你周遭有人結婚但沒生小孩的嗎? - 婚姻
By Erin
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版上有早就知道自己不喜歡小孩的,就不生,我覺得非常好,知道自己要的是什麼就足夠
了
當時跟我老公結婚其實也沒有排斥生小孩,但就是找不太到生小孩的理由
有就有,沒有就沒有的心態,一直到了某天,覺得日復一日,回頭跟我老公討論,從小到
大我們所做的選擇到底改變了我們什麼,覺得人生好神奇。
後來自然有了孩子,到現在覺得,看著小孩去做人生的選擇,就像是一種看電影的感覺,
當然是回頭看才這麼覺得拉哈哈
他想不想學畫畫、想做什麼、學習和遊玩怎麼去平衡,看著他每一個選擇,都覺得很像在
看蝴蝶效應。也許是自己的人生已經體悟過了,從小去陪伴他,從旁觀者的角度去看這個
人是怎麼做選擇的其實也好好玩
其實當初生和不生都沒關係的原因,我想是我自己覺得,不要因為覺得自己有天會老,需
要有人照顧而去生。
即便現在孩子還小,但我會希望他去走他的人生,如果未來嫁到國外也好,想去外面闖創
業什麼都好,那是他自己該有的選擇,我自己的人生在老年也該有我自己的劇本,過年過
節吃個飯分享彼此的人生,其他時間陪伴彼此互相鼓勵而生活著
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了
當時跟我老公結婚其實也沒有排斥生小孩,但就是找不太到生小孩的理由
有就有,沒有就沒有的心態,一直到了某天,覺得日復一日,回頭跟我老公討論,從小到
大我們所做的選擇到底改變了我們什麼,覺得人生好神奇。
後來自然有了孩子,到現在覺得,看著小孩去做人生的選擇,就像是一種看電影的感覺,
當然是回頭看才這麼覺得拉哈哈
他想不想學畫畫、想做什麼、學習和遊玩怎麼去平衡,看著他每一個選擇,都覺得很像在
看蝴蝶效應。也許是自己的人生已經體悟過了,從小去陪伴他,從旁觀者的角度去看這個
人是怎麼做選擇的其實也好好玩
其實當初生和不生都沒關係的原因,我想是我自己覺得,不要因為覺得自己有天會老,需
要有人照顧而去生。
即便現在孩子還小,但我會希望他去走他的人生,如果未來嫁到國外也好,想去外面闖創
業什麼都好,那是他自己該有的選擇,我自己的人生在老年也該有我自己的劇本,過年過
節吃個飯分享彼此的人生,其他時間陪伴彼此互相鼓勵而生活著
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