先生常常參加宗教活動 - 婚姻
By Delia
at 2012-12-01T22:18
at 2012-12-01T22:18
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這篇沒有要戰宗教 因為我跟我先生都是同一宗教信仰
我當初也是因為他跟我同信仰才嫁給他
還沒結婚前 我們分隔兩地 他參加宗教活動 對我影響不大
因為他也會打電話跟我報備報平安或分享心得
然而結婚後 我搬到他住的那個城市
才發現他參加活動的頻率已經讓我有點煩惱了
他平常上班日朝九晚五 下班後
上個月的活動聚會的頻率是:
周一晚 (這個月活動終於結束了 下一期是明年三月)
周三晚 周五晚 周六早 偶爾周日早上
周四晚上則是他固定加班的日子
周六 或周日早 (有時候甚至會是一整天的)
雖然我也是那個團體的一分子
但是我參加活動的頻率只有他周四晚上加班的那一晚
或者偶爾周六周日陪他一起參加活動 但是大部分的時候還是都他一個人去的
家裡目前只有一個九個月大的小baby 平常就是我跟我媽輪流照顧
他下班五點回家後 陪一下孩子 六七點就去宗教聚會 回來時都十點 孩子也睡了
我曾經對他這樣頻繁參加活動頗有微詞 覺得他晚上都很少在家
幾乎除了周二晚由他在家顧小孩(因為我周二晚固定加班) 不過也是我媽顧比較多
但是他說: 我又不是像其他男人是去花天酒地 這是做善法 為什麼要生氣?
其實當我理性的想想
的確 他沒有不良嗜好 參加活動也都很開心 家中經濟大權也是在我
孩子我跟母親一起照顧 我也沒特別累到哪裡去( 我白天還是有工作的)
為什麼我還要不高興?
請問我該怎麼調適自己的心態? (我很確定該團體他沒有什麼特殊男女關係)
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