遇到女方父母異常軟爛 - 結婚
By William
at 2016-12-15T00:47
at 2016-12-15T00:47
Table of Contents
先說我是男的
老婆的爸媽異常軟爛 老實講軟爛到讓人蠻驚訝的
1.完全不講重點的提親
我提親是在2年前(對~沒錯2年前的春天)
當時我的父母決定下去南部一趟提親
我媽還問說需不需要媒人?!女方媽媽說不用(基本談婚事衝突的老梗 我接受)
那天女方媽媽很快樂 不斷聊天完全不切I主題
我媽一直試探去問結婚的事
完全不談重點只是拼命聊有的沒的 一路聊了4hr到中午 什麼都沒談到
喊說該吃飯了
我和我老婆還去訂觀光農場的餐廳請大家吃飯
在餐廳也是狂聊有的沒的 我老婆和她弟一直催她媽講重點
就是不講
第一次提親沒任何進度,我爸媽請假殺去南部去純聊天這樣
2.第二次提親
因為女方媽媽不講 婚事沒任何進度,問不出任何東西,誰問都沒用
一年後突然說為何一年前沒請媒人來(一般父母幾天就喊不爽了 為什麼要等一年後?!)
"阿~一定是傳統的人啦~沒媒人不會講的啦"我爸媽自己猜測
所以我爸媽第二次下南部
我請了個經驗豐富的同事媒人一起
女方媽媽還是不講重點狂聊天4hr 媒人什麼也沒談到
我們還展現誠意說要照步來
女媽媽直說好好好 然後再聊有的沒的
問聘金不講金額只隱約說想收
最後留下媒人電話後我們走人
3.開始擺爛
女方爸媽要求要請客 不過暗示沒錢幫女兒準備任何東西
原本說好要照步來
因為女方媽媽覺得迎娶要打掃家裡、要煮甜湯、要xxx很麻煩
(可能是為了逃避沒錢這件事)
我和我老婆還說:不然訂飯店?
女方媽媽還是覺得麻煩,最後打給媒人說不用迎娶的儀式了(男方賺到?!)
接下來請客
要幾個餅算不出來 要發給哪個親戚帖不知道 問會來喜宴人數問不到
扯的是連打給姑姑(爸爸的姊姊 關係沒有任何問題) 都可以推來推去
所有錢事都丟給老婆一個人去擔
連衣服都沒辦法自己搞定 老婆受不了特別回老家帶媽媽去買衣服
(好久沒穿到質感這麼好的衣服了...)
當父母是有沒有這麼軟爛...
女方媽媽只有回一句:我又沒做什麼事,哪有造成別人麻煩?!
對我也只會說:我只有這麼一個女兒
老婆跟她媽媽說沒用
她媽媽只會爆氣然後跑掉 無法溝通
現在距離請客前不到一個禮拜 我跟媒人說拜託幫我問一下聘金怎麼給?!
我向媒人提議是直接匯戶頭就好了
她媽就給了我戶頭 但沒對媒人說金額
媒人還以為我們早就談好金額了
阿幹現在是怎樣....我匯多少都可以的意思嗎?
媒人跟我說算了 就匯給她12萬
媒人說女方父母什麼都沒做 拿12萬已經是很好了
妳要嫁女兒可以不出任何金錢、腦力、體力
然後給我帳戶不跟我說聘金多少??!!
那我該匯多少給你?!
