于美人事件有感 - 婚姻
By Linda
at 2013-04-05T12:41
at 2013-04-05T12:41
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※ 引述《Tiunn (guesswho)》之銘言:
: 我有一位好友,長得又高又帥,可是月薪不高,所以條件好的女生不願嫁他。
: 他最後娶了一位很醜的女生。他問女女生家用是各付一半還是依照薪水的比例分攤。
: 那位醜女人說:如果我的薪水比你多,那就各付一半。
: 如果你的薪水比我多,那就按照薪水比例分擔家用。
: 于美人的說法還真是(X)女人普遍的想法
這幾天又要掃墓了,跟幾個這兩三年生寶寶-但姓父姓-的姐妹淘們聊天
我覺得這個"女人不想負擔家用"的關鍵,其實可以追根溯源到"宗族"。
說孩子要姓母姓時,男生馬上就說:「喔,那這樣孩子的錢以後都妳付喔!」
也確實有人姓母姓的,娘家對那孩子一路都特別"照顧"
(講白就是比較願意出錢啦 出國留學的盤纏,都出了不少)
孩子什麼時候去掃過媽媽家的墓了?家裡拜的祖先、信的宗教,還不是都男方的。
我想,如果今天Max、Mina姓于,于美人應該就一句話都不會說,全部扛起來
但于公婆不是說,于都沒去掃夫家墓嗎?(但言下之意,應該小孩有去掃吧?)
那種奇蒙子就是-我出錢養了你們家的人! 逢年過節就越來越火...就這樣了。
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: 我有一位好友,長得又高又帥,可是月薪不高,所以條件好的女生不願嫁他。
: 他最後娶了一位很醜的女生。他問女女生家用是各付一半還是依照薪水的比例分攤。
: 那位醜女人說:如果我的薪水比你多,那就各付一半。
: 如果你的薪水比我多,那就按照薪水比例分擔家用。
: 于美人的說法還真是(X)女人普遍的想法
這幾天又要掃墓了,跟幾個這兩三年生寶寶-但姓父姓-的姐妹淘們聊天
我覺得這個"女人不想負擔家用"的關鍵,其實可以追根溯源到"宗族"。
說孩子要姓母姓時,男生馬上就說:「喔,那這樣孩子的錢以後都妳付喔!」
也確實有人姓母姓的,娘家對那孩子一路都特別"照顧"
(講白就是比較願意出錢啦 出國留學的盤纏,都出了不少)
孩子什麼時候去掃過媽媽家的墓了?家裡拜的祖先、信的宗教,還不是都男方的。
我想,如果今天Max、Mina姓于,于美人應該就一句話都不會說,全部扛起來
但于公婆不是說,于都沒去掃夫家墓嗎?(但言下之意,應該小孩有去掃吧?)
那種奇蒙子就是-我出錢養了你們家的人! 逢年過節就越來越火...就這樣了。
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