關於我的結婚故事 - 異國戀

1.是否已在板上發表自介文? 是的
2.自介文文章代碼為?#1BexYDEP
3.未填寫者將會進行鎖文 有乖乖寫了
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常常別的人問起我為什麼結婚,就讓我回想到我們的結婚過程,

那時我都還在做輪班的工作,工作時間又都超長,常常沒辦法跟我這個黏人的老公相處,

於是都常吵架,甚至吵架到他離家出走,兩人也就跟分手不遠了,

雙方父母家人朋友們都知道我們要分手了,還鬧到朋友來家中調解呢!!!

然後在一個大吵一架的夜晚,那時我還趕著上班,我老公就在樓下抽了一根煙,

等到我下樓後,他說:你給我一個機會重新跟你一起生活吧!!!

於是我們就這樣結婚了,很瞎的故事,就跟我們很瞎的相遇一樣,

大家都對我們的決定下了一大跳,因為誰都沒想到我們雙方居然都願意放棄我們的單身
生活!!!

誰也都沒想到這個23歲愛去夜店的小男生,居然就為了我這個28歲的老太婆,

遠渡重洋的回來台灣了(真的很誇張,因為我們認識兩個月後他就回美國,我們還遠距半年)

常常想到都覺得好好笑,現在我們的生活也都算很開心,他也是個負責任的好老公,

最開心的是我外婆,本來家人沒見過他前都說外國人很愛騙女生,

因為電視的負面新聞看多了,但見到他第一次,我那八十幾歲的外婆就叫我嫁給他!!!

到現在打電話回家每次家人都對我家老公讚不絕口,明明都語言不通阿~~~

這是我的結婚的過程,想跟大家分享一下,下次有空在分享我婚姻後的生活!!!

以下是我老公對結婚的想法(他自己打的喔)

so I've been told that I need to write how I feel after I got married.
I think that before marriage and after marriage my priorities were a lot
different. For example, before marriage it was more about me. Me me me.
Was this relationship right for me, was this lifestyle right for me, was
this woman right for me, etc. Needless to say, this led to a lot of confusion
about the future.

Well, then we got married, and (hahahaha) all those questions were answered,
because, if you want a marraige to be successful, you have to be able to think
, yes the relationship is right, yes the lifestyle is right, yes the woman is
right, and then instead of worrying about yourself, you plan more around your
relationship - is this good for my relationship, do I really need that, was
this really imoortant, etc., and what I learned was that a lot of things that
I thought were important really weren't, and now I'm more focused on my job,
home, where my money is, what do I want to accomplish, etc.

I don;t think you can really think of marriage as a limitation. When you're
single, you can only be so happy. When you are married, you can also only
be so happy, and the single-happy and married-happy are both happy, just in
different ways. So even though when I was single, some of the best times
were when I was trashed and totally out of my mind. Do I do that now? Not
usually. But even if I did, would it give me the same satisfaction now that
I am married? No it wouldn't. But, on the other hand, I feel just as happy
riding a bike with my wife married as I did getting wasted and doing crazy
things single.

So, marriage isn't so much a limitation as just a change - you can still be
just as happy/ more happy, you just find different ways to do it that you
don't know are there until you um . . . get married.

it's not that bad


謝謝一直給我支持的朋友,讓我能得到幸福的生活,
謝謝我的家人,尊重我的所有決定,
謝謝我的老公,陪我渡過很多瘋狂又開心的日子,
謝謝我的狗,不論我換過幾個男友你都還在我身邊,
希望每一個人的每一天都能平安快樂


寫完突然覺得這像得獎感言ㄟ,很抱歉我老公不會打中文所以打英文,
希望這個分享對於想結婚的人能有點幫忙!!!


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