于美人事件有感 - 婚姻
By Barb Cronin
at 2013-04-05T11:59
at 2013-04-05T11:59
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※ 引述《Tiunn (guesswho)》之銘言:
: ※ 引述《generally (天上的星辰)》之銘言:
: : 像她也說她要求老公出家用十二萬,她自己也出十二萬,一起匯入共同帳號當家用
: : 這樣很公平
: : 但老公拒絕(她沒想到她老公一個月也只賺12萬,她要求人家全出也不對吧)
: : 當夫妻感情淡去,最後只剩下金錢的計較
: 我有一位好友,長得又高又帥,可是月薪不高,所以條件好的女生不願嫁他。
: 他最後娶了一位很醜的女生。他問女女生家用是各付一半還是依照薪水的比例分攤。
: 那位醜女人說:如果我的薪水比你多,那就各付一半。
: 如果你的薪水比我多,那就按照薪水比例分擔家用。
: 于美人的說法還真是(X)女人普遍的想法
現在好像普遍都認為女性負擔家庭費用理所當然
如果是這樣的話
那跟岳母同住也可以理所當然嗎?
因為過去由男性負擔家用,所以公婆一起住理所當然,
但是老婆把媽媽接來住就變成"造成老公的困擾"
像我奶奶打死都不要住在我姑姑家
她說:那是"別人"家
只有我爸的家才是自己家
沒辦法,姑姑是家庭主婦,姑丈負擔家用,
可是現在于美人負擔家用,我不懂為什麼,于媽媽同住卻要被攻擊成這樣?
另一件事,我也覺得很怪
媳婦不跟公婆往來被說成不孝,
可是丈夫把岳母趕出去,還報警,為什麼他沒有被說不孝
反而是于美人被檢討太強勢,接媽媽同住?
家用要求女性要負擔
可是女性不能"理所當然"的照顧媽媽
還要小心老公的自尊心
不要光芒蓋過老公
付出比較多也不能說.....
為什麼女人結婚要這麼痛苦?
補充:他們的家事恩怨累積這麼多年,只有他們自己最清楚。
我沒有要把細節拿出來討論的意思。
我只是想表達,這個社會普遍的價值觀,對女性真的不太公平。
于美人事件,我覺得是女性意識抬頭後,很典型的家庭衝突
鬧上版面,我覺得也不全然是壞事,
只是焦點已經變成把于美人鬥下台,一定要她道歉的局面。
有人會說她濫用媒體,可是報紙如果報導不實的消息,
我想每個人都繪忍不住想澄清,
如果是我早就氣炸了。
--
: ※ 引述《generally (天上的星辰)》之銘言:
: : 像她也說她要求老公出家用十二萬,她自己也出十二萬,一起匯入共同帳號當家用
: : 這樣很公平
: : 但老公拒絕(她沒想到她老公一個月也只賺12萬,她要求人家全出也不對吧)
: : 當夫妻感情淡去,最後只剩下金錢的計較
: 我有一位好友,長得又高又帥,可是月薪不高,所以條件好的女生不願嫁他。
: 他最後娶了一位很醜的女生。他問女女生家用是各付一半還是依照薪水的比例分攤。
: 那位醜女人說:如果我的薪水比你多,那就各付一半。
: 如果你的薪水比我多,那就按照薪水比例分擔家用。
: 于美人的說法還真是(X)女人普遍的想法
現在好像普遍都認為女性負擔家庭費用理所當然
如果是這樣的話
那跟岳母同住也可以理所當然嗎?
因為過去由男性負擔家用,所以公婆一起住理所當然,
但是老婆把媽媽接來住就變成"造成老公的困擾"
像我奶奶打死都不要住在我姑姑家
她說:那是"別人"家
只有我爸的家才是自己家
沒辦法,姑姑是家庭主婦,姑丈負擔家用,
可是現在于美人負擔家用,我不懂為什麼,于媽媽同住卻要被攻擊成這樣?
另一件事,我也覺得很怪
媳婦不跟公婆往來被說成不孝,
可是丈夫把岳母趕出去,還報警,為什麼他沒有被說不孝
反而是于美人被檢討太強勢,接媽媽同住?
家用要求女性要負擔
可是女性不能"理所當然"的照顧媽媽
還要小心老公的自尊心
不要光芒蓋過老公
付出比較多也不能說.....
為什麼女人結婚要這麼痛苦?
補充:他們的家事恩怨累積這麼多年,只有他們自己最清楚。
我沒有要把細節拿出來討論的意思。
我只是想表達,這個社會普遍的價值觀,對女性真的不太公平。
于美人事件,我覺得是女性意識抬頭後,很典型的家庭衝突
鬧上版面,我覺得也不全然是壞事,
只是焦點已經變成把于美人鬥下台,一定要她道歉的局面。
有人會說她濫用媒體,可是報紙如果報導不實的消息,
我想每個人都繪忍不住想澄清,
如果是我早就氣炸了。
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