請給我一些觀點取代的正向力量 - 婚姻
By Damian
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at 2022-05-13T14:16
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事情是這樣的:
昨晚我和先生約定好要做愛,好不容易把手頭的工作全部完成,兩個人都躺在床上準備要開
始的時候。
先生略帶喜悅地說,我要看片片(對,就是A片)。於是就下床去把拿了平板出來躺回自己
的位置(我旁邊),然後打開網站開始瀏覽片單。
我這邊當下的想法是:
wtf? 我整個真人就躺在你旁邊,你直接略過我拿著一個平面冰冷的機器,說要想辦法讓自
己硬起來?而且是因為要體貼我,怕我太累?
我當下的感受是:
極度的屈辱感,當場就炸毛了。(我向來都習慣以檢討自己為出發點,所以我的表現方式是
不停地哭)
雖然我在信任的部份很感謝我先生這麼真實的做自己,但情感面和性魅力(自我價值感)方
面我打擊實在太大難以平復。
有心理準備會聽到各式各樣的想法,發這篇文也有徵得先生同意,希望可以聽見,如果是你
們,會怎樣看待這次發生的事件?
一些背景資料的補充:
1. 兩人在一起(交往+結婚)不到五年。
2. 雙方體態皆維持正常。
3. 我不會吝於營造情趣。
4. 在性方面的需求:女高於男,希望一週至少1~2次。(次數為經過溝通,雙方能接受的結
果)
5. 可能對先生來說的缺點:我太主動,提出需求的基本都是我。(在這件事上我的觀念比
較傳統,認為男生採主動我會比較有成就感和被需要的感覺;只是因著想對自己的感受誠實
,所以表現出來幾乎都是我開口。或許也因為這種已經“不計形象”的想法,所以這次先生
舉動我的委屈指數不只達到極點,而是爆棚了....)
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昨晚我和先生約定好要做愛,好不容易把手頭的工作全部完成,兩個人都躺在床上準備要開
始的時候。
先生略帶喜悅地說,我要看片片(對,就是A片)。於是就下床去把拿了平板出來躺回自己
的位置(我旁邊),然後打開網站開始瀏覽片單。
我這邊當下的想法是:
wtf? 我整個真人就躺在你旁邊,你直接略過我拿著一個平面冰冷的機器,說要想辦法讓自
己硬起來?而且是因為要體貼我,怕我太累?
我當下的感受是:
極度的屈辱感,當場就炸毛了。(我向來都習慣以檢討自己為出發點,所以我的表現方式是
不停地哭)
雖然我在信任的部份很感謝我先生這麼真實的做自己,但情感面和性魅力(自我價值感)方
面我打擊實在太大難以平復。
有心理準備會聽到各式各樣的想法,發這篇文也有徵得先生同意,希望可以聽見,如果是你
們,會怎樣看待這次發生的事件?
一些背景資料的補充:
1. 兩人在一起(交往+結婚)不到五年。
2. 雙方體態皆維持正常。
3. 我不會吝於營造情趣。
4. 在性方面的需求:女高於男,希望一週至少1~2次。(次數為經過溝通,雙方能接受的結
果)
5. 可能對先生來說的缺點:我太主動,提出需求的基本都是我。(在這件事上我的觀念比
較傳統,認為男生採主動我會比較有成就感和被需要的感覺;只是因著想對自己的感受誠實
,所以表現出來幾乎都是我開口。或許也因為這種已經“不計形象”的想法,所以這次先生
舉動我的委屈指數不只達到極點,而是爆棚了....)
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