于美人被公公嫌「沒有父親教養」 - 婚姻
By Christine
at 2013-02-06T18:31
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于美人一歲喪父,母親含辛茹苦撫養她長大的辛酸我懂。
我自幼父母離異,媽媽不在身邊,那時我的妹妹才兩歲而已。
我的父親每天早出晚歸辛苦工作,一個人獨力拉拔幾個女兒長大。
單親的日子很苦,每每想媽媽時我們只能躲在被子裡哭;
而且我爸被人騙過幾次錢,
曾經有過某個晚上米缸裡只剩一杯米不到,
就著好心鄰居給我們的一些雞肝、雞內臟,
草草煮成一鍋雞內臟跟水比米粒還多的粥果腹的困窘。
我的媽媽在外頭也不好過,本是富家千金的她婚姻受挫沒有一技之長謀生,
又不敢讓雙目失明的外婆知道她最疼愛的么女離婚的事,
只能租個很簡陋的雅房帶著她惟一的財產─摩托車在市場裡賣批來的麻糬。
記得小學時我和姐姐最快樂的事情就是每隔一段時間等媽媽攢夠了錢,
帶我們三個姐妹搭公車去省圖斜對面的建星牛肉麵吃牛肉麵,
一大碗麵裡加了滿滿的酸菜,四個人分。
那一排賣吃的違建拆掉幾十年了,如今我還記得那家牛肉麵的名字,
苦日子真的很難讓人忘記。
我不曉得于美人和她的公婆間到底發生了什麼事,
讓她的公公說出于美人沒有父親教養的那種刻薄話。
我只知道,這種話像熔熱的蠟淚般,無情的滴在傷口上,真的很傷。
縱使于美人做了啥再十惡不赦的事,
拿她引以為憾的傷痛來說嘴,非常的不厚道。
某個姻親雙親健在,國立女中、大學、研究所畢業,
不也照樣行竊兄嫂家?雖然偷的是小東西,可不對的行為就是不對。
我相信在她的成長過程裡她的父母應該有告誡過她偷竊是不好的行為;
而且她書讀的還比一般人多,國立大學碩士呢!這道理她不可能不懂。
一個人的行為雖然或多或少都會受到家庭教育的影響,
不過我覺得後天的修為更是重要阿。
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