你周遭有人結婚但沒生小孩的嗎? - 婚姻
By Sierra Rose
at 2023-05-16T01:07
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我是ㄧ個在醫院的工作者,就我自己身邊同溫層觀察,有結婚的幾乎都有1到2個小孩
,少數有3個以上的小孩,有一個同事已經生了5個小孩,還想再生,但聽說他老婆已
經放話再生就要離婚
只有一對夫妻是有結婚沒有小孩 ,但在前年已經離婚!
不過以前同事大部分都在很年輕的時候就結婚,現在年輕的同事大部分都比較晚婚或是傾
向單身
如果以我在職場所見,
目前的老人都是屬於上一代的,基本上有結婚但沒有小孩的人屬於比較少數的。基本上這
類老人到醫療院所這個場域,大部分支持系統都很差,甚至需要社會資源的介入!
而目前上一代的老人有結婚有小孩的人,無論小孩有沒有盡心盡力照顧、有沒有隨伺在旁
,無論有錢不有錢,老人基本上無論是醫療決定或是心理層面,普遍都是非常依賴小孩的
!
但到了我們這個到我們這一代,很多人就算有小孩,也沒有養兒防老的概念,會比較會為
自己老年及退休生活做打算的話,或許有沒有小孩就不是那麼絕對,最重要的還是把自己
的老年生活準備好!
如果是以「壽命長短」來剖悉這個問題。
直觀的用膝蓋想,「結婚」有伴侶對壽命ㄧ定加分,但「有小孩」一定是讓父母短命好幾
年!
養小小孩的過程,實在太有害身體健康,尤其是像我這種抽到惡魔地獄籤的,小孩兩歲以
前半夜不睡覺、愛哭又愛鬧, 整天就是把你氣得血壓高
但各國對此的研究結果倒是出乎預料
「結婚」對女性壽命長短而言是減分條件,對男性壽命長短而言是加分條件!
而「有小孩」對壽命長短而言,居然是加分條件!
但若分成男性、女性來看,
男性是「有結婚有小孩的人」活得最久!
女性則是「沒結婚沒小孩的人」活得最久!
同步於臉書發文
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,少數有3個以上的小孩,有一個同事已經生了5個小孩,還想再生,但聽說他老婆已
經放話再生就要離婚
只有一對夫妻是有結婚沒有小孩 ,但在前年已經離婚!
不過以前同事大部分都在很年輕的時候就結婚,現在年輕的同事大部分都比較晚婚或是傾
向單身
如果以我在職場所見,
目前的老人都是屬於上一代的,基本上有結婚但沒有小孩的人屬於比較少數的。基本上這
類老人到醫療院所這個場域,大部分支持系統都很差,甚至需要社會資源的介入!
而目前上一代的老人有結婚有小孩的人,無論小孩有沒有盡心盡力照顧、有沒有隨伺在旁
,無論有錢不有錢,老人基本上無論是醫療決定或是心理層面,普遍都是非常依賴小孩的
!
但到了我們這個到我們這一代,很多人就算有小孩,也沒有養兒防老的概念,會比較會為
自己老年及退休生活做打算的話,或許有沒有小孩就不是那麼絕對,最重要的還是把自己
的老年生活準備好!
如果是以「壽命長短」來剖悉這個問題。
直觀的用膝蓋想,「結婚」有伴侶對壽命ㄧ定加分,但「有小孩」一定是讓父母短命好幾
年!
養小小孩的過程,實在太有害身體健康,尤其是像我這種抽到惡魔地獄籤的,小孩兩歲以
前半夜不睡覺、愛哭又愛鬧, 整天就是把你氣得血壓高
但各國對此的研究結果倒是出乎預料
「結婚」對女性壽命長短而言是減分條件,對男性壽命長短而言是加分條件!
而「有小孩」對壽命長短而言,居然是加分條件!
但若分成男性、女性來看,
男性是「有結婚有小孩的人」活得最久!
女性則是「沒結婚沒小孩的人」活得最久!
同步於臉書發文
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