兩個孩子之後的X生活 - 婚姻
By Caitlin
at 2011-09-07T11:20
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唉...標題不知道怎麼下,本來想PO媽寶板的,找不到分類
我想想應該還是Marriage比較適合吧!
而且是有點害羞的苦惱>///<
我們結婚兩年有了兩個孩子,兩個寶寶只差一歲,一男一女,看起來好像很完美
在懷第二胎時我就一直威脅利誘我老公,我產後他要結紮
他一直沒給我明確的答覆,我知道他會害怕
我的婦產科醫師甚至要我帶他去找他,他要幫我勸他,
最後我放棄了!就想說算了,剖腹時一起做結紮吧!
沒想到,他居然也反對我做,最後我終於明白他的想法,他還想要再有個孩子
(但他說不是現在,或許是這兩個孩子大一點時)
我知道他愛小孩,也知道他一直是獨子一個人長大,了解小孩子會想要有伴
但現實狀況不允許啊!小孩子很燒錢的!
何況我的老二有發展遲緩的問題,我實在不太敢再有一個孩子
(其實我也很喜歡有很多小孩的,但實際上根本養不起)
兩個人觀念不太一樣,就造成了我們沒有一個人去做結紮
但自此之後我就很抗拒那件事,我採取的是安全期+全程套套(我的週期算是很準的)
老公也很配合,但我還是會擔心,畢竟沒辦法完全避孕,而且我們的兩胎都是很快就有了
整個過程我都緊張兮兮,結束後,我也會很害怕,直到每個月小紅報到才安心
老公看我這樣,其實也壓力頗大
目前為止我們的關係是沒有因此而出現問題,但我周遭有朋友就是這樣
抗拒到兩夫妻婚姻出現問題,後來我朋友妥協,過不久就有了第二胎(驚!)
我知道我老公已經盡量在配合我了!但我這種神經兮兮的個性
我也不知道要怎麼調整!明明我也是個大而化之的人,唯獨這件事就變這樣
(我兩胎都是在隔月小紅週期還沒到我就驗到了,因為我天天緊張在想驗孕)
我是有了絕不會想拿掉的人,所以我更加緊張不能有閃失
唉...可能也無解了吧!不知道大家對我們的狀況有沒有什麼好的意見呢?
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