你周遭有人結婚但沒生小孩的嗎? - 婚姻
By Hedda
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我自己身邊有結婚的,如果沒有生小孩,幾乎都是備孕困難在努力的,只有一個是不想生
的(但那個朋友沒什麼聯絡所以不知道她現在的想法,以前是說她是鑰匙兒童,覺得自己
童年不美滿,不想要小孩複製她的人生)
如果有認真考慮過結婚之後法律上各種層面問題,我自己也覺得不想生小孩其實根本不用
結婚,因為結婚就會有各種複雜問題,開明的長輩很少、結婚容易離婚難,如果只是交往
,很多事情就單純很多(純粹個人認為啦!)
小孩這件事,真的很看個人,喜歡或不排斥小孩,當然可以生,但很確定自己不愛小孩,
真的不要生,看到新聞上虐嬰虐童還是一些可憐的心靈受創的孩子,就會覺得他們很可憐
,孩子無法選擇自己父母,偏偏父母又是自己童年的依靠,所以不愛孩子的男女真的不要
生(如果早就知道自己無法善待他們,至少不要讓孩子出生受折磨吧?)
不過如果身邊不排斥孩子的適婚女子還是很想要小孩的,我都會鼓勵她們趕快考慮清楚,
想生要積極找對象,因為身邊太多知道努力備孕很辛苦但子嗣艱難的例子,(真的很辛苦
還無法成功,然後再看到不愛孩子生一堆的,有時候不得不感嘆命運的殘酷),尤其女性
在生育年齡真的很殘酷,但因為我自己生育了,認識很多媽媽想育兒也想工作結果職場受
挫,還有各種歧視(甚至多的是女人為難女人QQ),也很清楚女性在事業跟孩子上無法兼
顧的兩難。
覺得人生的事情都沒有標準答案,重點是清楚自己想要的,盡可能選擇前衡量清楚利弊得
失,順著想要的方向,其他的只能且戰且走了。
最後希望所有人平安幸福,為想要小孩努力的人都可以得償所願,不想要小孩的人也可以
快樂過好自己的人生:)
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的(但那個朋友沒什麼聯絡所以不知道她現在的想法,以前是說她是鑰匙兒童,覺得自己
童年不美滿,不想要小孩複製她的人生)
如果有認真考慮過結婚之後法律上各種層面問題,我自己也覺得不想生小孩其實根本不用
結婚,因為結婚就會有各種複雜問題,開明的長輩很少、結婚容易離婚難,如果只是交往
,很多事情就單純很多(純粹個人認為啦!)
小孩這件事,真的很看個人,喜歡或不排斥小孩,當然可以生,但很確定自己不愛小孩,
真的不要生,看到新聞上虐嬰虐童還是一些可憐的心靈受創的孩子,就會覺得他們很可憐
,孩子無法選擇自己父母,偏偏父母又是自己童年的依靠,所以不愛孩子的男女真的不要
生(如果早就知道自己無法善待他們,至少不要讓孩子出生受折磨吧?)
不過如果身邊不排斥孩子的適婚女子還是很想要小孩的,我都會鼓勵她們趕快考慮清楚,
想生要積極找對象,因為身邊太多知道努力備孕很辛苦但子嗣艱難的例子,(真的很辛苦
還無法成功,然後再看到不愛孩子生一堆的,有時候不得不感嘆命運的殘酷),尤其女性
在生育年齡真的很殘酷,但因為我自己生育了,認識很多媽媽想育兒也想工作結果職場受
挫,還有各種歧視(甚至多的是女人為難女人QQ),也很清楚女性在事業跟孩子上無法兼
顧的兩難。
覺得人生的事情都沒有標準答案,重點是清楚自己想要的,盡可能選擇前衡量清楚利弊得
失,順著想要的方向,其他的只能且戰且走了。
最後希望所有人平安幸福,為想要小孩努力的人都可以得償所願,不想要小孩的人也可以
快樂過好自己的人生:)
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