離婚後,再婚的觀感 - 婚姻
By John
at 2010-07-08T09:52
at 2010-07-08T09:52
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妳不要要問"社會觀感嗎"?
那身為社會一份子的網友們的廣大意見就是社會觀感的一部分啊
對於女兒 有些人會覺得
怎麼可以把女兒丟在外遇又偷竊的前夫家給公婆照顧
有些人建議大膽放下女兒追求幸福
有些人根本不在意
這就是"社會觀感" 不管旁人責備 支持 不管己事
你才是女兒的媽媽 對她有一半的責任 要怎麼做自己想清楚就好
不需要一再找理由藉口來解釋 想清楚比較重要 將來不後悔就好
畢竟那是你的孩子不是網友的
至於什麼時候再婚 要不要再婚
同樣的有的人給予祝福 有的人奚落 有的人根本不在意
這就是真實人生
有網友會為了你找到男友 開趴大肆慶祝嗎?
有網友會為你調查男友祖宗18代查他個明明白白 怕妳所託非人嗎?
不管是支持鼓勵 還是不怎麼看好 下了線那還是只有你自己過的真實人生
所以依我這個路人丙的"社會觀感"來說
自 己 人 生 自 己 負 責
但由於妳是個媽媽 所以要負責女兒一半的人生
既然上來問大家的社會觀感 本來就會有許多正正負負的意見
支持妳的看了固然愉悅 直言不諱的也是旁人真心話
再者 個人覺得成熟的思考與負責的態度應該要隨年齡成長
否則容易荒腔走板 將自己陷入險境
更何況你還需對年幼的女兒負起一半的責任
因此29歲的妳應該有能力與智慧思考自己的人生
不需要上簽呈給網友們批核
也不需要說服每一個網友來支持妳
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不管是婆家 娘家 網友的意見 只要是你採納了 就是你的意見
請自行負責 不要推託給別人
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那身為社會一份子的網友們的廣大意見就是社會觀感的一部分啊
對於女兒 有些人會覺得
怎麼可以把女兒丟在外遇又偷竊的前夫家給公婆照顧
有些人建議大膽放下女兒追求幸福
有些人根本不在意
這就是"社會觀感" 不管旁人責備 支持 不管己事
你才是女兒的媽媽 對她有一半的責任 要怎麼做自己想清楚就好
不需要一再找理由藉口來解釋 想清楚比較重要 將來不後悔就好
畢竟那是你的孩子不是網友的
至於什麼時候再婚 要不要再婚
同樣的有的人給予祝福 有的人奚落 有的人根本不在意
這就是真實人生
有網友會為了你找到男友 開趴大肆慶祝嗎?
有網友會為你調查男友祖宗18代查他個明明白白 怕妳所託非人嗎?
不管是支持鼓勵 還是不怎麼看好 下了線那還是只有你自己過的真實人生
所以依我這個路人丙的"社會觀感"來說
自 己 人 生 自 己 負 責
但由於妳是個媽媽 所以要負責女兒一半的人生
既然上來問大家的社會觀感 本來就會有許多正正負負的意見
支持妳的看了固然愉悅 直言不諱的也是旁人真心話
再者 個人覺得成熟的思考與負責的態度應該要隨年齡成長
否則容易荒腔走板 將自己陷入險境
更何況你還需對年幼的女兒負起一半的責任
因此29歲的妳應該有能力與智慧思考自己的人生
不需要上簽呈給網友們批核
也不需要說服每一個網友來支持妳
----------------------------------
不管是婆家 娘家 網友的意見 只要是你採納了 就是你的意見
請自行負責 不要推託給別人
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