老婆想要搬出去 - 婚姻

By Hamiltion
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我想請問一下
跟一個不喜歡 甚至討厭 看不慣 而且對方也很敵視自己 常背後講我壞話的人 每個禮拜
吃一次飯 很簡單嗎?
如果是跟這樣的人 我連他在我隔壁的小便斗尿20秒 都覺得氣氛尷尬想快點閃人了 一個
禮拜一起吃一次飯 那真的不是生不如死可以形容了
說不定每週四週五想到這個任務 可能全身都不舒服了 我真的無法理解什麼叫做「反正就
是一個禮拜吃一次飯有什麼大不了?」當然 每個人經歷過的不同 有人可能覺得更誇張的
公婆很多 所以比較起來這算小事 不過 那又怎樣?不對的事還是不對(藉親情的控制與
勒索)
順便一提
如果這個可怕的要求老婆必須收下 那真的只有一個禮拜吃一次飯嗎?既然這個關係已被
認可:「接受資助就必須順從」那麼 界限在哪裡?哪天進自己買的房子房間看看媳婦的
抽屜有沒有關好 幫兒子打掃房間地板 可以嗎?誰能保證?還是「到時候再說 大不了到
時再離婚?」如果是老婆 就會聯想到往後二三十年都是被相同枷鎖控制的
順帶二提
老婆有無法接受夫妻獨立自主的健康生活嗎?為什麼很多人私自假設沒了老公家免費的房
子和高薪 老婆就沒辦法過好的生活?30歲雙薪夫妻 雙方都月薪4萬6 養兩個小孩 這不
就是現代一般台灣年輕人的寫照嗎?租屋或打拼貸款買房 過著一般人的日子 如果夫妻恩
愛互相體諒 是什麼淒慘的人生嗎?我都要羨慕死了 我不羨慕而感覺單身真好的時候 反
而是看到靠著父母的資助 然後被綁住被控制住的人生 這種心理不健康的關係 會幸福才
有鬼(若在這種生活環境下能自認快樂的人 非常有必要去找心理諮商聊聊是否曾經過去
有什麼缺憾一直默默影響著自己而不自知) 總之 我覺得老婆的想法一丁點過分都沒有
她只是想要個獨立健康的家庭生活而已 學費怎樣 房貸怎樣 用不著替他們操心
順帶三提
在父母公司拿月薪八萬的人 以我過去的經驗 若沒有在一般公司工作過 而且父母公司是
小企業小工廠那種 瞬間辭職去外面找的話 五年工作經驗大概薪水很難有4萬吧 至少很難
比老婆的4萬6高的 原PO擔心的狀況除了沒辦法過富二代的爽日子 還有一堆傳統男人會焦
慮的老婆更傑出的狀況吧
順帶四提
家事7比3這種不知道是怎麼算出來的 我每次聽到這種數字 總是會懷疑自我感覺良好的成
份可能會扣掉一些吧
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跟一個不喜歡 甚至討厭 看不慣 而且對方也很敵視自己 常背後講我壞話的人 每個禮拜
吃一次飯 很簡單嗎?
如果是跟這樣的人 我連他在我隔壁的小便斗尿20秒 都覺得氣氛尷尬想快點閃人了 一個
禮拜一起吃一次飯 那真的不是生不如死可以形容了
說不定每週四週五想到這個任務 可能全身都不舒服了 我真的無法理解什麼叫做「反正就
是一個禮拜吃一次飯有什麼大不了?」當然 每個人經歷過的不同 有人可能覺得更誇張的
公婆很多 所以比較起來這算小事 不過 那又怎樣?不對的事還是不對(藉親情的控制與
勒索)
順便一提
如果這個可怕的要求老婆必須收下 那真的只有一個禮拜吃一次飯嗎?既然這個關係已被
認可:「接受資助就必須順從」那麼 界限在哪裡?哪天進自己買的房子房間看看媳婦的
抽屜有沒有關好 幫兒子打掃房間地板 可以嗎?誰能保證?還是「到時候再說 大不了到
時再離婚?」如果是老婆 就會聯想到往後二三十年都是被相同枷鎖控制的
順帶二提
老婆有無法接受夫妻獨立自主的健康生活嗎?為什麼很多人私自假設沒了老公家免費的房
子和高薪 老婆就沒辦法過好的生活?30歲雙薪夫妻 雙方都月薪4萬6 養兩個小孩 這不
就是現代一般台灣年輕人的寫照嗎?租屋或打拼貸款買房 過著一般人的日子 如果夫妻恩
愛互相體諒 是什麼淒慘的人生嗎?我都要羨慕死了 我不羨慕而感覺單身真好的時候 反
而是看到靠著父母的資助 然後被綁住被控制住的人生 這種心理不健康的關係 會幸福才
有鬼(若在這種生活環境下能自認快樂的人 非常有必要去找心理諮商聊聊是否曾經過去
有什麼缺憾一直默默影響著自己而不自知) 總之 我覺得老婆的想法一丁點過分都沒有
她只是想要個獨立健康的家庭生活而已 學費怎樣 房貸怎樣 用不著替他們操心
順帶三提
在父母公司拿月薪八萬的人 以我過去的經驗 若沒有在一般公司工作過 而且父母公司是
小企業小工廠那種 瞬間辭職去外面找的話 五年工作經驗大概薪水很難有4萬吧 至少很難
比老婆的4萬6高的 原PO擔心的狀況除了沒辦法過富二代的爽日子 還有一堆傳統男人會焦
慮的老婆更傑出的狀況吧
順帶四提
家事7比3這種不知道是怎麼算出來的 我每次聽到這種數字 總是會懷疑自我感覺良好的成
份可能會扣掉一些吧
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