關於聘金問題 - 結婚
By Mary
at 2015-07-03T21:37
at 2015-07-03T21:37
Table of Contents
以前看別人的文章,
總會覺得不就這樣那樣就好了!?
沒想到今天真的碰上了,
反而搞的自己烏煙瘴氣……
我來大略說一下原委:
2009年交往
2010年同居
(自己開店,女友店裡幫忙)
2014年7月發現女友懷孕
(已經16週左右)
後來碰上農曆七月
(女方媽媽在講好談親的日子前一天說:農曆七月不談)
七月完又碰上女方家族大姨丈過世
一直喬不出時間談親
(時間喬了兩三次)
最後在八月底喬到一天
(不過男方的媒人沒空,
女方媽媽,妹妹,阿姨來…)
當天女方媽媽一直都不說話
男方小舅媽自己跑來
因為一直都沒有進展
小舅媽就問女方阿姨
當初她嫁女兒是怎樣
女方阿姨就說26萬
女方媽媽還是都沒講話
當天就這樣結束了
後來…
2014/09/12先登記結婚
說喜宴等生完再辦…
======================
原本是兩人住店裡,
懷孕就搬回家裡住(男方家)
就這樣到生產月子
女方媽媽完全沒參與
就滿月酒包6000給她的孫女
一直到今天下午打電話給我老婆
說當初不是講好聘金26萬
(去年8月到現在都沒提)
我們2015/07/25宴客男女一起!
最後直接手機用擴音講:
當初不是講好26萬嗎?
還是你要每個月拿5000回家
======================
後來跟女方妹妹用line聊都爆炸了
說不給26萬當初就該把孩子拿掉
更不要去登記結婚…
本來就很火,還扯到我女兒
我是直接爆了…
我說聘金多少去
妳嫁妝就多少回來啊!
她就說當初怎麼不講芭拉芭拉…
還說 聘金是對女方的重視…
我老婆住我們家
她婆婆把她當女兒看待
喜宴光買金飾就10多萬
更別說當初生產坐月子
飯也是她公公在煮……
吼~
我最後對女方妹妹丟了一句話:
<到時看妳的婚禮要怎麼辦…>
就沒下文了
=====================
好啦~
謝謝你們看到這邊…
坐在外面靜下來打字
心情有緩和一點了
問題是…我接下來要怎麼處理?
來點意見吧
--
Sent from my Android
--
總會覺得不就這樣那樣就好了!?
沒想到今天真的碰上了,
反而搞的自己烏煙瘴氣……
我來大略說一下原委:
2009年交往
2010年同居
(自己開店,女友店裡幫忙)
2014年7月發現女友懷孕
(已經16週左右)
後來碰上農曆七月
(女方媽媽在講好談親的日子前一天說:農曆七月不談)
七月完又碰上女方家族大姨丈過世
一直喬不出時間談親
(時間喬了兩三次)
最後在八月底喬到一天
(不過男方的媒人沒空,
女方媽媽,妹妹,阿姨來…)
當天女方媽媽一直都不說話
男方小舅媽自己跑來
因為一直都沒有進展
小舅媽就問女方阿姨
當初她嫁女兒是怎樣
女方阿姨就說26萬
女方媽媽還是都沒講話
當天就這樣結束了
後來…
2014/09/12先登記結婚
說喜宴等生完再辦…
======================
原本是兩人住店裡,
懷孕就搬回家裡住(男方家)
就這樣到生產月子
女方媽媽完全沒參與
就滿月酒包6000給她的孫女
一直到今天下午打電話給我老婆
說當初不是講好聘金26萬
(去年8月到現在都沒提)
我們2015/07/25宴客男女一起!
最後直接手機用擴音講:
當初不是講好26萬嗎?
還是你要每個月拿5000回家
======================
後來跟女方妹妹用line聊都爆炸了
說不給26萬當初就該把孩子拿掉
更不要去登記結婚…
本來就很火,還扯到我女兒
我是直接爆了…
我說聘金多少去
妳嫁妝就多少回來啊!
她就說當初怎麼不講芭拉芭拉…
還說 聘金是對女方的重視…
我老婆住我們家
她婆婆把她當女兒看待
喜宴光買金飾就10多萬
更別說當初生產坐月子
飯也是她公公在煮……
吼~
我最後對女方妹妹丟了一句話:
<到時看妳的婚禮要怎麼辦…>
就沒下文了
=====================
好啦~
謝謝你們看到這邊…
坐在外面靜下來打字
心情有緩和一點了
問題是…我接下來要怎麼處理?
來點意見吧
--
Sent from my Android
--
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