公公將來如果需要照顧的問題 - 婚姻
By Ethan
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at 2019-11-27T20:40
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看到版上大家一面倒地提出拒絕,離婚的辦法。我想提出另外的一些看法。
當夫妻是“一個”家庭的時候,一個負擔的產生,實際是無法釐清責任的歸屬,
這份責任也不是你拒絕,就可以不落在小家庭身上。
所以真的不想照顧公公,有幾個建議
1.祈禱小孩子長大之前,公公的對象都存活著。所以要常常關心阿姨的健康。
2.假設公公的對象不小心掛了,藉口要照護小孩,沒時間顧老人。因為小孩托嬰跟看護費差不多,又怕小孩被保母虐待,所以優先自己顧小孩。
3.小孩長大,一定要出去找工作。藉口要上班,不用顧老人。因為月薪跟看護費差不多,然後老人會死,工作辭職會難再找,所以優先選擇工作。
不需要現在就說不顧老人,只會讓老公心存夫妻無法共患難的感覺。也就是心裡這樣想,但嘴巴要說的很好聽。
也不需要提出販賣土地,等到老公經濟上撐不下去了,自然會賣掉。
最後,千萬千萬不要當家庭主婦。到最後會讓你忍不住搜尋如何被動死亡又不負刑責的方法。切記!
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當夫妻是“一個”家庭的時候,一個負擔的產生,實際是無法釐清責任的歸屬,
這份責任也不是你拒絕,就可以不落在小家庭身上。
所以真的不想照顧公公,有幾個建議
1.祈禱小孩子長大之前,公公的對象都存活著。所以要常常關心阿姨的健康。
2.假設公公的對象不小心掛了,藉口要照護小孩,沒時間顧老人。因為小孩托嬰跟看護費差不多,又怕小孩被保母虐待,所以優先自己顧小孩。
3.小孩長大,一定要出去找工作。藉口要上班,不用顧老人。因為月薪跟看護費差不多,然後老人會死,工作辭職會難再找,所以優先選擇工作。
不需要現在就說不顧老人,只會讓老公心存夫妻無法共患難的感覺。也就是心裡這樣想,但嘴巴要說的很好聽。
也不需要提出販賣土地,等到老公經濟上撐不下去了,自然會賣掉。
最後,千萬千萬不要當家庭主婦。到最後會讓你忍不住搜尋如何被動死亡又不負刑責的方法。切記!
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