被欺負的人大都是內向或太善良的人 - 人際關係

Olivia avatar
By Olivia
at 2010-02-05T23:06

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被欺負與否應該是看當事者本身怎麼想吧
基本上 真正善良的人是不會有"人善被人欺"的想法
被欺負該如何定義呢?
如果同事總是把事情丟給你 把問題攬到你身上 或者老是吐你槽
你可以選擇生氣或懷恨在心 因為你覺得你被欺負
你也可以選擇靜下心來想 你跟他是否曾經有過節有不愉快
你也可以選擇不想那麼多 事情來就做 被吐槽就當做是他開你玩笑 一笑置之

如果有人真的擺明就喜歡欺負你
教你一招吧 你就讓他欺負 也不要回應他
不久他便會覺得自己很無聊很低級而自討沒趣

※ 引述《s00771book (59302104)》之銘言:
: 在我自己觀察的結果
: 我覺得被欺負的人
: 好像都是那種內向
: 要不然就是很善良的人
: 然到現在大家都"欺善怕惡"
: 大家都因為不想被欺負
: 所以去崇尚惡勢力......
: 我也曾經是 善良被欺負的人
: 雖然到最後我變壞
: 但是我還是不會欺負別人
: 我只壞我自己的事
: 我反而還會暗中 幫助被欺負人的人
: 我終於明白
: 我有一個大學老師說的話
: 中國人是虛偽 自私又醜陋的動物....

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Hedy avatar
By Hedy
at 2010-02-06T13:33
中肯
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By Tristan Cohan
at 2010-02-11T09:15
不對 逆來順受不是解決問題的方法
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By Genevieve
at 2010-02-13T16:07
這樣會被人當成擠身一方勢力的跳板的
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By Bethany
at 2010-02-16T07:46
我反而覺得如果對方喜歡欺負你 而你不回應 反而會更慘
反擊吧~為什麼要想這麼多,當別人侵犯到底線,也要適當反擊
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By Carolina Franco
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老虎不發威 把你當病貓 適當反擊是必要的
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By Una
at 2010-02-19T01:56
不反擊有點扯 到時你的權益會被犧牲
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By Christine
at 2010-02-19T19:49
逆來順受反而招來軟土深掘哦
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