都不是我想要的 - 結婚
By Eartha
at 2014-10-27T13:29
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結婚,似乎是每位女孩中心中的一件大事,總是希望自己能漂漂亮亮的嫁出去
看著板上好多新娘可以自己挑餐廳.自己挑布置,我就好羨慕....
我是明年1/18結婚的新娘,即將要從台北嫁到台南去
但我現在卻整個都不想管,很想乾脆擺爛算了....
從決定結婚開始,男方決定要擺流水席
因為我小時候參加過不少流水席,印象都不好,所以我並沒有很想要
後來男友跟我說會擺在活動中心,他家附近有新蓋的梅花里活動中心很漂亮
我稍微看過外觀,也同意那間活動中心宴客
後來可能是因為他們家的個性吧,做事情就是拖拖拉拉,結果梅花里活動中心被租走了
只好改成理想社區的活動中心,我10/10的時候去看場地
發現他的新娘化妝室是在一樓舞台旁邊,像國小禮堂舞台旁邊的那種小雜物間
而且休息室只有一個出口,等於要進場或去洗手間之類的
都還要從賓客的旁邊繞過,再從大門進入
這樣根本就不用走什麼紅毯二進阿!
他媽媽說:這個活動中心,也常常有國小畢業典禮來這邊表演
我內心根本爆氣---這是我的結婚典禮,憑甚麼拿國小的畢業典禮來比阿?
男方當初也說,沒有要宴客太多桌,大概30桌以內,後來不知道為什麼又變成要接近40桌
我看過有人在那裏宴客的照片,也問過我的婚攝,我們都覺得擺到30以上就開始有點擠了
可是男方當然聽不進去
我請婚佈公司,男方母親說:幹嘛請婚佈,就氣球布置布置就好了啊
我請婚攝,男方母親說:幹請婚攝,就叫他弟弟全程拿攝影機拍攝就好了啊
因為我們人在台北,所以結婚前一天必須先下去,男方給的住宿地點其實我很不喜歡
但當我聽到他爸媽說,如果這個地點不喜歡的話,那我們再去找汽車旅館好了
這樣就跟硬逼我們接受有甚麼差別?
的確,結婚是男生的場子,我們不應該意見太多
但是看到事情持續這樣的下去,讓我真的一點都不想參加我自己的結婚典禮了
--
看著板上好多新娘可以自己挑餐廳.自己挑布置,我就好羨慕....
我是明年1/18結婚的新娘,即將要從台北嫁到台南去
但我現在卻整個都不想管,很想乾脆擺爛算了....
從決定結婚開始,男方決定要擺流水席
因為我小時候參加過不少流水席,印象都不好,所以我並沒有很想要
後來男友跟我說會擺在活動中心,他家附近有新蓋的梅花里活動中心很漂亮
我稍微看過外觀,也同意那間活動中心宴客
後來可能是因為他們家的個性吧,做事情就是拖拖拉拉,結果梅花里活動中心被租走了
只好改成理想社區的活動中心,我10/10的時候去看場地
發現他的新娘化妝室是在一樓舞台旁邊,像國小禮堂舞台旁邊的那種小雜物間
而且休息室只有一個出口,等於要進場或去洗手間之類的
都還要從賓客的旁邊繞過,再從大門進入
這樣根本就不用走什麼紅毯二進阿!
他媽媽說:這個活動中心,也常常有國小畢業典禮來這邊表演
我內心根本爆氣---這是我的結婚典禮,憑甚麼拿國小的畢業典禮來比阿?
男方當初也說,沒有要宴客太多桌,大概30桌以內,後來不知道為什麼又變成要接近40桌
我看過有人在那裏宴客的照片,也問過我的婚攝,我們都覺得擺到30以上就開始有點擠了
可是男方當然聽不進去
我請婚佈公司,男方母親說:幹嘛請婚佈,就氣球布置布置就好了啊
我請婚攝,男方母親說:幹請婚攝,就叫他弟弟全程拿攝影機拍攝就好了啊
因為我們人在台北,所以結婚前一天必須先下去,男方給的住宿地點其實我很不喜歡
但當我聽到他爸媽說,如果這個地點不喜歡的話,那我們再去找汽車旅館好了
這樣就跟硬逼我們接受有甚麼差別?
的確,結婚是男生的場子,我們不應該意見太多
但是看到事情持續這樣的下去,讓我真的一點都不想參加我自己的結婚典禮了
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