都是我負面思考嗎? - 婚姻
By Annie
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老公有個大學同學(是他結婚時的伴郎)最近要到台中工作
要先借住我家,我跟我老公說,我們家還有小孩比較不方便,要請他不要住太久
後來就說,先住一兩天,然後要到台北受訓三天,之後要住多久也沒講明,
禮拜天他就來了
他說要請老公到高鐵站載他,我跟我老公說,我們一家子(因為要從南投婆家回去,
所以一定是全家出動)後座佔了兩個安全座椅,還有帶兩個小孩東西很多,一定會很擠,
高鐵站有免費接駁車15分鐘就一班,可以直接到我家附近,我老公說他不好意思說,
我說沒關係,那我跟他說,我就打電話跟他解釋,他說他還有行李,不方便坐接駁車,
要我們到高鐵站載他的行李,他再坐接駁車,後來的結果就是我硬擠在兩個座椅中間,
讓他坐前座回來!(後來發現他的行李也沒很多!後來要去台北也是揹去坐客運,
可以坐客運但不能坐接駁車是啥道理?)
回家後晚餐時間,我說我去買便當,問他要吃什麼,他說他平常很少吃便當,問我家附近
有沒有黃昏市場,他買菜回來煮....(我老公說他的意思是他要煮,但我覺得不管是誰要
煮,到人家家裡這樣說不太有禮貌)
再來是我最生氣的點,晚上他洗完澡出來,問我洗衣籃在哪?我傻眼了一下,告訴他在哪
他一邊丟衣服進去一邊說,我的衣服可以跟你們的一起洗嗎?
晚上我就跟我老公小抱怨了,我老公還說他可能想暫放洗衣籃不是要我幫他洗,
我說他說跟我們的一起洗也!我每個字都聽得很清楚!!!
隔天早上起床我準備洗衣服時,居然發現有內褲!!!我整個都要爆炸了!我長這麼大還
沒幫除了我老公以外的男生洗過內褲,包括我爸和我哥!
但顧及我老公和他的交情,我還是幫他洗了(但把他的和我們的分開洗)
當我一整天處於爆炸狀態,他回來拿行李要上台北,進門說要請我幫他找房子!
我說我不知道要去哪找啊!他說...是喔!因為我要上台北沒辦法找也!
我說我帶兩個小孩也沒辦法幫他看房子,他說我是想說妳幫我找到地址我回來再跟房東談
我就沒回應,他後來說,那這樣我回來再找好了!不過這樣又要打擾你們一個禮拜
我覺得要上網找他自己在台北也可以找啊!但我老公說他是不想打擾我們太久,沒惡意
後來就跟老公抱怨,我覺得他有點誇張,我老公說只有衣服的事是他的錯,其他都是我負
面思考,我為什麼要把什麼事都想成壞的,人家好意要煮飯給我們吃我要想成壞的
人家不想打擾我們太久,他請我幫他找房子也滿有禮貌的,我為什麼還要生氣
請問大家這是我負面思考嗎?昨天跟老公大吵一架,我真的覺得很生氣!
朋友的感受比老婆還重要嗎?
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