你周遭有人結婚但沒生小孩的嗎? - 婚姻
By Irma
at 2023-05-14T10:27
at 2023-05-14T10:27
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和先生交往七年後結婚兩年
目前我29歲、先生41歲
真的很討厭小孩,覺得沒辦法為了小孩失去現在的生活
下班之後一起打電動、玩貓,週末睡到飽、吃好吃的東西、旅遊
學想學的東西,學鋼琴、閱讀,老公還去唸文憑
不想在人生最美好的時候放棄體驗人生
對我來說生小孩浪費錢又浪費時間,我還不能保證我的小孩身心健全又孝順
但卻是人生唯一一件無法反悔的決定
不生小孩這件事是交往時就說好了
很感謝公婆覺得我把他兒子照顧好就好,從來沒有給我們壓力
至於有親戚說為什麼不生這種話,我就會用一貫了長篇大論來賭他們的嘴
至於有人說如果「不小心」有了小孩會怎樣
我必須老實說,我會拿掉
也因為這件事太可怕,所以我們直到現在都是避孕做好做滿
結紮當然是最好的,不過他害怕我也不勉強,但就是避孕做好我就接受
沒有小孩,我們該存的錢當然要為了自己存
就算小孩的也不能因為有小孩就靠小孩老了養我們,這是不切實際的
有人說「不想要小孩幹嘛結婚?」
因為就算沒有小孩,我仍然認定我先生是我一輩子的家人
這樣家人的關係,只有結婚才名正言順,成為法律上認可的家人
可以做醫療決策、財產決策的第一順位
所以我們就花400元登記,換了兩張身分證
買了一間小房子,兩人住16坪就好,又不用考慮學區
只是為了財產的腦補也不必,我年薪多於先生
朋友逐漸結婚生子,親子行程我也會參加,不過看到小孩真的無感,覺得充滿麻煩
覺得人生要怎麼過,自己想好就好了
生或不生都是對人生的決定,沒有人可以去替你決定人生
附上貓兒子
https://i.imgur.com/uP0anQP.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/6Oqc9z3.jpg
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目前我29歲、先生41歲
真的很討厭小孩,覺得沒辦法為了小孩失去現在的生活
下班之後一起打電動、玩貓,週末睡到飽、吃好吃的東西、旅遊
學想學的東西,學鋼琴、閱讀,老公還去唸文憑
不想在人生最美好的時候放棄體驗人生
對我來說生小孩浪費錢又浪費時間,我還不能保證我的小孩身心健全又孝順
但卻是人生唯一一件無法反悔的決定
不生小孩這件事是交往時就說好了
很感謝公婆覺得我把他兒子照顧好就好,從來沒有給我們壓力
至於有親戚說為什麼不生這種話,我就會用一貫了長篇大論來賭他們的嘴
至於有人說如果「不小心」有了小孩會怎樣
我必須老實說,我會拿掉
也因為這件事太可怕,所以我們直到現在都是避孕做好做滿
結紮當然是最好的,不過他害怕我也不勉強,但就是避孕做好我就接受
沒有小孩,我們該存的錢當然要為了自己存
就算小孩的也不能因為有小孩就靠小孩老了養我們,這是不切實際的
有人說「不想要小孩幹嘛結婚?」
因為就算沒有小孩,我仍然認定我先生是我一輩子的家人
這樣家人的關係,只有結婚才名正言順,成為法律上認可的家人
可以做醫療決策、財產決策的第一順位
所以我們就花400元登記,換了兩張身分證
買了一間小房子,兩人住16坪就好,又不用考慮學區
只是為了財產的腦補也不必,我年薪多於先生
朋友逐漸結婚生子,親子行程我也會參加,不過看到小孩真的無感,覺得充滿麻煩
覺得人生要怎麼過,自己想好就好了
生或不生都是對人生的決定,沒有人可以去替你決定人生
附上貓兒子
https://i.imgur.com/uP0anQP.jpg
https://i.imgur.com/6Oqc9z3.jpg
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