Re: 先生覺得我過太爽 - 婚姻
By Faithe
at 2021-11-26T11:38
at 2021-11-26T11:38
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※ 引述《lala2012 (曾啦啦antou)》之銘言:
: 和先生結婚六年,有兩個小孩一個大班一個小班
: 因為我上班時間特殊(兩頭班)
: 早上8:00上班12:15下班
: 晚上有3天6:10分上班9:15分下班
: 先生8:00上班下班回到家6:00
: 一週有兩天加班2.5小時)
: (但因為疫情工作量變少,現階段3個月沒加班)
: 家事平均分配
: 我接送小孩上下課,洗孩子餐盒,煮飯,幫孩子洗澡,陪寫作業,摺小孩衣服,陪睡
: 先生洗曬收摺我和他的衣服,環境整潔
: 有安排我晚上上班時間孩子們去學才藝
: 從孩子下課4:20分和6:15以前
: 我會準備好孩子的事情和晚餐
: 晚上下班回來孩子正等著我陪睡
: 但是結婚這幾年裡先生老是我抱怨下午不用工作,沒上班時段只會回娘家或往外跑,不在
: 家做事...
: 這種事情慢慢變成一週念3次
: 念到我心情好差!
: 真心問?有先生不希望老婆過太爽
很多啊
錢賺多的, 不能自己過太爽. 必須要多拿錢出來貼家用.
工時少的, 不能自己過太爽. 必須要多做家務.
還會跟妳說這才是愛, 太愛計較計算的話很辛苦!!
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回到正題...
你們工時薪資的部分
先生每日8:00~18:00下班到家. 一周有兩天加班2.5小時
妳每日8:00~12:15 , 有三天要18:10分 上到21:15分
先生收入53000, 妳39000. 家用共同支出, 家務平均分攤.
小孩16:20分下課到18:15前
原PO會準備晚餐和小孩的事.
那妳下午不用上班的時候, 都可以出門或回娘家是不是真的?
也就是12:15~16:20 每天四小時.
那先生下班後怎麼過呢? 可以出門嗎?
看起來不行, 因為他必須至少要平板育兒.
然後一周有兩天晚上妳們有機會在18:10~21:15分是兩人都在家的.
直到現在因為看不下去平板育兒(或放風時間不平衡?)
晚上時段把小孩送去學畫畫和英文(一周幾天不知,假設五天)
妳們有在進步啊(?)
先生得到了18:00到小孩補習回家這段時間. (妳也得到兩晚)
但小孩從和爸爸一起看平板, 還有媽媽兩天不用上晚班,變成去補習了.
那請問先生下班是回家, 還是常往外跑呢?
換個角度想,
假設先生把小孩送補習, 下班都往外跑. 9點/10點小孩補習完才回家.
應該就不是每個人都能舒坦的接受這種家庭運作模式.
可能有些人就會說這先生心不在家了.
或許先生不滿的點也是這樣?
--
: 和先生結婚六年,有兩個小孩一個大班一個小班
: 因為我上班時間特殊(兩頭班)
: 早上8:00上班12:15下班
: 晚上有3天6:10分上班9:15分下班
: 先生8:00上班下班回到家6:00
: 一週有兩天加班2.5小時)
: (但因為疫情工作量變少,現階段3個月沒加班)
: 家事平均分配
: 我接送小孩上下課,洗孩子餐盒,煮飯,幫孩子洗澡,陪寫作業,摺小孩衣服,陪睡
: 先生洗曬收摺我和他的衣服,環境整潔
: 有安排我晚上上班時間孩子們去學才藝
: 從孩子下課4:20分和6:15以前
: 我會準備好孩子的事情和晚餐
: 晚上下班回來孩子正等著我陪睡
: 但是結婚這幾年裡先生老是我抱怨下午不用工作,沒上班時段只會回娘家或往外跑,不在
: 家做事...
: 這種事情慢慢變成一週念3次
: 念到我心情好差!
: 真心問?有先生不希望老婆過太爽
很多啊
錢賺多的, 不能自己過太爽. 必須要多拿錢出來貼家用.
工時少的, 不能自己過太爽. 必須要多做家務.
還會跟妳說這才是愛, 太愛計較計算的話很辛苦!!
------------
回到正題...
你們工時薪資的部分
先生每日8:00~18:00下班到家. 一周有兩天加班2.5小時
妳每日8:00~12:15 , 有三天要18:10分 上到21:15分
先生收入53000, 妳39000. 家用共同支出, 家務平均分攤.
小孩16:20分下課到18:15前
原PO會準備晚餐和小孩的事.
那妳下午不用上班的時候, 都可以出門或回娘家是不是真的?
也就是12:15~16:20 每天四小時.
那先生下班後怎麼過呢? 可以出門嗎?
看起來不行, 因為他必須至少要平板育兒.
然後一周有兩天晚上妳們有機會在18:10~21:15分是兩人都在家的.
直到現在因為看不下去平板育兒(或放風時間不平衡?)
晚上時段把小孩送去學畫畫和英文(一周幾天不知,假設五天)
妳們有在進步啊(?)
先生得到了18:00到小孩補習回家這段時間. (妳也得到兩晚)
但小孩從和爸爸一起看平板, 還有媽媽兩天不用上晚班,變成去補習了.
那請問先生下班是回家, 還是常往外跑呢?
換個角度想,
假設先生把小孩送補習, 下班都往外跑. 9點/10點小孩補習完才回家.
應該就不是每個人都能舒坦的接受這種家庭運作模式.
可能有些人就會說這先生心不在家了.
或許先生不滿的點也是這樣?
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