不知道該怎麼開口 - 婚姻

By Olga
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我一直以來都是把薪水交給老婆去管理,我們是雙薪家庭
但是每個月還是都花光光,而且我們現在是房貸寬限期只繳利息
我就想說我們來記帳,看看有沒有不必要的支出.....
記了半個多月下來,偶爾會問她記賬了沒,嘮叨幾句說記帳真的很好啊~甚麼的
但是我也知道以她的個性哪天一定會跟我翻臉,果不其然前天早上就爆炸了
說吃個東西幾塊錢幾十塊也要記,根本就沒有錢用有甚麼好記的,每個月開銷這麼大
記那幾塊錢有屁用,還說都把錢用在家用上,自己都沒買化妝品包包鞋子,同事A每個月
薪水都用在自己身上,同事B又買這買那個....
但是我就說,記帳就是要看哪邊不該花要警惕自己,她又抓狂"警惕"這兩個字
說我要抓她亂花錢甚麼的,一整個歇斯底里反應過度
我的想法就只是把所有支出記下來,看水電瓦斯電話保險房貸啥的各是花了多少
哀....到最後我還是只能跟她道歉,說不想記就算了
她還是翻臉說以後家用各出多少,帳戶都給我管,我自己是沒甚麼問題,
但是我要她記帳都可以吵成這樣了,管錢她抓狂的機會一定更高....orz
我們刷卡的錢大概佔了月薪的30%上下,我自己是覺得太多,
不過裡面其實包含電話費跟保險,還有一些水電瓦斯的繳費
現在我兩面不是人,家用不夠,她又想買高檔鑄鐵鍋,想省錢又不記賬
薪水就只有那樣......我有時真想跟他說我去兼差開計程車好了
說到兼差
她還會說她把錢給我來顧小孩就好.......
我們兩個小孩,3y8m+2y4m,正在恐怖的煩人跟惱人的時候(笑)
自己帶而且我們家沒裝電視,小孩在家就是念故事繪本,玩玩具或帶出去散步玩耍
有時候我接了小孩回家想說休息一下喘口氣進房間待著,出來一看
我老婆在桌邊看手機,兩個小孩吵成一團丟玩具或把房間搞得像廢墟....
我罵小孩,要小孩收東西還會被她兇,說我都不陪小孩,出來就在罵小孩...(無言)
通常下班是我接小孩,她先到家,然後她煮飯我陪小孩,不是我要找藉口,煮飯很累
但是陪小孩也是很累,然後餵小孩吃飯我也在餵,軟硬兼施讓小孩多吃點
吃飽飯休息一下通常是我幫小孩洗澡,她幫小孩擦身體穿衣服(因為她嫌我搭的衣服很醜
然後哄睡也是各自帶開,一個對付一個,睡著之後才抱回去,通常已經是10點半以後了
這樣很充實的生活,已經三年多了,我想說如果有機會,是不是在找個打工兼差貼補家用
但是我該怎麼開口呢.....錢永遠都是每個家庭最難解的習題啊
感謝各位耐心地看完,讓小弟討拍一下....orz
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