高額聘金是賣女兒嗎? - 婚姻
By Olive
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真的就要看同溫層啦
一堆中產階級家庭
或是家裡早期有累積一點財富的
很多時候女方父母聘金拿的目的就是火力展示
開個幾百萬的聘金說明自己的女兒很猛
然後甩出相應的嫁妝展現自己不貪圖這種小錢
男方父母要展現財力雄厚
大概就會在女方開出的聘金上再加一點
不然就是額外送未來媳婦一些首飾
整個過程就是雙方家庭互相PK
PK完的理想狀態是不分上下握手言和
然後說哈哈哈之後就是親家互相照顧
這種樣態的新人本56見過很多
具體操作是
男方父母買房子付幾百萬的頭期款
房子放在女生名下當聘禮
女方父母出裝潢跟家具
這是基本手法..
當然變形的做法也很多
什麼婚宴啦 歸寧宴啦 蜜月啦
或是借現金來擺的
但大概就是雙方父母差不多的把資源灌到新人身上
然後同時展現自己有本事符合傳統
但也不是那種死要錢的個性
所以這種型態要說聘金就是賣女兒...
大概不太像
比較像是找門當戶對的
但一般人普通人的模式
本56也有不少朋友走這種路線
大致上就是登記登記
沒啥婚宴問題
房子不一定有
但聘金大概就是一個幾萬塊的紅包
可能喜餅多買幾盒到處發做面子
亂開高額聘金的故事沒聽過
畢竟女生也不是傻子
真的讓父母這樣亂搞
婆家或是老公這邊也不好看
倒楣的還是自己
當然即便是這種已經相對平凡的婚姻
一樣有人會爆氣
例如說有聽過女方長輩
一開口就是說要買一百盒喜餅在巷口發
算下來就是1X萬
男生一個月就40K左右的薪水
溝通到爆氣差點鬧翻
這種要求多少就有點白目
不過這個故事中的女生就有跳出來坦
畢竟這種智障要求男生真的答應了
到最後倒楣的還是她自己
畢竟1X萬留著拿去蜜月旅行還是日後慢慢花
都比拿去變成喜餅亂發給路人來得好
至於聘金是不是就是賣女兒...
真的要看你結婚對象是誰
目前看來絕大多數的夫妻都是門當戶對的狀態
聘金的作用基本上就是假傳統之名
做弦外之音的功能
如果真的開高額聘金
1. 門當戶對狀態 --> 火力展示
最佳解就是回家搬救兵
坦回來說男生家裡有財力
順便激一下女方家裡
反正高來高去之要小倆口之間負責和稀泥
這個聘金對雙方家庭來說
其實都不是很大的一件事情
真的出問題真正原因
多半也是溝通上的
而不是經濟上的
2. 不門當戶對狀態 --> 不想把女兒嫁你
這種其實就是在發好人卡
只是用奇怪的方式婉拒
這種你就算說人家賣女兒
人家一樣不痛不癢
要破解的方法只能找到根本原因
不然就是找女生這邊策反
如果都做不到大概就下一位謝謝了
當然啦
這個都是周遭經驗
本56朋友之間好像也就兩三個
但是女方基本上都坦掉了
只是假設真的有這種家長
女生也不幫忙坦
真的碰到了
啊不就不要結就好了
漫天喊價著地還錢
不結婚還不行嗎....
真的要說這就是賣女兒
幾百萬真的就能買一個跟你過一輩子的人
這種生意也太划算
如果哪裡有在賣記得介紹一下
※ 引述《heartblue (再度出發....)》之銘言:
: 是
: 但女兒是獨立個體
: 她同意父母親拿聘金就是接受這是一樁買賣
: 還有什麼屁話好說?
: 男方如果不付錢給女方家長導致女方不願意結婚誰的責任?
: 當然是女方
: 如果同性戀結婚誰要付聘金?
: 這筆本來就不該出現的金錢
: 一丁點存在的正當性都沒有
: 想要孝順自己的父母麻煩女方自己出錢
: 真是可恥的陋習還有人護航
: 是窮到喪失人格嗎?
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