說不是賣女兒但是讓我很難堪 - 結婚
By Margaret
at 2014-09-08T16:43
at 2014-09-08T16:43
Table of Contents
我是女方
我們沒有請媒人提親
原本雙方家長見面只說是聊天 但是後來聊到聘金方面的事情
所以雙方直接就當作那天提親 回去算好日子在用電話跟女方說
當初講好是
大聘30萬(擺好看的 會退回)
餅錢12萬
小聘6萬6含給新娘買新衣
其他訂婚的禮俗就用紅包代替
加起來大概20萬
在這中間為了聘金也跟我媽吵了很多次
因為我媽沒工作爸爸已經不再
所以我們家裡經濟算是我在支撐
但是我覺得我有能力養家
不需要靠結婚靠婆家的錢來養我媽
但是我媽覺得他養我這麼大 就算拿一點錢又有什麼關係
而且他覺得男方給的算很少
他本來是要36萬聘金全拿不含其他
然後今天帶男友回我家過中秋
剛好聊到聘金的事情
忽然阿媽就說
還是請男方直接付36萬
含所有餅錢 小聘 跟訂婚的紅包
剩下的給我當嫁妝
我就有點傻眼
因為當初提親不是已經講好多少
為什麼忽然在我男友面前又提到這件事情
而且比原本的多了16萬
加上我知道我媽的個性
這16萬絕對是進她口袋 不是給我當嫁妝
我不是在意這筆錢是不是真的要給我
但是我覺得不合理
而且在男友面前提
難道男生好意思拒絕媽
我覺得真的比原本多很多
就開始臭臉
我男友就出來打圓場
問我媽說那就是簡單一點36萬給你們
看最後剩下多少在退或是當嫁妝囉?
我媽就反應超大
直接說這筆錢沒有要退喔
36萬她就是收下
以後我們要買房子還是要用錢在拿出來
講的超清楚說沒有要退也不是把錢轉為嫁妝
她就是要先收到口袋 以後會不會給我也不知道
所以我大臭臉
覺得超丟臉的
還一直說不是賣女兒
要錢要的這麼明顯
真的很無言........
超級不爽
--
Sent from my Android
--
我們沒有請媒人提親
原本雙方家長見面只說是聊天 但是後來聊到聘金方面的事情
所以雙方直接就當作那天提親 回去算好日子在用電話跟女方說
當初講好是
大聘30萬(擺好看的 會退回)
餅錢12萬
小聘6萬6含給新娘買新衣
其他訂婚的禮俗就用紅包代替
加起來大概20萬
在這中間為了聘金也跟我媽吵了很多次
因為我媽沒工作爸爸已經不再
所以我們家裡經濟算是我在支撐
但是我覺得我有能力養家
不需要靠結婚靠婆家的錢來養我媽
但是我媽覺得他養我這麼大 就算拿一點錢又有什麼關係
而且他覺得男方給的算很少
他本來是要36萬聘金全拿不含其他
然後今天帶男友回我家過中秋
剛好聊到聘金的事情
忽然阿媽就說
還是請男方直接付36萬
含所有餅錢 小聘 跟訂婚的紅包
剩下的給我當嫁妝
我就有點傻眼
因為當初提親不是已經講好多少
為什麼忽然在我男友面前又提到這件事情
而且比原本的多了16萬
加上我知道我媽的個性
這16萬絕對是進她口袋 不是給我當嫁妝
我不是在意這筆錢是不是真的要給我
但是我覺得不合理
而且在男友面前提
難道男生好意思拒絕媽
我覺得真的比原本多很多
就開始臭臉
我男友就出來打圓場
問我媽說那就是簡單一點36萬給你們
看最後剩下多少在退或是當嫁妝囉?
我媽就反應超大
直接說這筆錢沒有要退喔
36萬她就是收下
以後我們要買房子還是要用錢在拿出來
講的超清楚說沒有要退也不是把錢轉為嫁妝
她就是要先收到口袋 以後會不會給我也不知道
所以我大臭臉
覺得超丟臉的
還一直說不是賣女兒
要錢要的這麼明顯
真的很無言........
超級不爽
--
Sent from my Android
--
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