--
Tags:
結婚
All Comments
By Susan
at 2016-12-19T02:07
at 2016-12-19T02:07
By Skylar Davis
at 2016-12-22T15:56
at 2016-12-22T15:56
By Wallis
at 2016-12-25T02:38
at 2016-12-25T02:38
By Ula
at 2016-12-26T02:03
at 2016-12-26T02:03
By Elma
at 2016-12-27T09:04
at 2016-12-27T09:04
By Isabella
at 2016-12-28T10:13
at 2016-12-28T10:13
By Quanna
at 2016-12-31T11:45
at 2016-12-31T11:45
By Robert
at 2017-01-03T05:12
at 2017-01-03T05:12
By Yuri
at 2017-01-05T18:50
at 2017-01-05T18:50
By Elvira
at 2017-01-06T02:38
at 2017-01-06T02:38
By Ethan
at 2017-01-07T19:58
at 2017-01-07T19:58
By Xanthe
at 2017-01-11T22:19
at 2017-01-11T22:19
By Callum
at 2017-01-13T03:29
at 2017-01-13T03:29
By Margaret
at 2017-01-13T13:44
at 2017-01-13T13:44
By Mary
at 2017-01-15T15:52
at 2017-01-15T15:52
By Emily
at 2017-01-20T07:06
at 2017-01-20T07:06
By Emily
at 2017-01-22T23:34
at 2017-01-22T23:34
By Susan
at 2017-01-25T13:33
at 2017-01-25T13:33
By Ophelia
at 2017-01-26T08:10
at 2017-01-26T08:10
By Kama
at 2017-01-26T13:23
at 2017-01-26T13:23
By Eartha
at 2017-01-29T08:00
at 2017-01-29T08:00
By Leila
at 2017-01-31T14:16
at 2017-01-31T14:16
By Quanna
at 2017-02-05T13:49
at 2017-02-05T13:49
By Carol
at 2017-02-09T04:23
at 2017-02-09T04:23
By Olga
at 2017-02-11T12:31
at 2017-02-11T12:31
By Poppy
at 2017-02-13T15:23
at 2017-02-13T15:23
By Elvira
at 2017-02-17T09:23
at 2017-02-17T09:23
By Kristin
at 2017-02-17T23:12
at 2017-02-17T23:12
By Ursula
at 2017-02-22T21:02
at 2017-02-22T21:02
By Edwina
at 2017-02-23T20:06
at 2017-02-23T20:06
By Carol
at 2017-02-27T19:35
at 2017-02-27T19:35
By Oscar
at 2017-03-01T15:40
at 2017-03-01T15:40
By Skylar Davis
at 2017-03-05T19:53
at 2017-03-05T19:53
By Margaret
at 2017-03-06T16:20
at 2017-03-06T16:20
By Suhail Hany
at 2017-03-07T20:47
at 2017-03-07T20:47
By Damian
at 2017-03-10T10:01
at 2017-03-10T10:01
By Delia
at 2017-03-14T05:11
at 2017-03-14T05:11
By Ethan
at 2017-03-14T11:05
at 2017-03-14T11:05
By Lauren
at 2017-03-18T13:59
at 2017-03-18T13:59
By Rae
at 2017-03-19T17:14
at 2017-03-19T17:14
By Xanthe
at 2017-03-19T23:00
at 2017-03-19T23:00
By Susan
at 2017-03-20T09:48
at 2017-03-20T09:48
By Gary
at 2017-03-23T06:37
at 2017-03-23T06:37
By Lucy
at 2017-03-26T13:31
at 2017-03-26T13:31
By Dorothy
at 2017-03-27T03:46
at 2017-03-27T03:46
By Mary
at 2017-03-28T20:21
at 2017-03-28T20:21
By Ingrid
at 2017-03-30T18:39
at 2017-03-30T18:39
By Olive
at 2017-04-01T22:16
at 2017-04-01T22:16
By Tom
at 2017-04-03T06:49
at 2017-04-03T06:49
By Elvira
at 2017-04-06T23:30
at 2017-04-06T23:30
By Tom
at 2017-04-09T20:50
at 2017-04-09T20:50
By Linda
at 2017-04-13T11:45
at 2017-04-13T11:45
By Gilbert
at 2017-04-14T06:41
at 2017-04-14T06:41
By Jessica
at 2017-04-17T13:12
