疫情期間老公想一個人去日本進修 - 婚姻

By John
at 2022-05-11T23:23
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作為一個同是職業婦女,又曾在海外進修時被操死,老公同是工作狂而且每個禮拜都海外
出差,也同樣有一個兩歲女兒的人,兩邊難處我都懂,所以想平衡報導一下
1. 所有的進修機會都不應該被放棄 — 為何要放棄?
2. 出差、進修比工作還操。又不是進修時工作就不用做。不要腦補老公是去爽的。
3. 承二,老公自私嗎?我覺得是的。兩歲小孩超難搞的。我老公再忙再辛苦即使每個星
期都要趕紅眼班機都一定周末前回家以免我周末一打一。是很辛苦,但媽媽不辛苦嗎?媽
媽也要工作呀。大家都辛苦,該做的還是要做,互相體諒吧。而且離開小孩三個月不會牽
掛嗎?我覺得還蠻難以想像的。而且老婆犧牲了自己的職涯發展,心裡覺得不平衡我覺得
是可以理解的。
看到那些選邊老公或老婆的回文,我都在想到底是有些人不明白幼兒有多難帶、還是有些
人不了解到底職場是有多操。
4. 既然進修機會不應該被錯過,而老公也不應該放下妻兒一個人,小孩也會想爸爸,那
就只能夠一起去。但老公也很操,所以如果媽媽能夠多擔帶一點,老公偶爾cover 老婆一
下,可以考慮。一些外力如果能夠負擔就不要省:托兒服務啦、鐘點啦、服務公寓啦之類
的。
5. 三個月雖然短,照顧小孩雖然累,但疫情持續三年後可以出國透透氣也是不錯的。而
且適應新環境想到就覺得興奮,不用擔心小孩,他比大人的適應力強多了。我女兒前陣子
出生以來第一次出國又開心又興奮,一下子就適應了,如果媽媽也會跟社區的人社交,小
孩子很快就可以跟新朋友玩成一團。
6. 小孩子多接觸不同文化、環境及生活體驗多有益處。真的。
7. 醫療保險買好買滿。三個月間所有生活相關的安排該做的攻略準備一個都不能少。
P.s. 我可能讓大家以為我把事情想得太簡單,但我確信我不是,我是一個很有準備的人
。可能跟個性有關,我覺得新環境超興奮的,如果我老公要出差三個月,打死我也跟着一
起去。出發前一定興奮得睡不着(對我知道我要一邊工作一邊照顧小孩)。
只要準備足安排得當,很多問題都不是大問題啦。
以上。
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出差,也同樣有一個兩歲女兒的人,兩邊難處我都懂,所以想平衡報導一下
1. 所有的進修機會都不應該被放棄 — 為何要放棄?
2. 出差、進修比工作還操。又不是進修時工作就不用做。不要腦補老公是去爽的。
3. 承二,老公自私嗎?我覺得是的。兩歲小孩超難搞的。我老公再忙再辛苦即使每個星
期都要趕紅眼班機都一定周末前回家以免我周末一打一。是很辛苦,但媽媽不辛苦嗎?媽
媽也要工作呀。大家都辛苦,該做的還是要做,互相體諒吧。而且離開小孩三個月不會牽
掛嗎?我覺得還蠻難以想像的。而且老婆犧牲了自己的職涯發展,心裡覺得不平衡我覺得
是可以理解的。
看到那些選邊老公或老婆的回文,我都在想到底是有些人不明白幼兒有多難帶、還是有些
人不了解到底職場是有多操。
4. 既然進修機會不應該被錯過,而老公也不應該放下妻兒一個人,小孩也會想爸爸,那
就只能夠一起去。但老公也很操,所以如果媽媽能夠多擔帶一點,老公偶爾cover 老婆一
下,可以考慮。一些外力如果能夠負擔就不要省:托兒服務啦、鐘點啦、服務公寓啦之類
的。
5. 三個月雖然短,照顧小孩雖然累,但疫情持續三年後可以出國透透氣也是不錯的。而
且適應新環境想到就覺得興奮,不用擔心小孩,他比大人的適應力強多了。我女兒前陣子
出生以來第一次出國又開心又興奮,一下子就適應了,如果媽媽也會跟社區的人社交,小
孩子很快就可以跟新朋友玩成一團。
6. 小孩子多接觸不同文化、環境及生活體驗多有益處。真的。
7. 醫療保險買好買滿。三個月間所有生活相關的安排該做的攻略準備一個都不能少。
P.s. 我可能讓大家以為我把事情想得太簡單,但我確信我不是,我是一個很有準備的人
。可能跟個性有關,我覺得新環境超興奮的,如果我老公要出差三個月,打死我也跟着一
起去。出發前一定興奮得睡不着(對我知道我要一邊工作一邊照顧小孩)。
只要準備足安排得當,很多問題都不是大問題啦。
以上。
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