過年不去婆家會不禮貌嗎 - 婚姻

By Oscar
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憑什麼兩個人結婚後 除夕到初一非得在婆家過
這早就是過時的禮俗和觀念了
所以本來就沒有禮不禮貌的問題
該擔心的只有會不會黑掉而已
但是如果平常可以不太來往 小家庭也不靠婆家支助
妳就有底氣不回去
反正黑掉又何妨 拿你也沒輒
等時間久了 長輩氣消了 偶爾回去一趟 反而被當客人對待
如果因此而受委屈 立馬就離開 憑什麼別人家好好的女兒要到別人家受氣
我家目前就是這種情況
太太看心情想回去才回去 不論大小節慶
時間久了 反而還會關心我太太怎麼沒回來 還蠻微妙的
但是先生初期要好好扛住就是了 我也是跟家裡經歷了好一段日子的抗爭
好好跟家裡溝通 才換來現在的相處模式
其實先生自己巴結一點 連太太的份一起努力
一般也不會太過刁難啦 誰想掉了媳婦還跑了兒子 對吧
但是另一方面 如果先生有其他兄弟 家裡的資源就不用妄想了
所謂拿人手短吃人嘴軟 如果想要得到婆家的資源 那就要巴結點
因此有得有失 看自己怎麼取捨
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這早就是過時的禮俗和觀念了
所以本來就沒有禮不禮貌的問題
該擔心的只有會不會黑掉而已
但是如果平常可以不太來往 小家庭也不靠婆家支助
妳就有底氣不回去
反正黑掉又何妨 拿你也沒輒
等時間久了 長輩氣消了 偶爾回去一趟 反而被當客人對待
如果因此而受委屈 立馬就離開 憑什麼別人家好好的女兒要到別人家受氣
我家目前就是這種情況
太太看心情想回去才回去 不論大小節慶
時間久了 反而還會關心我太太怎麼沒回來 還蠻微妙的
但是先生初期要好好扛住就是了 我也是跟家裡經歷了好一段日子的抗爭
好好跟家裡溝通 才換來現在的相處模式
其實先生自己巴結一點 連太太的份一起努力
一般也不會太過刁難啦 誰想掉了媳婦還跑了兒子 對吧
但是另一方面 如果先生有其他兄弟 家裡的資源就不用妄想了
所謂拿人手短吃人嘴軟 如果想要得到婆家的資源 那就要巴結點
因此有得有失 看自己怎麼取捨
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