被欺負的人大都是內向或太善良的人 - 人際關係
By Olivia
at 2010-02-05T23:06
at 2010-02-05T23:06
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被欺負與否應該是看當事者本身怎麼想吧
基本上 真正善良的人是不會有"人善被人欺"的想法
被欺負該如何定義呢?
如果同事總是把事情丟給你 把問題攬到你身上 或者老是吐你槽
你可以選擇生氣或懷恨在心 因為你覺得你被欺負
你也可以選擇靜下心來想 你跟他是否曾經有過節有不愉快
你也可以選擇不想那麼多 事情來就做 被吐槽就當做是他開你玩笑 一笑置之
如果有人真的擺明就喜歡欺負你
教你一招吧 你就讓他欺負 也不要回應他
不久他便會覺得自己很無聊很低級而自討沒趣
※ 引述《s00771book (59302104)》之銘言:
: 在我自己觀察的結果
: 我覺得被欺負的人
: 好像都是那種內向
: 要不然就是很善良的人
: 然到現在大家都"欺善怕惡"
: 大家都因為不想被欺負
: 所以去崇尚惡勢力......
: 我也曾經是 善良被欺負的人
: 雖然到最後我變壞
: 但是我還是不會欺負別人
: 我只壞我自己的事
: 我反而還會暗中 幫助被欺負人的人
: 我終於明白
: 我有一個大學老師說的話
: 中國人是虛偽 自私又醜陋的動物....
--
基本上 真正善良的人是不會有"人善被人欺"的想法
被欺負該如何定義呢?
如果同事總是把事情丟給你 把問題攬到你身上 或者老是吐你槽
你可以選擇生氣或懷恨在心 因為你覺得你被欺負
你也可以選擇靜下心來想 你跟他是否曾經有過節有不愉快
你也可以選擇不想那麼多 事情來就做 被吐槽就當做是他開你玩笑 一笑置之
如果有人真的擺明就喜歡欺負你
教你一招吧 你就讓他欺負 也不要回應他
不久他便會覺得自己很無聊很低級而自討沒趣
※ 引述《s00771book (59302104)》之銘言:
: 在我自己觀察的結果
: 我覺得被欺負的人
: 好像都是那種內向
: 要不然就是很善良的人
: 然到現在大家都"欺善怕惡"
: 大家都因為不想被欺負
: 所以去崇尚惡勢力......
: 我也曾經是 善良被欺負的人
: 雖然到最後我變壞
: 但是我還是不會欺負別人
: 我只壞我自己的事
: 我反而還會暗中 幫助被欺負人的人
: 我終於明白
: 我有一個大學老師說的話
: 中國人是虛偽 自私又醜陋的動物....
--
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