What or who? - 結婚
By Tracy
at 2010-09-28T10:45
at 2010-09-28T10:45
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前幾天看了一些文章有感,寫篇文章來抒發一下。
看到有人為了結婚開銷超出想像而苦惱
另一半卻還在念著這個好像買得太便宜,那個好像花得有點寒酸
我就覺得有點不可思議。
我明白一個完美的婚禮是不少女人的夢想
嫁得風光盛大應有盡有讓旁人豔羨(或眼紅),似乎就證明了下半輩子會幸福美滿
於是婚戒非○○牌鑽戒不買,喜餅一盒不到五百塊都覺得寒酸
婚紗要拍個十萬來留住一生最美的時刻,蜜月不往歐美去是哪門子的蜜月...
因為這些想法,我看到更多令我百思不解的現象
有人開始怨長輩不出錢支援害小倆口窮哈哈(如果支援了但事後要還錢,長輩就是小氣)
有人為了結婚去辦小額信貸(而且不知道為什麼,去辦的多是男方..?)
我聽我老公說,西班牙這裡甚至還有wedding loan...
這到底是哪一招?
和老公結婚的時候,我們兩個都沒什麼錢
那時又剛好買了房子還養了狗,要還房貸還要帶狗打預防針什麼的
固定開銷實在不小,所以婚禮的一切都以省錢為大原則
所以我從來沒有進過pronovias或rosa clara看婚紗(最便宜都要一千歐,殺了我吧)
婚紗和首飾都在ebay上買,省下來的錢當場就夠我們去渡假飯店渡五天四夜的蜜月
婚攝不請,新娘妝自己化,教堂只做最簡單最便宜的佈置,禮車跟老公的表姨丈商借
蜜月我們還是開車去的,什麼紐約?什麼Bali?
所有開銷我們事後算算,只花了4000歐元(這裡很多新娘光是那件白紗就要花2000歐)
但整個婚禮的籌備過程我們都很快樂
當天來觀禮吃喜酒的客人到現在還會提起婚禮的種種細節。
結婚兩年多以來我們也發生過不少爭吵不快,但從來沒有一次是為了錢
有錢上好餐廳吃一頓晚飯,或是買好東西給對方用,我們會很開心
沒錢時,在家裡做三明治吃,或是上網拍買290的便宜衣服,我們還是甘之如飴
對我來說,只要我穿上那件290的上衣,我老公會給予無限讚賞的眼神
那件上衣就比Chanel的高級訂製服還要有價值
即使我們去玩的地方下雨,東西又難吃,那也是一次共同的獨特回憶。
對我來說,任何事物的價值從來不在於花了多少錢去取得
重要的是,和你一起到達那個境地的是誰。
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之前在友板貼過同一篇文
因為某些因素,選擇把本文改貼到這裡來。:)
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