你周遭有人結婚但沒生小孩的嗎? - 婚姻
By Ida
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目前還沒看到喜歡小孩卻不生的案例,來分享我的情況好了。
交往17年,結婚1年。本身喜歡小孩但不擅長和小孩相處,先生則是說不喜歡可是卻很會
跟小孩玩。我們從年輕經濟不穩定開始交往,27歲到30歲沒錢不生,30歲到35歲拼事業不
生,35歲以後年紀大了不生,我現在41歲,先生45歲,坦白說周遭真的沒幾對不生的夫妻
,看過更多女生說不生結果等到快生不出來突然改變想法,所以雖然我決定不生,只要看
到有人煩惱生不生倒是一定勸生(因為你們大部分都後悔了啊)。
不生的原因可能很多人無法理解,但直到現在我還是覺得:我更不能理解別人為什麼那麼
容易決定生小孩?
記得小時候周遭女生都覺得生產好可怕啊,可是長大後大家好像就不害怕了?一個個自然
而然經歷了生產;教養小孩這件事我也一直覺得責任重大,即便已經是中年人了仍覺得自
己的不成熟,不知道是不是因為沒生的關係?當周遭人成為了爸爸媽媽,我感覺自己還跟
20年前沒兩樣(就算工作上當了主管內心還是幼稚)。
不生還有個很大原因是太滿意兩人生活,每每看到同事們為了孩子工作家庭兩頭燒就覺得
我辦不到,忙的時候累都來不及了哪有餘裕生養小孩,現在工作不忙了又只想過滋潤的每
一天。
還有很多雞毛蒜皮的理由,像是我們喜歡衣不蔽體在家,如果生小孩無論男女,總要有個
人得乖乖穿好衣服......就是這種別人可以輕易妥協,我卻不想放棄的鳥原因。
寫到這裡應該會有人想說:「妳是不夠喜歡小孩吧?」
我也不曉得,有沒有人不是不想生,而是沒有生的勇氣......奇怪的是人們總問為什麼不生
小孩,卻沒人問為什麼要生小孩?
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交往17年,結婚1年。本身喜歡小孩但不擅長和小孩相處,先生則是說不喜歡可是卻很會
跟小孩玩。我們從年輕經濟不穩定開始交往,27歲到30歲沒錢不生,30歲到35歲拼事業不
生,35歲以後年紀大了不生,我現在41歲,先生45歲,坦白說周遭真的沒幾對不生的夫妻
,看過更多女生說不生結果等到快生不出來突然改變想法,所以雖然我決定不生,只要看
到有人煩惱生不生倒是一定勸生(因為你們大部分都後悔了啊)。
不生的原因可能很多人無法理解,但直到現在我還是覺得:我更不能理解別人為什麼那麼
容易決定生小孩?
記得小時候周遭女生都覺得生產好可怕啊,可是長大後大家好像就不害怕了?一個個自然
而然經歷了生產;教養小孩這件事我也一直覺得責任重大,即便已經是中年人了仍覺得自
己的不成熟,不知道是不是因為沒生的關係?當周遭人成為了爸爸媽媽,我感覺自己還跟
20年前沒兩樣(就算工作上當了主管內心還是幼稚)。
不生還有個很大原因是太滿意兩人生活,每每看到同事們為了孩子工作家庭兩頭燒就覺得
我辦不到,忙的時候累都來不及了哪有餘裕生養小孩,現在工作不忙了又只想過滋潤的每
一天。
還有很多雞毛蒜皮的理由,像是我們喜歡衣不蔽體在家,如果生小孩無論男女,總要有個
人得乖乖穿好衣服......就是這種別人可以輕易妥協,我卻不想放棄的鳥原因。
寫到這裡應該會有人想說:「妳是不夠喜歡小孩吧?」
我也不曉得,有沒有人不是不想生,而是沒有生的勇氣......奇怪的是人們總問為什麼不生
小孩,卻沒人問為什麼要生小孩?
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