庭 才願意犧牲付出
我先生雖然有成長 但對於付出有時也是一直計較
其實真不能怪他 在這種家庭的氛圍成長 要他一個男人付出已經是很難 但還是想對公婆
說 若要兒女成材 就把能狠心放手 畢竟一個人真的潛力無窮
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