at 2017-04-17T13:12
By Elma
at 2017-04-22T07:03
at 2017-04-22T07:03
By Kumar
at 2017-04-23T19:05
at 2017-04-23T19:05
By Frederica
at 2017-04-26T00:12
at 2017-04-26T00:12
By Elma
at 2017-04-29T18:34
at 2017-04-29T18:34
By Edith
at 2017-05-01T22:58
at 2017-05-01T22:58
By Hardy
at 2017-05-06T04:14
at 2017-05-06T04:14
By Quanna
at 2017-05-11T02:28
at 2017-05-11T02:28
By Gary
at 2017-05-11T07:34
at 2017-05-11T07:34
By Lydia
at 2017-05-16T03:36
at 2017-05-16T03:36
By Ophelia
at 2017-05-19T19:20
at 2017-05-19T19:20
By Sarah
at 2017-05-21T09:57
at 2017-05-21T09:57
By Connor
at 2017-05-25T11:21
at 2017-05-25T11:21
By Charlotte
at 2017-05-25T15:26
at 2017-05-25T15:26
By Jacob
at 2017-05-26T15:20
at 2017-05-26T15:20
By Charlotte
at 2017-05-28T03:49
at 2017-05-28T03:49
By Linda
at 2017-06-01T15:42
at 2017-06-01T15:42
By Eartha
at 2017-06-05T02:39
at 2017-06-05T02:39
By Mary
at 2017-06-08T18:34
at 2017-06-08T18:34
By Ingrid
at 2017-06-12T02:05
at 2017-06-12T02:05
By Quintina
at 2017-06-16T02:10
at 2017-06-16T02:10
By James
at 2017-06-19T09:06
at 2017-06-19T09:06
By Mason
at 2017-06-24T03:03
at 2017-06-24T03:03
By Kumar
at 2017-06-26T09:05
at 2017-06-26T09:05
By Liam
at 2017-06-27T09:32
at 2017-06-27T09:32
By Tristan Cohan
at 2017-06-28T22:19
at 2017-06-28T22:19
By Eartha
at 2017-07-02T14:04
at 2017-07-02T14:04
By Eartha
at 2017-07-05T04:47
at 2017-07-05T04:47
By Edward Lewis
at 2017-07-09T23:12
at 2017-07-09T23:12
By Dorothy
at 2017-07-10T20:21
at 2017-07-10T20:21
By Harry
at 2017-07-13T22:44
at 2017-07-13T22:44
By Candice
at 2017-07-16T09:53
at 2017-07-16T09:53
By Vanessa
at 2017-07-18T07:40
at 2017-07-18T07:40
By Hedda
at 2017-07-22T03:40
at 2017-07-22T03:40
By Edith
at 2017-07-24T18:52
at 2017-07-24T18:52
By Doris
at 2017-07-25T03:54
at 2017-07-25T03:54
By Harry
at 2017-07-26T05:27
at 2017-07-26T05:27
By Adele
at 2017-07-27T06:51
at 2017-07-27T06:51
By Jessica
at 2017-07-31T01:49
at 2017-07-31T01:49
By Carol
at 2017-08-04T08:28
at 2017-08-04T08:28
By Sandy
at 2017-08-08T03:08
at 2017-08-08T03:08
By Skylar Davis
at 2017-08-12T01:07
at 2017-08-12T01:07
By Margaret
at 2017-08-13T05:54
at 2017-08-13T05:54
By Caroline
at 2017-08-17T14:11
at 2017-08-17T14:11
By Susan
at 2017-08-21T10:18
at 2017-08-21T10:18
By Zenobia
at 2017-08-25T00:31
at 2017-08-25T00:31
By Eartha
at 2017-08-27T11:08
at 2017-08-27T11:08
By Olive
at 2017-08-29T17:03
at 2017-08-29T17:03
Related Posts
太一旅行社1000元折價券
By Donna
at 2016-12-14T22:43
at 2016-12-14T22:43
類似的宴客白紗
By Irma
at 2016-12-14T20:47
at 2016-12-14T20:47
贈送 婚紗(逢甲自取)
By Heather
at 2016-12-14T19:02
at 2016-12-14T19:02
台中法式指甲推薦
By Kama
at 2016-12-14T18:44
at 2016-12-14T18:44
屬虎可以參加文定儀式嗎?
By Zora
at 2016-12-14T17:47
at 2016-12-14T17:47